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U Up? • Betches

U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new episodes, plus bonus subscriber-only episodes. To sign up and become a friend (with benefits) today head to: subscribe.betches.com

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U Up? • Betches

Episodes

  • SOS: I've Invested Too Much In A Dead-End Situationship To Walk Away

    In this episode of U Up?, the hosts provide advice to a caller who enjoys a casual relationship with a man but struggles with his reluctance to commit. Despite spending quality time together and sharing a physical connection, the man has been upfront about not wanting a serious relationship given his current focus on work and parenting.

    The caller wrestles with confusion and expectations of more commitment, while the hosts assess the situation through the lens of mutual understanding and open communication. They counsel the caller on managing her expectations, communicating her desires clearly, and prioritizing her well-being if her relationship goals differ from her partner's. The discussion underscores the importance of aligned expectations and shared vision for a relationship's success.

    Mar 10, 2024

  • If It’s Giving Boyfriend, Just Say That

    In this episode of U Up?, Jared and Jordana reflect on the impact their advice has had on listeners like Rob, who gifts them tokens of appreciation for helping him navigate personal growth. The hosts also share details about Jordana's upcoming tropical getaway and Jared's memorable yet bizarre birthday celebration.

    The conversation explores the significance of introducing romantic partners to parents. Jordana questions the need for parental approval, while Jared acknowledges the role of close family bonds in relationships. They examine the nuances of this social milestone and conclude that family happiness should take precedence over external validation.

    Mar 6, 2024

  • Is Jared Just Like The Bachelor? ft. Joey Graziadei

    In this episode of U Up?, Joey Graziadei, a tennis pro cast on The Bachelor, shares his experience on the popular dating show and his overall perspective on relationships and dating. He discusses the challenges of dating on a small island like Hawaii, which led to his opportunity on the show. Joey reflects on handling the role of The Bachelor with authenticity and care for the contestants.

    Joining host Jared Freid, Joey offers dating insights and contrasts their approaches, from texting and first dates to exclusivity and breakups. In a game segment, Joey and Jared reveal their relationship preferences, showcasing alignments and differences in their dating styles. This insightful episode provides a behind-the-scenes look at The Bachelor experience while offering practical dating advice from Joey and Jared.

    Mar 3, 2024

  • When To Walk Away From The Person You’re Dating

    On this episode of the U Up? podcast, Jordana and Jared wade into the complex territory of knowing when to walk away from a dating partner. They unpack a challenging situation where, after five months together, a woman seeks commitment from her boyfriend who is hesitant due to past relationship trauma. The hosts offer insights on navigating emotional unavailability and avoiding settling when needs go unmet.

    Jordana shares a humorous story involving a memorable run-in with a tree before a date that left her sporting a sizable bruise. The hosts also recap their successful Valentine's mixer, dishing advice through games dissecting dating red flags and dealbreakers like a husband plagiarizing a Valentine's card. With a lighthearted yet empathetic approach, this episode provides thought-provoking guidance for modern dating dilemmas.

    Feb 28, 2024

  • How To Break Up Like A Gentleman

    Dive into the delicate intricacies of relationship etiquette with hosts Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham in the "U Up?" podcast, as they tackle the sensitive topic of parting ways with dignity. In a recent episode, the duo explores the aftermath of a listener's breakup which unfurled on Valentine's Day—a time when emotions run exceptionally high. Navigating the awkwardness of timing and the proper approach to ending a relationship, the episode offers listeners a chance to consider the consequences of their actions and how they might affect everyone involved.

    Shifting to the complexities of long-distance love, the podcast addresses the challenges of managing time zones and personal space. Through the lens of a listener's invasive early morning call from a significant other, Jared and Jordana emphasize the fundamental nature of consent and boundaries in nurturing a healthy long-distance relationship. They discuss how respect for personal limits and tangible plans to meet can reinforce a couple's connection, even when miles apart. "U Up?" continues to enlighten its audience on the nuances of modern dating with each episode, making it a valuable resource for contemporary love and life.

    Feb 25, 2024