How To Reprogram Your Mind For Abundance & Wealth | Brendon Burchard
In this episode of The School of Greatness, Brendon Burchard and Lewis Howes explore the psychological foundations of wealth and abundance. They discuss how wealth stems more from consistent self-perception than from temporary emotions, and examine the relationship between financial success and maintaining personal integrity. Through personal stories and examples, they address how daily actions and mindset shifts can help overcome scarcity thinking.
The conversation delves into practical strategies for building genuine fulfillment and prosperity, including the ZAPS concept for identifying self-sabotaging behaviors. Burchard and Howes also examine the role of gratitude and service in developing a sense of worth, and share insights about making decisions during uncertainty. The discussion covers methods for interrupting negative thought patterns and reframing challenges into opportunities for growth.
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The Psychology of Wealth and Abundance
In this episode, Brendon Burchard and Lewis explore the deeper psychological aspects of wealth and success. Burchard explains that wealth is more closely tied to consistent self-perception than fleeting emotions. He illustrates this through his personal experience as a struggling writer, highlighting how maintaining a wealthy mindset was crucial even during financial hardship. Lewis adds that true internal richness comes from aligning with one's self-worth and being honest with oneself.
Aligning One's Purpose, Actions, and Character
Burchard and Howes emphasize that genuine fulfillment comes from aligning with one's higher purpose rather than external achievements. Burchard advocates for engaging in daily acts of courage and finding a cause beyond oneself to fight for. He introduces the concept of "daily victories of integrity," suggesting that maintaining integrity in small actions can lead to clearer thinking and stronger character. The discussion emphasizes the importance of flexibility, adaptability, and curiosity in approaching challenges and growth.
The Importance of Gratitude, Service, and Generosity
Burchard expresses concern about people's inability to feel successful despite their achievements, attributing this to society's tendency to demonize success. He emphasizes volunteering as a direct path to discovering self-worth, sharing his experience with hospice work. Both Burchard and Howes discuss how gratitude and genuine giving can shift focus from self-concern to a broader sense of collective worth and abundance.
Overcoming Negative Thought Patterns and Self-Doubt
Burchard introduces the ZAPS concept (Zooming, Attaching Identity, Punishing, Shrinking) to describe self-sabotaging behaviors. He emphasizes the importance of interrupting catastrophizing thoughts by focusing on possibilities rather than problems. Drawing from Jeff Bezos's experience at Amazon, Burchard highlights the importance of making decisions with incomplete information and maintaining flexibility. He shares a personal story about how seeing his girlfriend sleeping under bills motivated him to overcome his scarcity mindset.
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- While wealth may be tied to self-perception, external factors such as systemic inequality and lack of access to resources can significantly impact one's ability to accumulate wealth, regardless of mindset.
- A wealthy mindset can be beneficial, but it is not a panacea for financial hardship, which often requires practical solutions and systemic change.
- Aligning with one's self-worth is important, but self-worth should not be solely defined by one's purpose or actions, as this can lead to an unhealthy sense of identity tied to productivity.
- Fulfillment from aligning with a higher purpose is subjective and may not apply to everyone; some individuals may find fulfillment in personal achievements or relationships.
- Daily acts of courage are valuable, but the concept of courage is subjective and can vary greatly between individuals and cultures.
- The idea that finding a cause beyond oneself is crucial may not resonate with everyone, as some people may prioritize personal or family commitments.
- Small victories of integrity are important, but they must be balanced with the need to sometimes compromise in complex social and professional situations.
- Flexibility and adaptability are important, but so is having a consistent set of principles and boundaries.
- Gratitude and giving are positive, but they should not be seen as a complete solution to feelings of inadequacy or societal issues.
- Volunteering is beneficial, but it is not the only path to self-worth, and not everyone may have the time or resources to volunteer.
- Overcoming negative thought patterns is important, but it is also important to acknowledge and address the root causes of those thoughts, which may be valid concerns.
- Focusing on possibilities is helpful, but it is also necessary to realistically assess problems to address them effectively.
- Making decisions with incomplete information can be necessary, but it also carries the risk of making uninformed or poor decisions.
- Overcoming a scarcity mindset is a complex process that may require more than motivation and action, such as structural support and opportunities.
Actionables
- You can create a "wealth mindset" journal where each day you write down how you perceive yourself as wealthy, not in financial terms, but in knowledge, relationships, and experiences. This practice helps reinforce a positive self-perception and can be particularly grounding during times of financial stress. For example, if you learned something new, jot it down as intellectual wealth; if you enjoyed a good conversation, consider it relational wealth.
- Start a "courage challenge" where you commit to doing one small thing that scares you every day. This could be as simple as speaking up in a meeting, trying a new food, or asking for help. The key is to step out of your comfort zone and reflect on these acts in a dedicated notebook or digital app, noting how each act made you feel and what you learned from it.
- Initiate a "gratitude and giving" experiment for a month where each day you find one thing to be grateful for and one way to give back without expecting anything in return. This could be sending a thank-you message, donating items you no longer use, or offering your time to help a neighbor. Track your actions and feelings in a log to observe the shift in focus from your own concerns to the collective good.
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The Psychology of Wealth and Abundance
Brendon Burchard and Lewis explore the concept of wealth, emphasizing that it is bound not by fleeting emotions but by enduring self-perception and feelings that come from deep internal work.
Wealth Is Aligning Feelings and Stories With Actions, Not Emotions
Scarcity Mindset Hinders Abundance Building
Burchard teaches that having a mindset of scarcity -- such as just focusing on filling a void or paying the bills -- is an established feeling that stops abundance from being accumulated. Emotions can be spontaneous reactions, whereas feelings are the narratives we craft around these emotions. Burchard reflects on how, after leaving his job to pursue a writing career, he pretended to be a successful writer and frequented famous cafes to fit a certain narrative, even though he was financially struggling.
Wealth Is Tied To Ongoing Self-Perception, Not Just Momentary Emotions
Burchard and Lewis discuss how wealth connects to a person's persistent self-view rather than temporary emotions. Burchard reached a moment in his life where he could not pay his rent, leaving him to choose betw ...
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- Wealth may not solely be about aligning feelings and stories with actions; economic factors, opportunities, and systemic barriers can also play significant roles.
- A scarcity mindset might sometimes be a rational response to actual limited resources and may encourage prudent financial management.
- Emotions can sometimes be a reliable guide for decision-making and not just spontaneous reactions without depth.
- Wealth can be influenced by external factors such as market conditions, social networks, and education, not just self-perception.
- A person's self-view can be shaped by their wealth, suggesting a bidirectional relationship rather than wealth being solely an outcome of self-perception.
- Financial stability and wealth can also come from practical financial planning and investment strategies, not just in ...
Actionables
- Create a "Wealth Alignment Journal" to track how your daily actions reflect your financial goals and self-worth. Start by writing down your financial goals and the feelings you associate with achieving them. Each day, jot down the actions you took towards those goals and reflect on whether they align with the feelings you're aiming for. For example, if you feel that saving money gives you a sense of security, note down when you chose to save instead of spend impulsively.
- Develop a "Scarcity to Abundance" mindset shift exercise by listing out all the things you feel you lack and then reframing them into opportunities for growth or gratitude. For instance, if you're worried about paying bills, reframe it by appreciating the services you're paying for and considering ways to increase your income or reduce expenses in a positive light, like starting a small side project that aligns with your interests.
- Implement a "Feelings-First Budgeting" method where you budget based on the feelings you want to cultivate rath ...
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Aligning One's Purpose, Actions, and Character
Brendon Burchard and Lewis Howes unpack the vital concept of aligning one’s actions and character with a higher calling rather than external accomplishments.
Achievement Isn't the Answer - Align With Your Higher Calling
Burchard and Howes propose that true fulfillment is found not through achievements, but by aligning with one's higher purpose and energies. Both stress the importance of being in tune with who you are and what you are truly meant to do.
Alignment: Daily Actions for Greater Purpose
Burchard emphasizes that busy work is insufficient if it does not resonate with one's higher calling. He advocates for aligning actions with one's nature and engaging in daily acts of courage to move towards that alignment. Howes also reflects on the significance of sticking up for himself and creating personal boundaries, actions that resonate with his greater purpose.
Burchard advises that it’s essential to find a cause beyond oneself to fight for. He asserts that the fight for something greater can elevate one from mere survival to higher levels of success and fulfillment. Despite doubts and negative thoughts, steps toward alignment with one’s true nature can clarify one's thoughts and strengthen one's integrity and character.
Flexibility, Adaptability, and Curiosity Drive Growth
Burchard illustrates that alignment leads to assignment and then abundance. He underscores the importance of prioritizing alignment as the initial step. Further, he introduces the concept of daily victories of integrity, proposing that maintaining integrity in small actions can mitigate negative feelings and lead to a cleaner mentality.
Consistency in acts of integrity, according to Burchard, aids in synchronizing thoughts and behaviors, fostering overall alignment. Lewis Howes exemplifies this as he insists on transparency, honesty, and clear boundaries in his relationships, aligning his daily actions with his greater purpose.
In the context of a relationship, Howes and his partner showed alignment by not forcing its progression. When uncertainty arose, his ...
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- While aligning actions with a higher calling can lead to fulfillment, it's important to recognize that achievements and external accomplishments can also provide a sense of satisfaction and are valid goals for many people.
- Daily acts of courage are important, but it's also necessary to acknowledge the value of rest and reflection in maintaining one's mental health and preventing burnout.
- The idea of finding a cause beyond oneself is noble, but it's also important to ensure that self-care is not neglected in the pursuit of larger causes.
- While striving for alignment with one's true nature is beneficial, it's also important to consider that people's understanding of their true nature can evolve over time, and flexibility in self-perception is key.
- The concept of daily victories of integrity assumes a clear understanding of what integrity means, which can vary greatly among individuals and cultures.
- Consistency in acts of integrity is ideal, but it's also necessary to allow room for human error and the understanding that people can learn and grow from their mistakes.
- Transparency and honesty are important in relationships, but there must also be space for privacy and personal boundaries.
- Trusting the process in relationships is valuable, but it's also crucial to be proactive in addressing issues and communicating needs.
- While chasing societal pursuits can lead to resentment, societal norms and expectations can also provide a f ...
Actionables
- You can create a personal mission statement that reflects your higher calling and use it to guide your daily decisions. Start by reflecting on what you feel deeply passionate about and how you can contribute to it through your actions. Write a statement that encapsulates this passion and purpose. Then, before making decisions or starting tasks, ask yourself if they align with your mission statement. This practice will help you stay focused on activities that resonate with your true self and avoid those that don't contribute to your sense of fulfillment.
- Develop a "courage journal" to document daily acts of courage that align with your higher calling. Each day, identify one action that feels slightly outside your comfort zone but aligns with your greater purpose. It could be as simple as speaking up in a meeting, reaching out to a new contact, or dedicating time to a cause you care about. Write down what you did, how it felt, and the outcome. This will not only reinforce your commitment to your higher calling but also help you track your growth over time.
- Implement a weekly "alignment audit" to assess h ...
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The Importance of Gratitude, Service, and Generosity
Brendon Burchard delves into the themes of gratitude, service, and generosity, emphasizing their importance in achieving a sense of abundance and internal peace.
Celebrating and Internalizing One's Successes Is Crucial, but Often Lacking
Burchard expresses concern that people often do not feel successful despite their achievements because they have not learned to connect their victories to their identity and character. He argues that society isn't good at celebrating success and tends to demonize top achievers. This societal tendency leads to a fear of recognizing one's own achievements due to the misconception that acknowledgment of success is ego-driven. He points out that many people have not genuinely celebrated their victories and need to be taught to understand and celebrate their life's progress.
Volunteering Cultivates Self-Worth and Humanity
Volunteering is highlighted by Burchard as a direct path to discovering one's value and worth. He suggests that volunteering, by investing time and energy to meet the needs of others, can ignite a sense of humanity within oneself. He discusses his own experience in hospice volunteer work, noting the importance of extending oneself to others during periods of pain and loss. Burchard believes that volunteering and engaging in acts of service can lead to an expansion in humanity, moving beyond the concern of self-worth.
Gratitude and Service Shift Mindset to Abundance
Burchard stresses that authentic giving and generosity can shift a person's focus from concerns of self to a feeling of collective worth and the realization of abundance. He suggests that gratitude frames the way we per ...
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- Society's view on achievers is complex, and while some may demonize top achievers, others celebrate and idolize them, suggesting that the issue may be more nuanced than presented.
- The act of celebrating one's own successes could potentially lead to hubris if not balanced with humility and self-awareness.
- Volunteering, while beneficial, is not the only path to cultivating self-worth; other forms of personal development and achievement can also contribute to a sense of value.
- The assertion that volunteering can ignite a sense of humanity assumes that all individuals will have the same emotional response to volunteering, which may not be the case due to personal differences.
- Acts of service can be motivated by a variety of factors, and not all may lead to an expansion in humanity; some may be driven by self-interest or a desire for recognition.
- The idea that gratitude and service always shift mindset to abundance may not account for individuals who struggle with mental health issues or those in extremely challenging circumstances where gratitude is harder to muster.
- While gratitude can positively frame life perception, it is not th ...
Actionables
- Create a "victory log" to celebrate your achievements by writing down three things you've accomplished each week, no matter how small, and reflect on the positive impact of these achievements. This practice helps you to acknowledge and appreciate your own successes, fostering a healthier self-image and combating the societal tendency to underplay personal victories.
- Start a "gratitude jar" where you write down one thing you're grateful for each day on a slip of paper and place it in the jar. Over time, this visual collection of positive thoughts can serve as a tangible reminder of the abundance in your life, shifting your mindset from scarcity to plenty.
- Implement a "one-for-on ...
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Overcoming Negative Thought Patterns and Self-Doubt
Brendon Burchard urges individuals to tackle negative thought patterns and self-doubt by adopting different perspectives and behaviors.
Negative Thought Patterns: "Zaps" (Zooming, Attaching Identity, Punishing, Shrinking) Can Sabotage Progress
Burchard introduces the acronym ZAPS to describe self-sabotage behaviors. "Z" stands for zooming in on a problem excessively, "A" for attaching one's identity to a problem, "P" for punishing oneself through harmful actions or neglect, and "S" for shaming or shrinking one's vision. These patterns can turn a small problem into a persistent negative thought pattern and playing small in life.
Interrupting Catastrophizing Is Key To Maintaining Motivation and Momentum
Catastrophizing is highlighted as a significant problem that can lead to learned helplessness. Burchard suggests focusing on possibilities and blessings instead of dwelling on what's wrong. To interrupt catastrophizing, he visualizes a "great commander" with an "army of angels" clearing paths in front of him, reaffirming his belief that things are being set up to benefit him even when he feels stuck.
Assertiveness, Confidence, and Acting With Incomplete Information Drive Breakthroughs
Burchard discusses the importance of assertiveness, especially when faced with discouragement. He believes successful people are assertive and confident because they have faith in their ability to figure things out with incomplete information. Confidence comes not from being perfect, but from action and learning. Jeff Bezos attributes Amazon's success to making decisions with 60% of information, emphasizing the importance of flexibility, adaptability, ...
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- While ZAPS may describe common negative thought patterns, it's important to recognize that not all negative thinking is inherently bad; sometimes it can serve as a protective mechanism or a realistic assessment of risks.
- The concept of catastrophizing can be oversimplified; for some individuals, what might seem like catastrophizing could be a symptom of deeper mental health issues such as anxiety or depression, which may require professional treatment beyond self-help strategies.
- Assertiveness and confidence are indeed valuable, but they must be balanced with empathy and consideration for others to avoid becoming overbearing or insensitive.
- Acting with incomplete information can lead to innovation and breakthroughs, but it can also result in mistakes and failures; it's important to acknowledge the value of due diligence and risk assessment in decision-making.
- The idea that being true to one's word builds self-belief is generally positive, but it can also create pressure to uphold commitments that may no longer be in one's best interest or that were made under duress o ...
Actionables
- You can reframe negative thoughts by creating a 'thought resume' that lists your positive achievements and skills to counteract the ZAPS. Whenever you catch yourself engaging in Zooming, Attaching Identity, Punishing, or Shrinking, pull out your thought resume and read it to remind yourself of your strengths and past successes. For example, if you're shrinking away from a challenge, your thought resume might highlight a past instance where you overcame a similar obstacle, reinforcing your ability to succeed.
- Develop a 'confidence portfolio' by recording instances where you acted assertively or made decisions with incomplete information. Keep a journal or digital note where you jot down these experiences, focusing on the outcomes and what you learned. This can serve as a reference for future situations where you need a confidence boost. For instance, if you're hesitant to voice your opinion in a meeting, look back on a recorded instance where you spoke up and it led to a positive result.
- Create a 'motivation map' to visualize your personal reasons for change and how they connect ...
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