In this episode of The School of Greatness, guest David Ghiyam challenges the notion that suffering is necessary for success. He asserts that limiting beliefs can sabotage manifestation and argues for adopting empowering mindsets. Ghiyam views humans as spiritual "vessels" that can expand or shrink based on habits and beliefs, impacting one's ability to receive abundance from the creator.
He recommends practices like journaling, surrounding oneself with successful individuals, prayer, meditation, and serving others to expand this vessel. Ghiyam and host Lewis Howes also explore the purpose of suffering and pain, suggesting they can be opportunities for growth when approached with love, faith, and an intent to transform.
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David Ghiyam challenges the prevailing belief that suffering is required for success, asserting that such limiting beliefs predispose the universe to make experiences align with these negative expectations. He explains that competing or limiting belief systems around worthiness can sabotage manifestation, as evidenced by entrepreneurs hitting self-imposed revenue ceilings.
Ghiyam recommends becoming aware of limiting beliefs by journaling, then replacing them with empowering beliefs. He also emphasizes surrounding oneself with people who have achieved one's desired success, as their mindset can inspire alignment between desires and beliefs.
Ghiyam describes humans as vessels containing spiritual energy, with habits and beliefs either expanding or shrinking this vessel. Consistent spiritual practices like prayer and meditation, serving others, and eliminating negative speech expand the vessel to hold more abundance. However, a limited vessel leads to cycles of lack, suffering, and inability to receive blessings.
Ghiyam sees the creator as an infinitely giving force aiming to bestow abundance upon individuals according to their soul-level contracts. However, he believes limiting beliefs block the flow of blessings. He encourages embodying light through generosity, certainty, and gratitude to transform and receive more opportunities.
Ghiyam and Howes view suffering as a spiritual "circuit breaker" that expands one's vessel and soul by presenting challenges for growth. They encourage embracing darkness as part of the path to greatness, responding with love, faith, and the intent to transform. Choosing light over judgment elevates the soul to attract positive outcomes, higher relationships, and fulfillment.
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David Ghiyam discusses how limited and competing belief systems can lower one's vibration and become obstacles to manifestation and abundance.
David Ghiyam expresses that the belief that suffering is necessary to succeed is a misperception. He challenges the prevailing belief system supported by 'grind culture' that one must suffer to be successful. In reality, he asserts, the process of manifestation is overwhelmingly dependent on one's belief system regarding what it takes to manifest success. This idea of suffering is so ingrained in societal thinking that it often hinders people's ability to manifest success in their lives without unnecessary hardship.
Ghiyam takes aim at the notion that hardship and impossibility are inherent in life's endeavors, positing that such beliefs predispose the universe to make experiences align with these negative expectations, affecting the manifestation of ease and success in various aspects of life, including personal relationships.
Ghiyam states that having a desire is an indication that one is meant to receive it. He conveys that the ability to see and feel something in your mind means it exists and you have to be open to receiving it. However, he warns that competing or limiting belief systems around worthiness and deserving can sabotage manifestation. For instance, a business owner whose companies consistently encounter problems at the 10-million-dollar revenue mark is likely sabotaging himself due to a subconscious belief that he doesn't deserve wealth beyond a certain amount.
Another example involves a business owner who avoids wanting new clients because this would require hiring more staff, signaling a competing belief system based on a dislike of managing employees. Ghiyam also addresses the importance of ensuring alignment in all desires, referencing couples having trouble getting pregnant where a subconscious part of them might say they don't want a child, representing a competing belief.
Belief systems and their impact on manifestation and abundance
In David Ghiyam’s view, understanding and expanding the spiritual "vessel" is crucial for one's personal and professional fulfillment.
Ghiyam describes humans as vessels of energy with an internal power likened to nuclear strength. Our vessel, Ghiyam suggests, embodies our capacity to hold energy and blessings, with our beliefs, thoughts, and actions either expanding or shrinking this vessel.
He talks about the highs and lows experienced when drawing energy through activities like gambling, drugs, alcohol, sex, and suggests that without a proper 'vessel' to contain that energy, we are prone to 'short circuits' - a flash of brilliance followed by darkness.
Ghiyam emphasizes that the state of our vessel is influenced by our actions and environment. For instance, poor habits such as bad eating can make individuals sluggish and shrink their vessels. He warns that blaming external factors further contributes to the shrinking of the vessel.
The process of expanding one's spiritual vessel involves consistent spiritual practices, serving others, and eliminating negative speech and judgment.
Ghiyam explains that spiritual practices are about transforming the vessel to hold more energy. His personal practice involves walking and talking out loud to the universe through prayer, a technology he believes increases frequency and expands one's vessel.
He speaks of the importance of giving rather than taking. His view is when we focus on giving, there's no fear, as this mirrors the creator's nature of generosity.
Ghiyam advises against negative speech which he says creates destructive negative forces. He counsels that these negative angels created from words of complaint, lying, gossip, and the like, block fulfillment.
The spiritual "vessel" and how to expand it
David Ghiyam and others delve into the profound relationship between individuals and the universal force that they describe as the creator, discussing how our inner beliefs can impact our ability to receive blessings and fulfill our soul-level contracts.
David Ghiyam portrays the creator as an infinitely giving force that aims to bestow abundance upon individuals. He likens this desire to that of a parent wanting to provide the best for their child. Ghiyam insists that the creator wants to give us everything unlimitedly and that the blessings we seek are already trying to come to us. Emphasizing that the universe or the creator is always in a default position of providing abundance, Ghiyam jokes that his struggle with financial abundance was making the creator look bad, as he believes we all deserve these blessings from the creator.
Ghiyam acknowledges that he was blocking energy from the creator due to his own limiting beliefs. He insists that to draw this energy, we must be clear about our belief system concerning what we deserve and are meant to receive. Ghiyam warns against the energetic sabotage that comes from jealousy and the "evil eye," discussing how speaking about one's work too early can prevent the reception of the universe's blessings. He recognizes the need for approval can keep one's spiritual vessel small and suggests that such validation should come from the creator rather than from people. By deciding to be a different person today, we can cleanse any negativity from the past and open ourselves up to receiving blessings.
Ghiyam suggests that our souls chose to be put into a world of darkness and challenges to become like the creator, as part of a celestial contract. Every test or challenge is designed to help us reach the next level. He talks about the soul's "tikkun" or the corrections needed, suggesting that we choose our circumstances at birth to address these issues. He even posits that Lewis Howes's father's challenges were part of the soul's journey, indicating a greater purpose behind them.
Ghiyam maintains that by embodying the light of the creator in actions, the universe will present more opportunities for transformation. He advocates for certainty beyond logic to attract positive outcomes. The discussion centers on the belief that holding space for possibility, despite the odds, can lead to achie ...
The role of the universe/creator and our relationship to receiving its blessings
Lewis Howes and David Ghiyam delve into the spiritual significance of suffering and pain, viewing them as essential elements of personal growth and spiritual expansion. They suggest that it is through challenges that individuals can grow and experience miracles.
Ghiyam refers to pain as a "circuit breaker" that arrives to cleanse negativity from a person and expand their spiritual vessel. He implies that pain increases one's capacity to hold energy and blessings, although it isn't the preferred method.
The hosts discuss the cycle of highs and lows, with the lows being a period of darkness that follows the fleeting 'high' of addictive behaviors. These behaviors lead to pain or suffering, which then act as a means to cleanse us of negative behaviors and expand our spiritual capacity.
Suffering and pain allow the soul to choose to become like the creator. Howes reflects on his father's car accident, implying that while it was a challenging time, it might have had a transformative effect on both their lives, stating, "His accident was everything I needed to step into the man that I always wanted to be."
Ghiyam expresses that challenges are part of the path to greatness, and everything, including events that appear dark, is ultimately good because it all comes from the Creator. He shares a transformational realization that his perfectionism and the pressure to succeed were tied to his way of representing spirituality. Acknowledging that the soul's challenges and difficulties are actually opportunities chosen for transformation, Ghiyam emphasizes that even the greatest darkness often leads to the greatest heights.
During a significant financial loss, Ghiyam got excited, seeing it as an energy shift and a precursor to reaching a new level of success. He asserts that darkness is a vessel for something great, suggesting that suffering should be the exception, not the norm, in a fulfilling life.
Howes also looks back on periods of personal difficulty, viewing them as catalysts for his growth by unlocking new opportunities and freeing him from people-pleasing behaviors.
The decision to respond to pain with positive emotions like love, empathy, and faith, rather than judgment and fear, is emphasized by the hosts. Howes recounts how his father's health challenges led him to find meaning and direction, reframing his suffering to ask, "how can I make the most of this pain and suffering?"
Ghiyam counsels not to judge others and to acknowledge that ...
The purpose and transformative power of suffering and pain
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