In this episode of the Pursuit of Wellness podcast, Mimi Bouchard shares her personal journey from struggling with disordered eating, substance abuse, and a victim mentality to achieving transformational growth and abundance. Bouchard discusses the power of her "Superhuman Activations" approach - visualizations and affirmations designed to rewire the brain to notice new opportunities aligned with one's elevated self-image.
The conversation explores overcoming limiting beliefs, embracing financial abundance, balancing feminine and masculine energies, and the potential pitfalls of excessive social media usage. Bouchard encourages listeners to take responsibility for their circumstances and shed insecurity to raise their energetic frequency and manifest abundance.
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Mimi Bouchard candidly discusses her past challenges with disordered eating, substance abuse, and a victim mentality before experiencing a pivotal transformation. While in university, she began visualizing her ideal life, recording affirmations that she listened to daily. Over time, these recordings evolved into the Superhuman Activations app.
Bouchard's activations differ from traditional meditation by energizing and motivating users to embody their aspirational selves. Unlike time-consuming meditation practices, activations can seamlessly integrate into daily routines.
According to Bouchard, consistent use of activations rewires the brain's reticular activating system to notice new opportunities aligning with one's positive self-image and elevated frequency.
Both Bouchard and Mari Llewellyn emphasize the importance of releasing the victim mentality and taking full responsibility to transform one's life circumstances. They stress interrupting negative thought patterns by replacing them with affirmations of personal accountability and growth.
Bouchard encourages women to overcome societal conditioning discouraging wealth and openly share financial successes to inspire others. She links abundance to one's energetic frequency, proposing that by raising self-image and shedding insecurity, opportunities increase.
Mimi voices concerns about social media's numbing and dissociative effects. To preserve mental health, she keeps Instagram deleted 90% of the time, focusing on quality content over endlessly posting.
Rejecting the notion of choosing careers over homemaking, Bouchard aspires to balance "feminine" domesticity with "masculine" business leadership. She suggests feminine energy like emotional intelligence can enhance professional productivity and success.
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Mimi Bouchard shares her journey from struggling with unhealthy habits and a negative self-image to becoming a successful entrepreneur with the creation of her Superhuman Activations app.
Mimi Bouchard candidly discusses her background, which included disordered eating, an eating disorder, victim mentality, and living a life far from her full potential. Bouchard’s younger years were marked by struggles, as she coped with the influence of a friend who taught her self-harm and substance abuse from a young age. She describes her early habits of heavy partying, smoking cigarettes, and drug use, including doing cocaine at her prom. These unhealthy practices were associated with alcohol consumption and a problematic lifestyle involving substance abuse.
Bouchard's transformative period in her small dorm room in Halifax, Canada, marked a shift in her life perspective. A wake-up call came when her body reacted negatively to her partying lifestyle during her first year of university. This, combined with her discovery of personal development books, began a significant transformation. Bouchard started engaging with motivational books and speakers, experimenting with different techniques, including vision boards and visualization. Although she found meditation boring, she preferred to create her dream life actively through visualization.
Bouchard's personal growth was also influenced by her decision to stop numbing her thoughts through intoxication, which enabled her to hear her inner voice more clearly and imagine a more successful future. She began to record personal visualizations and affirmations using the Voice Memos app on her phone and listened to these throughout the day. As the recorded visualizations helped her to feel her future and get excited about it, she created new recordings using better audio equipment and added music to enhance the impact, further aiding her progress.
Mimi Bouchard's Personal Development and the Creation of Superhuman Activations
Mimi Bouchard and Mari Llewellyn discuss activations, a motivational tool designed to energize and inspire users by incorporating positive affirmations into daily routines, fundamentally differentiating them from traditional meditation practices.
Mimi's activation app offers a unique approach that contrasts with traditional meditation, geared towards stillness and calm. Instead, her activations are infused with cinematic music and empowering words to uplift users and facilitate achievement and progression. These activations serve as constant reminders of one's future selves, inspiring feelings of empowerment and aliveness.
Mari Llewellyn discusses the accessibility of using activations from the Superhuman app while walking, cooking, or getting ready, emphasizing the ease of weaving them into the fabric of everyday life. Bouchard suggests that reversing the self-image process through activations can precede and ease the adoption of desired habits. By pressing 'play' on these activations during routine activities, users can hack their visualization practice without the additional time investment that effective meditation may require.
Mimi Bouchard explains the role of the brain's reticular activating system (RAS) as a mental filter, helping to bring noteworthy information into consciousness while filtering out the irrelevant. She illustrates how changing beliefs about oneself can transform the information the RAS chooses to present, leading to the perception of more opportunities ...
Transforming Self-Image and Mindset through Activations
Overcoming limiting beliefs and taking responsibility is a transformative process that involves stepping out of the victim mentality, recognizing personal accountability, and shifting to positive self-affirmations.
It's difficult to accept one's part in creating their current life circumstances. However, this acceptance is necessary to move forward.
During the podcast, Mimi Bouchard speaks about the comfort of blaming external factors for not being where she wanted to be in life. She admits that initially, it was easier to attribute the lack of success to her parents not having money and growing up in an environment where money was a perennial stressor. Accepting the hard truth that she is in charge of her own life was accompanied by discomfort and resistance, but it was a pivotal moment in her transformation.
Mari Llewellyn shares a similar story where she discusses applying the "bounce back theory," particularly in dealing with her diagnosis of borderline personality disorder. Her process of recovery involved acknowledging the frequency of self-harm and the importance of not dwelling in shame but instead focusing on recovery and the strategies that would lead to improvement.
Llewellyn's journey illustrates the empowerment that comes from taking responsibility for one's actions and committing to personal growth. Similarly, by acknowledging that her life's outcomes were the result of her own previous actions, Bouchard felt empowered to make significant changes. Both st ...
Overcoming Limiting Beliefs and Taking Responsibility
Mimi Bouchard and Mari Llewellyn engage in a candid discussion about women and financial success. They explore societal conditioning, shame, and the energetic frequency tied to abundance.
Mimi and Mari delve into the deep societal beliefs and conditioning that can discourage women from aiming for financial success and abundance. Bouchard discusses the negativity and difficulties around money that she experienced growing up, with her family not believing they were the type to be financially prosperous. Likewise, Mari Llewellyn shares her experience where there was a disdain for the wealthy, leading her to believe that significant financial success was not something meant for her.
Despite these challenges, Mimi stresses the importance of women being comfortable with wealth and discussing money openly. By sharing her financial abundance, Mimi aims to inspire and empower others. Encouraging Mari to speak about her success story with her multi-million dollar company, Mimi reflects on the positive impacts that such openness can have on other women. Llewellyn admits to feeling shame about her financial achievements, but also acknowledges the awkwardness she feels in discussing them publicly. Bouchard underscores the potential for creation if Llewellyn, and women in general, were to release the shame associated with financial success.
Mimi Bouchard speaks about the correlation between financial abundance and one's energetic frequency and self- ...
Embracing Financial Abundance and Success as a Woman
The addictive nature of social media apps can have a profound effect on individuals, leading some, like influencer Mimi Bouchard, to adopt strategies to disconnect and preserve mental health.
Mimi Bouchard and Mari Llewellyn discuss the negative effects that social media can have on one’s self-image and mental well-being, noting its addictive and numbing nature.
Mari Llewellyn shares how spending a significant amount of time on social media can leave her feeling unaligned and contribute to a negative mindset. She talks about the toxicity of comparing oneself to others on social media platforms, which can amplify insecurity about whether one has enough friends, is productive enough, or keeps up with fitness and lifestyle standards.
Mimi Bouchard agrees with the challenges of witnessing others’ high points on social media, which can distort self-image and contribute to a dissociated, numb state. Mimi further emphasizes the importance of being present and not letting social media distract from clarity and self-connection.
Mari also mentions that she has stopped reading comments on her social media to avoid the negative impact they can have on her self-image.
To combat the negative impact of social media, Mimi Bouc ...
The Impact of Social Media and Importance of Disconnecting
Mimi and Mari tackle the complex subject of blending traditional gender roles and energies in pursuit of a balanced life that doesn't sacrifice career aspirations for homemaking or vice versa.
They discuss how people, particularly women, face societal pressures to choose between a career-oriented "masculine" energy and a nurturing "feminine" energy in homemaking. They argue that this is a false dichotomy, suggesting instead that success can be found in embracing the fluidity of moving between different roles.
Mimi Bouchard touches on her own life, expressing a desire to start having children in the near future while continuing to run her business efficiently. She discusses the importance of reducing stress and anxiety as part of aligning her energies to manage both career and family life.
Bouchard elaborates on the possibility of simultaneously leading a decisively managed business and living a fulfilling domestic life, emphasizing the feasibility of tapping into various versions of oneself depending on the situation. She illustrates this by sharing her personal aspiration to own a property in the British countryside to nourish her feminine energy while also being a decisive boss in her professional ...
Integrating Feminine and Masinine Energy
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