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Meetings are the lifeblood of an organization—they are central to its success, but they often seem useless and too long. This presents a paradox—how can you make meetings productive when your staff views them as pointless? The answer is to make meetings better.

Death By Meeting uses the parable of a struggling executive to provide a roadmap for consistently productive meetings. Learn why attempting to defuse tension among employees is a mistake, and how injecting more drama into four unique types of meetings is the key to a more passionate, engaged, and successful team.

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Tell the team that you want conflict in meetings. However, people may still feel uncomfortable attacking their colleagues whom they respect. As a meeting leader, remind the team that what they’re doing is positive. Just a little bit of positive reinforcement goes a long way toward resolving tensions that could otherwise become personal and encouraging participants to have different opinions.

Problem #2: Poor Structure

Meetings are unproductive. They don’t yield any results that make people’s jobs easier or help the company make a big decision, so again, employees begin to resent them. This is because meetings are unfocused. People talk about various issues that don’t relate to one another. Most issues get short shrift while the team discusses others for far too long.

Usually, meetings work as follows. The boss schedules them for two hours. Before the meeting, the leader sends out a disparate agenda that includes somewhere between four and seven items to discuss. She solicits feedback on the agenda but gets none. The first couple topics (not necessarily the most important) take up the lion’s share of the two hours, and the team rushes through the rest. The team makes no decisions and everyone leaves disappointed and defeated, if not outright angry.

  • Someone is upset that the meeting went late.
  • Another person is mad that the group didn’t address his issue in full.
  • Another person was more frustrated by the administrative issues discussed and wanted more strategic talk.
  • Yet another had the opposite problem and found that they spent so much time brainstorming that they didn’t have enough time to go through important logistics related to her job.
  • Everyone is annoyed at the leader.

Think of these meetings like a stew filled with leftovers. The team chucks everything into the pot, without much regard or care for what’s going in. Because the meetings are inefficient, the leader attempts to schedule fewer of them, which makes them even more inefficient. The team discusses everything all at once.

Solutions

To solve problem two, leaders need to develop multiple types of meetings, with different purposes, formats, and uses. There are four different types of meetings.

The Check-In

This is the shortest meeting. It happens for five minutes at the beginning of each workday and is purely logistical: Who is here, who isn’t, and what everyone is working on today. Often, at the beginning of implementation, team members don’t find this meeting important, because it’s so fast. But it is an essential building block to better and more efficient communication—make sure it’s clear that this meeting is required.

Never cancel the meeting and keep it to five minutes at most. Don’t address anything beyond simple logistics here—other, larger problems can wait for the other meetings. People don’t even need to sit down for the check-in.

The Tactical

This meeting happens every week or every other week and lasts for around an hour. 45 minutes is a shorter tactical and 90 minutes is a longer one. It starts with everyone taking turns explaining, in under a minute, what they’re working on. After everyone knows what’s going on with everyone else, you and anyone you deputize gives updates on some larger logistical issues—how the budget looks, whether the team is hitting their sales goals, what the team is spending on advertising, and on from there.

Only then does the team create an agenda—this way, the agenda is based on what is actually going on at the company as reported by everyone involved. Address short term tactical challenges at this meeting, like whether to increase advertising for the month or whether to hire someone new. This meeting is meant to resolve and clarify short term obstacles to the company.

These tactical meetings don’t get into long-term strategic questions. Those are reserved for the next meeting.

The Strategic

This meeting is about large-scale strategies decisions. It happens every month or so and lasts anywhere from two to four hours. Sometimes, the timeline can change if a big strategic decision must happen right away. In this case, you can call an ad hoc strategic meeting. In both the ad hoc and the regular strategic meeting, though, this meeting is the one that will likely involve the most conflict and the one that can thus be the most fun.

Only the most salient questions are at issue in the strategic meeting—limit the agenda to two to three big questions. A lot of strategic questions will likely come up in the weekly tactical meetings, such as whether to expand into a new market or who advertisements are targeting, but prioritize the strategic questions they deem most important.

Additionally, everyone must come prepared with research. Conflicts, as previously discussed, are the lifeblood of these meetings, but if people arguing with one another don’t have data to back up their points, the conflict isn’t productive.

The Review

The final meeting is the review, which takes place about once a quarter off-site. Many companies do corporate retreats already, but these can function much better. They shouldn’t just function as a getaway. Rather, they involve long, important discussions about the direction of the business.

First, executives consider the direction of the company. They’ll review their strategic meetings and ask if their decision-making process has led to positive outcomes. They can also think about new challenges to their industry. This is where executives can get together and discuss the direction of their business or a new competitor eating into their market share in depth. Additionally, executives should assess their own performance and the performance of important employees.

These meetings aren’t too structured—the team can go into the off-site review with a basic understanding of some topics that they want to cover, but they don’t need a comprehensive agenda or a cutoff point. They don’t need hours of PowerPoints that often dominate these sessions. Finally, don’t include outsiders, like the family of the participants. It might seem fun to socialize, but this changes how the team interacts with one another, which is counterproductive to success.

Problem #3: Too Few Meetings

In general, if there are too few meetings, executives spend most of their time answering questions about logistics. In a big company, this can entirely consume an executive’s day. So these four types of meetings can actually significantly reduce meeting-like logistical activity during the rest of the day. If everyone gets on the same page, things will run much more smoothly.

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PDF Summary The Model | How to Have Productive Meetings

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  • You can interrupt the action at a meeting. If someone has a point that you disagree with, you can engage them in discussion.
  • Meetings are more relevant to our daily lives. They determine, in part, what we’ll be working on, how happy we are at work, how productive our work environment is, how much money we make, and how long our hours are.
Find a Hook

In every good movie, conflict starts within the first ten minutes. This is called the “hook”—it’s what draws people into the movie and makes them want to keep watching. A good meeting works the same way. A hook can take many forms, but it should explain the stakes. As the meeting leader, explain that the company is under threat, or that it’s struggling to make a dent in a new market, or that a bad decision could lead to these problems. Or, if you don’t want to start on a negative note, explain how a good decision could make life better for employees, clients, or the world.

Employees need a reason to care. Finding a hook is easy, because as we’ve illustrated, meetings do matter. They decide the direction of a company.

Find Conflict

After you’ve explained the stakes, look for disagreement. If there’s...

PDF Summary The Parable | Part 1: Yip Launches

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Growth

Unfortunately, despite all of this apparent success, it was clear to anyone who watched closely that Yip could have been twice as successful if it had a better CEO. Casey was good at spotting what customers wanted and had a clear understanding of the market. However, he didn’t care that much about winning big—he was happy if the company had a small margin and he could play golf occasionally.

It was especially clear that the company was lethargic from attending just one meeting. The Yip team knew their meetings were boring and unfocused, but they decided that it was just part of their business and they didn’t do anything about it. This was part of a larger problem of malaise. No one wanted to stay late, work weekends, or ever discuss work outside of the hours of 9 to 5. Everyone would get modest raises each year, and everyone felt comfortable.

When employees did get out of the office to go to work-related conferences, they saw a passion that was nowhere to be found at Yip. But employees rarely left. The CEO was a nice guy, and there weren’t that many jobs out there like theirs.

Lessons

  • Casey has all of the functioning parts of a good business, but...

PDF Summary Part 2: Dominos Start to Fall

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  • He wanted to keep running Yip.
  • He wanted to keep Yip’s management intact.
  • He wanted to keep the Yip name.

Playsoft agreed and they closed the deal. Casey’s employees got stock in Playsoft, which they could sell after six months. Yip employees were excited. Their day-to-day hadn’t changed, but they had new wealth in stock.

However, almost as soon as the acquisition was made, Playsoft stock took a tailspin. All the employees who had been ecstatic were devastated. Casey thought that J.T. would be apologetic, but instead, he asked to start sitting in on some Yip meetings.

Outside Interference

Even though Playsoft had promised Casey total control, they owned Yip, and the market was in a nosedive. So J.T. started coming to Casey’s meetings. They had their meetings like always—they passed out agendas, went around the room and discussed expenses for a long time, and then moved on to strategy. The strategy discussion didn’t impress J.T. The Yip employees didn’t seem concerned about their company’s future—it was like they were talking about a case study in business school. Finally, they moved on to discussions on advertising topics that had...

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PDF Summary Parts 3-4: Increased Scrutiny and Solutions

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After the meeting, as Will headed to lunch with Tim and Casey, Tim asked Will what he thought of the meeting. Will blurted out that it was terrible. He immediately felt bad, but later in the day, Casey told Will he didn’t mind that Will had told the truth. Casey, though, remained convinced that the problems with the meetings that J.T. had referred to in his email were simply a way for J.T. to get in the door, with the ultimate goal of taking Casey’s job. Casey remained fixated on the profits, which he said remained better than those of most of Playsoft’s product lines. Will began to worry that Casey wasn’t understanding the seriousness of the problems with the meetings.

At the next meeting, all of the same problems persisted. But this time, Will couldn’t take it anymore, and he blurted out his concerns to the entire group: They waste time, they don’t talk about anything important, essential people skip them consistently, and they deplete morale. Casey decided to clear the room, and he spoke to Will directly. He let Will know that he knew about his condition from his father. Casey was kind to Will, and when everyone came back, they agreed that he would apologize to the...

PDF Summary Part 5: Success

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At the end of the week, though, when Casey did a check-in, his teams were concerned—they weren’t agreeing with one another and felt they didn’t have enough data to make one clear suggestion. Casey reminded them all, though, that this was good. Well-articulated debate was what they were hoping for in the meeting.

The Big Day

When the day arrived for the meeting, Wade’s assistant informed Casey that Wade actually wouldn’t be coming. It was only J.T. who would be at the meeting and would have the final say. Casey was nervous.

As everyone filed into the meeting room, J.T. greeted Casey, and they commenced with discussion. The leader of the first team, Sophia, presented the question at issue—whether Yip should start making games other than sports.

As she began her presentation, Casey immediately interrupted, asking for a concrete recommendation. Sophia hemmed and hawed, but Will then interrupted, presenting his thoughts on the issue. A spirited debate, led by Casey, began. Casey stated up front that he was opposed to the idea of expansion into different kinds of games at the moment. Some on the team, though, argued that the numbers showed that they needed to expand,...

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