Book SummaryYour Baby's Bottle-feeding Aversion, by Rowena Bennett

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Grasping the root causes of a baby's rejection of bottle-feeding.

The root causes, encompassing both psychological and physical aspects, that lead to a reluctance to accept bottle-feeding.

Bennett emphasizes that caregivers must fully understand the psychological and physiological factors contributing to a baby's reluctance to eat to effectively address the issue. Rowena Bennett emphasizes that the issue often stems not from a single occurrence but rather from multiple negative experiences related to feeding.

Aversions to feeding often arise from experiences of stress and pressure.

Bennett emphasizes that infants frequently begin to resist feeding mainly as a result of experiencing stress and pressure. Parents may inadvertently exert what they perceive as helpful support or motivation for their child to finish their bottle, yet this can take the form of subtle but detrimental actions. These include imposing constraints on the infant's ability to reject the bottle by restricting their head or hand movements, persistently presenting the bottle even when the infant shows no interest or actively resists, maneuvering the bottle or the infant's jaw to promote sucking, or stealthily replacing a pacifier with the bottle. Additionally, they might engage in diversionary actions like humming, swaying, or offering playthings during the feeding process. Bennett emphasizes that babies clearly indicate when they are hungry and when they have had enough, and that pressuring them during feeding times can compromise their autonomy and comfort, transforming what should be a pleasant activity into a stressful and anxious ordeal.

Bennett contends that persistent exposure to such pressuring methods results in the development of an acquired distaste. The young child becomes resistant to eating, driven by the expectation of pain associated with feeding, which results in anxiety and the rejection of food even when famished. Bennett highlights that the very issues parents aim to avoid concerning their baby's milk intake or growth can inadvertently be brought about by their own concerned behaviors.

Physical conditions that could make the experience of feeding distressing or cause discomfort.

Bennett recognizes that certain medical conditions can result in an aversion to feeding because of the discomfort it may cause. Commonly diagnosed issues include gastroesophageal reflux, sensitivities to milk sugar, gastroparesis, bowel irregularities, lesions in the oral cavity, extensive candidiasis in the mouth, and the emergence of new teeth. Infants experiencing certain ailments might become so distressed that they associate feeding with discomfort, leading to a refusal of the bottle.

However, Bennett recommends careful consideration before quickly attributing feeding challenges to frequently mistaken culprits like acid reflux or sensitivities to milk. She argues that infants who are progressing well in other areas frequently show reluctance to feed if they associate eating with distress, assuming no physical health issues are involved. She underscores the importance of thoroughly assessing a baby's behaviors and cues rather than quickly...

Your Baby's Bottle-feeding Aversion Summary Various factors may increase the chances that a baby will become resistant to eating.

Bennett identifies several characteristics in babies that frequently result in an increased tendency to develop an aversion to feeding. These infants may not have any medical conditions that hinder their ability to feed effectively. Parents receiving misguided recommendations from healthcare professionals is more common when children exhibit atypical eating habits or growth patterns, potentially leading to the implementation of feeding strategies that inadvertently worsen a reluctance to eat.

Infants born prematurely or with a low birth weight

Bennett highlights that premature or underweight infants often develop a resistance to feeding, commonly due to the incorrect assumption held by caregivers that their feeding times need to be rigidly controlled. Healthcare providers, due to their focus on the well-being and progress of young children, frequently emphasize the importance of reaching certain targets for formula consumption instead of nurturing a baby's natural capacity to indicate their need for food and their satisfaction when full.

In such circumstances, parents frequently feel driven to control and shape their offspring's eating patterns.

Bennett notes that...

Your Baby's Bottle-feeding Aversion Summary The author proposes a method for resolving a reluctance to bottle-feed.

Bennett outlines a comprehensive approach to address issues with bottle-feeding reluctance, emphasizing the need to shift parental perspectives and to rely more heavily on the cues that infants instinctively provide. Her approach emphasizes cultivating effective strategies that bolster mealtime assurance and enhance enjoyment, all while fostering a deeper connection between the infant and the person providing care.

A Quintet of Steps for Successful Outcomes

Bennett presents a five-step strategy designed to help caregivers overcome the challenges encountered when an infant shows reluctance to bottle-feed. These strategies emphasize the importance of respecting the baby's cues and supporting their autonomy during mealtime.

Confirming the infant's well-being and its capacity for self-nourishment.

Prior to tackling the reluctance to eat, Bennett stresses the importance of ensuring the baby's physical well-being. An underlying illness, or any form of pain or discomfort, may greatly influence their desire to eat and their readiness to accept feeding. She therefore recommends obtaining a medical assessment by a child health specialist to rule out any underlying health...