In The Mental Toughness Handbook, Damon Zahariades provides a step-by-step guide to building mental fortitude and resilience so you can confront challenges and navigate adversity courageously. Mental toughness is a state of mind that you learn and earn through hard work, persistence, and patience. You build it by controlling negative emotions, cultivating your self-confidence, and reframing failures and setbacks as opportunities so you can bounce back from them better.
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Before we talk about how to cultivate mental toughness, you need to know what mental toughness is and how it can benefit you.
Zahariades defines mental toughness as strength and fortitude in the face of stress and obstacles. Mental toughness centers on your ability to effectively manage negative emotions like anger, fear, and sadness so they don’t control and lead you to make bad decisions. It also reflects your persistence and resilience in moments of hardship. Mental toughness isn’t something you’re born with, but a state of mind you can cultivate with patience, passion, and hard work.
(Shortform note: Experts say that the concept of mental toughness is rooted in the work of sports psychologist Dr. Jim Loehr, who worked with champion athletes. He defined mental toughness as the ability to consistently perform at the height of your talent and skill level regardless of who your competition is. Other experts honed Loehr’s definition to reflect a psychological edge that keeps you more focused, confident, and in control than your competitors are in the face of stress....
Now that we’ve mental toughness and the benefits it will bring to your life, we’ll look at six strategies Zahariades recommends to become mentally tough.
Zahariades says you have to embrace, understand, and manage negative emotions to perform at your peak. As we discussed earlier, emotions like anger and fear can derail you by leading you to make poor decisions or fail to take action.
(Shortform note: In The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, Mark Manson offers a rationale for why managing difficult feelings may help you perform at your best: Emotions are feedback tools that point you toward useful change. Negative emotions signal that you need to take action, while positive emotions signal that you’re on the right track. For example, if you feel sad that you’re alone, that’s a cue that you need company. If you feel happy that you washed all the dishes and straightened up your home and can now enjoy your calm space—that...
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Zahariades says that to cultivate mental toughness, you have to manage negative emotions like anger, sadness, and fear so they don’t overwhelm and control you.
Describe a time when you were consumed by a difficult feeling and made a decision you regretted.