You’ve got writer’s block. You’re passed over for promotion. Your personal life feels like it’s in a rut. You’ve been meaning to finish that half-built set of cabinets, but you just can’t seem to bring yourself to do it. Whatever the nature of your situation, we’ve all felt trapped at some time in our lives, when our sense of motivation drains away and all our hard work grinds to a halt.
In Anatomy of a Breakthrough, published in 2023, Adam Alter argues that when you feel like your path forward is blocked, it isn’t a sign of weakness or failure—instead, it’s a fundamental part of the human experience. Everybody goes through hard times in which we don’t feel like we’re making any progress and we can’t, for the life of us, see a clear way out. Because we often hide our frustration, we’re usually unaware that everyone else goes through the same thing time after time. However, just because you feel trapped doesn’t mean there’s no hope, and...
Unlock the full book summary of Anatomy of a Breakthrough by signing up for Shortform .
Shortform summaries help you learn 10x better by:
READ FULL SUMMARY OF ANATOMY OF A BREAKTHROUGH
Here's a preview of the rest of Shortform's Anatomy of a Breakthrough summary:
Alter begins by setting forth the problem, and it’s a problem that everyone faces more than once. Namely, you hit a wall in some aspect of your life, whether that’s your career, an important relationship, or a creative endeavor. In this section, we’ll break down some common characteristics of this experience, from the inevitable slowdowns in the middle of long-term projects to the traps that can sabotage progress. These traps typically culminate in a sense of failure that—if improperly framed—is the greatest motivation-killer of all.
When discussing the blocks that life throws in your path, we’re not talking about small everyday challenges, such as making a difficult phone call or fighting the urge to skip your regular workout. The major life-blocks that Alter addresses are those in which your progress on something important to you has stalled long enough that it’s wearing you down, and whatever you’re doing to fix the situation hasn’t been working at all. Maybe you’ve been applying for jobs without success, or you’re trying to lose weight but the pounds won’t come off. The situation feels like an existential threat, and your brain shuts down like a deer in the headlights,...
As anyone who feels like they’ve hit a wall knows, the hard part is picking yourself up and pushing on. Alter says that when you feel like progress has ground to a halt, there are a variety of ways to kickstart it again. These include remaining calm and being deliberate about your choices, resisting the urge to find a perfect solution, doing whatever it takes to keep moving, exploring a wide range of options and viewpoints, and increasing your odds of a lucky breakthrough by persisting even when you feel you’re going nowhere.
The first thing to do when you feel you’ve hit an impasse is to center yourself and calmly evaluate your situation. The anxiety that feeling trapped provokes can lead to rash and reckless decisions, but Alter says the antidote is to slow down even more, taking stock of your options as you do. Alter offers two strategies to deal with the anxiety brought about by feeling trapped.
The anxiety you feel when your progress gets stalled—whether you’re writing a grant proposal or training for an upcoming race—comes from an exaggerated need to perform. Your fight-or-flight instinct will try to kick in, pushing you to act and make...
This is the best summary of How to Win Friends and Influence PeopleI've ever read. The way you explained the ideas and connected them to other books was amazing.
Alter writes that feeling stuck in some aspect of life is something we all go through. Look back on a time when you felt progress had stopped, whether on a small project or a major life goal.
Describe the situation in which you felt trapped or that your progress was blocked. How long did it last before your progress resumed or changed direction? What was the emotional experience like?