On this episode of This Past Weekend with Theo Von, rapper Big X opens up about his journey from humble beginnings to rap stardom. He shares his early struggles and the impact of incarceration, which fueled his determination to provide a better life for his family through music. Big X reflects on the double-edged sword of fame—losing anonymity yet gaining opportunities to secure generational wealth.
Above all, the conversation highlights Big X's unwavering dedication to fatherhood. Despite navigating the complexities of relationships, his driving force remains creating a brighter future for his children, especially his son with autism and young daughter.
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From a young age working at Taco Cabana, Big X, influenced by his entrepreneurial parents, wanted to be his own boss as he found working for others unfulfilling. After jail time and facing fatherhood, sleeping on his grandmother's couch, he took up rapping seriously on his cousin's encouragement and his promise to be there for his son.
Big X's incarceration made him realize the pain of separation from family, recounting the trauma of spending a Thanksgiving in solitary, which fueled his resolve to provide a better life through his music career.
As Big X's rap career took off, he lost anonymity, with simple tasks like shopping drawing unwanted attention, says Big X. He requires heightened security due to perceived financial status making him a potential target.
Big X quickly spent his first $100K record deal irresponsibly before learning to build generational wealth through fiscal discipline and diversifying into movies and commercials to secure his children's future.
A proud father to a son with autism and young daughter, Big X finds immense motivation in providing for them, shaping his musical ambitions to create opportunities they lacked growing up. His goal is establishing their financial security.
While acknowledging the complexities of multiple romantic relationships, Big X, per his own words, remains devoted to being an attentive partner and positive influence for his children above all else.
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Big X's work ethic was evident from his first job at Taco Cabana at the age of 16, earning $7.50 an hour—an unexpected increase due to his performance. However, he found the experience of working for someone else unfulfilling, receiving a meager $200 paycheck after two weeks. Consistently, he never remained in a job for more than a few months, dissatisfied with the authority dynamics.
The young man’s ambition to become his own boss was deeply influenced by his entrepreneurial parents. The dissatisfaction from working under another's command at Taco Cabana galvanized his desire to chart his own path.
Following a stint in jail and the realization that he would soon be a father, Big X found himself at a critical juncture. Sleeping on his grandmother's couch, he faced the stark reality of his situation and knew he needed to change his life for his son.
Encouraged by his cousin, who recognized his natural talent during freestyle rap sessions, Big X began to consider music seriously. Initially skeptical, the need to keep the promise to his son that he wouldn't miss out on his life again drove him to start recording. His rap career started to take off, earning him a local following in his hometown of Dallas, and he demonstrated his dedication by securing an apartment for his family, despite its sparse conditions.
Incarnation played a pivotal role in Big X's life, contributing to both his resolve and perspective on family and success. He recounts spending a Thanksgiving in solitary confinement, a time which is incredibly challenging for inmates, as it underscores their separation from loved ones. The memories of constant yelling, a ruckus initiated by truly distresse ...
Big X's personal and professional journey, including his early life, decision to pursue rap, and experiences in jail
Big X, a rising force in the rap industry, candidly shares the intricacies of navigating sudden fame, the importance of security, and the complex financial management success brings.
Since his music career took off, Big X finds that his life has been fundamentally the same but with a profound loss of anonymity. Ordinary activities such as shopping at Walmart have become a challenge; he now opts for curbside pickups to avoid the attention his presence commands. With a burgeoning local and expanding following, nights out at clubs and public spaces come with the constant recognition, fundamentally altering his day-to-day experiences.
With fame, security has become a pressing issue for Big X. He has grown cautious about new acquaintances, taking time to distinguish friends from potential foes—a reflection of the personal safety concerns that emerge with public visibility. He notes the necessity of having "big guys" around him, a reference to a reinforced security detail, which underscores the potential threats faced by public figures. As Big X highlights, being seen as a financial target increases safety risks, necessitating vigilant security measures.
Big XthaPlug talks about the initial missteps he experienced upon receiving his first substantial sum from a music deal. Straight out of the gate, he faced the pitfalls of financial mismanagement, spending his first hundred thousand dollars irresponsibl ...
The realities of being a successful rapper, including dealing with fame, safety concerns, and financial management
Big X, the father and musician, shares insights into his life, placing great emphasis on his children and working tirelessly to provide them a secure and prosperous future.
Big X draws parallels between his determined approach to fatherhood and his ambitious musical career. His experiences as a dad continue to shape his professional choices and fuel his drive for success.
He speaks fondly of his son, describing him as a character with his own unique traits, including autism that majorly impacts his speech. Big X beams with pride over his son's clever ways of expressing what he wants, such as signaling his eagerness to visit the pool.
Big X underscores the importance of legacy in his life. While he hadn't intended on starting his family at an early age, he feels he is outdoing the parental role modeled by his own teenage parents. His ambition is to establish a stable financial foundation that liberates his children to chase their passions without enduring the economic hardships he experienced.
BigXthaPlug's desire for a large family reflects his upbringing in a sizable family network. With a daughter nearing eight months and a son about to turn six, he makes it clear that his career maneuvers are heavily influenced by the need to support them. Big X is prepared to do whatever it takes, within ethical bounds, to maintain care for his kids. He also conveys his longing for his children to make a name for themselves backed by the comfort he strives to provide. His ultimate goal is for his children to step into the world confidently and make meaningful contributions on their own terms.
Navigating a complex personal life with multiple relationships, Big X remarks on the challenges he faces and how he sees such relationships as both challenging and rewarding.
Big X's family life and personal relationships, including his children and romantic relationships
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