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In this episode of This Past Weekend w/ Theo Von, Von provides updates on his comedy tour and new merchandise lines. He also shares reflections from recent trips to Ireland and the UK, where he observed the heavy drinking culture and noted Ireland's racial homogeneity.
Von opens up about his personal struggles with pornography and masturbation addictions, stemming from a lack of maternal connection. He celebrates over a month of sobriety and emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and finding purpose in recovery. The episode also includes listeners' stories about intimate experiences, molestations, awkward encounters, and journeys overcoming addictions.
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Theo Von's Comedy Tour and Merchandise Updates
New Tour Dates and Merchandise Lines
Theo Von shares upcoming performances across states like Nevada, Oklahoma, Arkansas, Missouri, South Dakota, Wisconsin, and Illinois. He's also released new colorway options for his popular "Be Good To Yourself" t-shirt, including shades like Blue Jean, Granite, Bae, and Ba Na Na, available at theovonstore.com.
Theo's Travel Experiences and Cultural Observations
Von reflects on his trips to Ireland and the UK, noting the heavy drinking culture, lack of diversity in Ireland, and the Irish's sensitivity to mentions of England.
Von jokes about Ireland's ubiquitous drinking scenes, even at unexpected events, suggesting the cattle might be drunk. He remarks on the country's racial homogeneity and pokes fun at naming a rare non-white child "Guinness." Mentioning England prompts enthusiastic crowd responses, signaling longstanding tensions.
Von had positive experiences performing comedy in the UK and cherished family time.
Despite challenges like a circus tent venue, Von praises the UK's receptive comedy audiences. He treasures visits with family like his mother attending his Vegas show and driving from his brother's Utah home.
Theo's Reflections on Addiction Recovery
Von opens up about his pornography and masturbation addictions stemming from lack of maternal connection and discomfort with women.
Von admits these addictions ravaged his life as escapes from loneliness. He links his fear of women to lacking a bond with his mother, using pornography for synthetic intimacy before realizing its emptiness.
Von celebrates over a month's sobriety from these addictions, emphasizing personal responsibility and purpose.
After 36 days without masturbation and 42 pornography-free, Von feels empowered by this milestone. He stresses taking responsibility and finding purpose, collaborating with a recovery group on awareness ads.
Listeners' Intimate Experiences and Addiction Stories
Listeners share first genital touching stories, from molestation to awkward encounters.
Von empathetically responds as callers recount profound first experiences like being molested, consensual adolescent moments, and embarrassing encounters. He reflects on the impacts, consensual or not, that shape intimacy views.
Callers provide addiction recovery updates, which Von celebrates with empathy and wisdom.
A caller celebrates one month's sobriety; Von congratulates the strength this takes. He relates to the loneliness of recovery but highlights the clarity and choice sobriety provides over suppressing issues with substances.
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- You can explore cultural differences by starting a journal to document your observations and feelings when visiting new places or interacting with different cultures. This practice can help you become more aware of your own cultural biases and increase your appreciation for diversity. For example, if you notice a particular cultural aspect that stands out to you, such as a local tradition or social norm, write it down, reflect on why it caught your attention, and how it compares to your own culture.
- Create a personal accountability chart to track habits you want to change, marking progress each day to reinforce your commitment to sobriety or any other personal goal. Use a simple calendar or an app to mark the days you've successfully avoided the habit you're trying to break. Celebrate milestones, and if you slip up, note what triggered it and brainstorm ways to avoid that trigger in the future.
- Engage in meaningful conversations with friends or family about personal challenges, using active listening and empathy to create a supportive environment. Start a small support group where each person shares their experiences and everyone actively listens without judgment. This can be done informally over coffee or through regular meet-ups, fostering a sense of community and shared understanding.
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Theo Von's Comedy Tour and Business Updates
Theo Von has exciting updates for fans with new performances scheduled across the Midwest and Southwest, in addition to releasing fresh merchandise for sale.
Theo Von Announces New Tour Dates and Merchandise
Theo Von's Upcoming Performances
The comedian expresses his gratitude to audiences from past shows and looks forward to entertaining fans at several upcoming venues. His tour is taking him to a wide range of locations:
- He's set to perform at Resorts World Las Vegas in Las Vegas, Nevada on August 30th and 31st.
- Following that, he'll take the stage in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma on September 25.
- North Little Rock, AR will welcome him on September 26.
- Audiences in Springfield, Missouri can catch his show on September 27.
- Kansas City, Missouri on September 28.
- Then moving on to Sioux Falls, South Dakota on October 10th.
- La Crosse, Wisconsin will see him on October 11th.
- Green Bay, Wisconsin is his stop for October 12th.
- Finally, Moline, Illinois will host Theo on October 13th.
New Merchandise Line
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- Theo Von, a comedian, has announced a series of upcoming tour dates across various cities in the Midwest and Southwest regions of the United States. These dates include performances in cities like Las Vegas, Oklahoma City, North Little Rock, Springfield, Kansas City, Sioux Falls, La Crosse, Green Bay, and Moline. Fans can catch his shows on specific dates in these locations as part of his ongoing tour.
- Colorways in the context of merchandise typically refer to different color options available for a particular product. These variations allow c ...
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Theo Von's personal experiences traveling and observations about different cultures
Theo Von shares his unique and humorous perspectives on his travels, particularly his experiences in Ireland and the United Kingdom, where he finds both the culture and the people fascinatingly different from what he's accustomed to.
Theo Von reflects on his recent trips to Ireland and the United Kingdom
During his travels, Theo Von has become acquainted with the local customs and practices, often infusing his observations with characteristic humor.
Theo Von describes the heavy drinking culture he observed in Ireland, where men seem to constantly be in pubs drinking Guinness.
Theo jokes about the heavy drinking culture in Ireland, noting that it's not just in the pubs but everywhere you look, even in unexpected places like a new restaurant's grand opening where people were drinking and no food was being served. He humorously suggests the scene is so typical that even the cattle might be found inebriated, unable to pay their tabs.
In Dublin, which he refers to as the "posh" area or "West England," the shows were phenomenal. Yet, he also zeroes in on the universal drinking habits, joking about men drinking to the point where one might drink his friend through a straw and making light of the locals’ reputation for being able to handle their liquor and getting sunburnt quickly due to their habitual drinking.
Theo Von notes the lack of diversity in Ireland, with the country being predominantly white, and shares some humorous observations about the Irish people's sensitivity to mentions of England.
Theo remarks on the homogeneity of Ireland's population, humorously commenting that the presence of any diversity is so rare that he mistook a black man for a Guinness. In jest, he notes that if someone in Ireland has a black child, they might name it Guinness. Moreover, mentioning anything anti-England on stage gets an enthusiastic response from the Irish crowd, highlighting a historically sensitive rivalry.
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- While Theo Von's observations about the drinking culture in Ireland are humorous, they may perpetuate stereotypes and don't necessarily reflect the entirety of Irish culture, which is rich and varied beyond pub life.
- The comment on the lack of diversity in Ireland, although made in jest, overlooks the increasing multiculturalism in Ireland, particularly in urban areas like Dublin.
- Positive experiences in the UK and the receptiveness of audiences there could be contrasted with the experiences of other performers who might find varying degrees of receptivity depending on their style of comedy or the regions they visit.
- The emphasis on family time and the warmth of small-town America, while heartwarming, might not resonate with everyone, as ...
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- Explore local culture by visiting a traditional pub in your area and trying a regional specialty drink to better understand the social fabric of different communities.
- By immersing yourself in a local cultural experience, you can gain insights into how social gatherings shape community dynamics. For example, if you're in the American South, you might visit a bourbon bar to see how it serves as a communal space, similar to how pubs function in Ireland.
- Broaden your cultural perspective by attending a local cultural festival or event that celebrates a different ethnicity or nationality than your own.
- This can help you appreciate the diversity within your own region and understand the nuances of cultural sensitivity. For instance, if there's a local Italian festival, you could learn about Italy's history and traditions, which might parallel Theo Von's observations about Ireland's homogeneity and hi ...
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Theo Von's reflections on addiction, recovery, and personal growth
Comedian Theo Von candidly discusses how his addictions to pornography and masturbation arose from deeper emotional issues and the personal transformation he's experienced by confronting them.
Theo Von opens up about his own struggles with pornography and masturbation addiction
Theo Von explains how these addictions stemmed from a lack of connection with his mother and difficulty relating to women, and how they negatively impacted his life.
Theo Von addresses how commonplace pornography has become, often serving as an escape for loneliness, boredom, anxiety, and depression. He admits that pornography was ravaging his life and shrouding him in shame. He speaks about using pornography and masturbation as an attempt to feel connected when he was uncomfortable, recognizing that this only offered a temporary and synthetic sense of intimacy.
Theo Von shares that he has now been over a month sober from pornography and masturbation, and how empowering this milestone feels.
Von reveals his struggles with relationships, particularly his fear of women and dating, an issue he connects to not having a bond with his mother. This absence led him to seek false comfort in pornography, which only escalated his fear of real intimate connections with women. Now, having abstained from these activities, Theo celebrates 36 days of abstaining from masturbation and 42 days free from pornography, labeling this personal triumph as "awesome."
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- You can explore new hobbies or activities that foster a sense of connection and community, such as joining a local sports team or book club, to combat feelings of loneliness and build meaningful relationships.
- Engaging in group activities can provide a sense of belonging and help develop interpersonal skills. For example, if you're interested in photography, joining a photography group can not only improve your skills but also connect you with like-minded individuals, creating a support network that can be beneficial in times of emotional need.
- Start a gratitude journal where you write down three things you're thankful for each day to shift focus from negative behaviors to positive aspects of life.
- This practice can enhance your mental well-being and provide a more optimistic outlook on life. For instance, acknowledging simple pleasures like a good meal, a conversation with a friend, or a sunny day can gradually rewire your brain to appreciate the present moment and reduce the urge to seek synthetic forms of satisfaction.
- Implement a daily routine that inclu ...
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Listeners' personal stories and experiences related to the topic of first intimate experiences and addiction
Theo Von explores intimate first experiences and personal battles with addiction as listeners call in to share their heartfelt stories, ranging from experiences of sexual molestation to awkward adolescent encounters.
Listeners share stories about the first time someone touched their genitals
Sexual Molestation and Awkward Adolescent Encounters
Callers opened up about the very personal and significant moments in their lives, beginning with the first time someone touched their genitalia. Theo Von highlights the intimate and profound nature of such experiences, acknowledging the range of stories, from accounts of being molested to more consensual, if awkward, first encounters.
Mike from the Quad Cities recalled an inappropriate touch from a female player on a basketball court when he was around 14, which Theo recognized as molestation. Another caller, Jayden from Indiana, described a confusing moment at 16 when he had a girl in his room, marking an important point in his journey towards adulthood.
Holden recounted how a high school drinking experience led to an embarrassing sexual encounter at a party, resulting in him acquiring the nickname "baby dick" due to erectile dysfunction caused by alcohol. Theo listened to these stories with empathy, acknowledging the profound impact these first experiences can have on a person's view of intimacy and relationships.
Impact of Early Experiences on Later Life
Theo Von reflects on listeners' stories and their consenting or non-consenting nature. One caller detailed how they were touched inappropriately by a doctor at 13, prompting Von to respond with concern and sympathy. The caller's act of sharing signals a possibly positive step in their healing process.
Mandy shared a memory of her and her now-husband at age 15, describing an encounter that was both innocent and comedic due to the aggressive rubbing that stained her partner's hand blue with dye from her jeans, and the subsequent awkward car ride with her mother.
Theo shared his own memory from youth, visiting two girls who seemed worldly, leading to a clumsy intimate encounter with one of them. These stories collectively weave a complex picture of the clumsy, poignant, and sometimes painful journey into physical intimacy.
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- Start a personal reflection journal to explore the impact of your early experiences on current relationships and behaviors. Write down memories of your first intimate experiences, noting how they made you feel then versus now. Reflect on patterns you see in your relationships and consider if they may be rooted in these early experiences. For example, if you notice a tendency to avoid intimacy, think about whether this could be linked to an awkward or uncomfortable early encounter.
- Create a private audio diary to document your journey with addiction recovery. Record daily or weekly updates about your feelings, challenges, and victories. Use this as a tool to track progress, understand triggers, and celebrate milestones like Tommy's one month of sobriety. Listening back to these recordings can offer insights into your growth and remind you of the reasons you chose sobriety when facing temptations.
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- Theo Von's personal experiences traveling and observations about different cultures
- Theo Von's reflections on addiction, recovery, and personal growth
- Listeners' personal stories and experiences related to the topic of first intimate experiences and addiction
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