Dive into the world of dating, travel, and candid discussions with "Therapuss with Jake Shane," as host Jake Shane is joined by Harry Jowsey for a compelling session. In this episode, Jake opens up about an unexpected twist during a long-anticipated date, presenting a tale of miscommunication and surprise. A year's worth of flirtatious texts culminated in an encounter that left Jake puzzled, an outcome hilariously at odds with what he'd envisioned. The episode takes a turn when, amidst the confusion, his date pitches in with a proposition for Jake's professional pursuits, adding a layer of intrigue to their story.
Meanwhile, Harry Jowsey shares the exciting news of his latest venture, "Boyfriend Material," while reminiscing about an exhilarating escape to Brazil's Carnival, bringing to life the unfiltered joy and vivid festivities he experienced. As the hosts reflect on their personal lives amidst the onset of COVID-19, they also delve into their "tell me what's wrong" segment, offering their unique twist on advice to listeners. From navigating office dramas to addressing love-life quandaries, Jake and Harry lend their voices to the listeners' struggles, providing levity and insights into life's unpredictable moments.
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Jake describes an intriguing encounter that turned into a perplexing letdown after maintaining a year-long flirtatious texting rapport with a guy he met. They finally decided to meet up in New York where the romantic atmosphere Jake anticipated quickly dissipated when his date clarified that he was not interested in hooking up. The awkwardness increased when someone assumed they were indeed on a date, and the guy unexpectedly pitched himself as a producer for Jake's podcast. This evening left Jake confused, as the previous year of flirty texts had set a completely different expectation.
Harry Jowsey announces the launch of his new podcast named "Boyfriend Material," in collaboration with the Unwell Network. Harry's podcast endeavor aims to provide a fresh addition to the podcasts under the Unwell Network.
Jake and Harry recall their experiences as the COVID-19 pandemic began to cause worldwide shutdowns. Jake was interning and planning to travel to Japan when the pandemic disrupted his plans, forcing him to fly back to New York and isolate in his room for three months. Harry found himself in a more laid-back environment, contained in his Hollywood apartment with friends, binge-watching Animal Planet, and staying fit indoors, relatively unaffected by the lockdown orders since they weren't used to going out much.
Harry recounts the thrill of attending Brazil Carnival, where he was captivated by the festive mood, captivating parties, and beautiful beaches. This experience was marked by the joy of people dressed in vibrant colors, the affordability of food and drinks, and the social dynamics. Everyone danced and enjoyed themselves without the distraction of their phones, living in the moment in a way that Harry found refreshingly different from the nightlife he was accustomed to.
Jake and Harry dive into their "tell me what's wrong" segment where they address listener concerns, featuring Callie struggling with workplace issues. They tackle various dilemmas involving love triangles, bad breath, and sensitive dating situations. The hosts address these with a mix of advice and humor, suggesting practical solutions to problems like betrayal, underwear theft, and the ramifications of a house fire on personal plans. They emphasize the importance of timing and direct communication in navigating personal crises and interpersonal relationships.
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Jake's foray into the unpredictable world of dating takes a confusing turn after a year of flirty texts fails to live up to expectations.
Jake recounts how he met a guy at an after-party the previous March with whom he exchanged Instagram follows. Over the course of the year, they flirted through direct messages and texts, trying to make plans that never seemed to come to fruition. It wasn't until Jake took a trip to New York that the guy reached out to hang out, and Jake eagerly accepted. He shares details about the playful banter they engaged in over text for a year, even discussing his outfit before they met.
The anticipation built from a year of messaging, however, took an unexpected dive. Jake mentions feeling confused and awkward when, upon referencing their meeting as a "date," the guy interjected to clarify that he was not look ...
Jake's date disaster
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Harry Jowsey is set to launch a new podcast titled "Bo ...
Harry introducing his new podcast Boyfriend Material
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Jake Shane and Harry Jowsey reminisce about the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, reflecting on the immediate impact of the shutdowns on their daily lives.
Jake was interning when he noticed people washing their hands more than normally, an early sign of the escalating concern. He was surrounded by friends when he learned about the NFL season shutting down, leading to the abrupt realization that his upcoming trip to Japan for spring break would have to be canceled. Jake ended up flying back to New York amidst the growing pandemic, taking every precaution with gloves and masks, and confined himself to his room for three months.
Harry, on the other hand, found himself in his apartment in Hollywood with friends when the pandemic truly hit. They passed the time ...
Discussion of March 15, 2020 (when COVID shutdowns started)
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Harry Jowsey reflects on the vibrant and lively atmosphere he experienced while in Brazil for Carnival, emphasizing the collective joy and the social dynamics that differentiate it from his usual experiences.
According to Harry, Brazil during Carnival is characterized by an infectious, carefree spirit. He was immediately struck by how people were dressed in bright colors, fully embracing the festive mood.
Harry recalls that the beaches were amazing and bustling with enjoyable activities. He found the overall vibe on the beaches to be highly pleasurable, contributing to the joy he experienced. The affordability of food and drinks also played a significant role in his trip, allowing him to indulge without concern over cost.
Harry was particularly enamored with the atmosphere at th ...
Harry talking about his trip to Brazil during Carnival
In a popular segment called "tell me what's wrong," listeners turn to hosts Jake Shane and Harry Jowsey for advice on a variety of personal dilemmas, ranging from bad breath to more serious personal issues.
During the show, Jake Shane and Harry Jowsey carry out a segment where they connect with listeners who need guidance, exemplified by a planned call with a listener named Callie who sought help with her workplace issues.
The hosts dive into an assortment of listener-submitted problems, providing their perspectives, advice, and occasionally a bit of humor.
When a listener is confused by their best friend’s behavior around a guy, Jake and Harry address the complexity of the situation. Harry provides his humorous take on how to approach someone with bad breath, while Jake stresses the necessity of delicacy in informing someone about it, sharing an experience involving his friend Clara after his wisdom teeth removal.
A dilemma involving a Tinder date leads the hosts to advise waiting a few weeks after a catastrophic event, like a house burning down, before asking for a date. They stress the importance of considering friends' advice on dating timing.
Discussing a dating situation complicated by embarrassment, Jake and Harry suggest that a truly interested person will look past awkward accidents. For a more serious betrayal involving a listener's sister and boyfriend, Jake ...
Advice on submissions from listeners
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