In this episode of The Peter Attia Drive, OB-GYN Sally Greenwald presents an overview of women's sexual health, focusing on the complexities of female sexual anatomy and the biological differences in how men and women experience desire and arousal. She explains how various factors, including hormones, affect sexual function and discusses the discrepancy in orgasm frequency between men and women during sexual encounters.
The episode covers practical aspects of sexual health management, including the use of lubricants and hormone therapies for perimenopausal and menopausal women. Greenwald addresses sexual health considerations during pregnancy and postpartum periods, and explores treatment options for common sexual health concerns. The discussion includes information about FDA-approved medications for enhancing female sexual desire and alternative approaches to managing sexual health issues.

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OB-GYN Sally Greenwald provides a comprehensive overview of female sexual anatomy and its role in sexual wellbeing. She explains that the clitoris has a complex structure extending beyond its visible part, with over 8,000 nerve endings and different types of nerve fibers responding to various stimuli. During arousal, vaginal tissues undergo significant changes, including increased blood flow and natural lubrication, to facilitate intercourse.
Greenwald emphasizes that understanding the "G-spot" - part of the clitoral structure along the anterior vaginal wall - can enhance pleasure, though only about 10% of women initially experience orgasm through this stimulation. She recommends resources like omgyes.com for learning various stimulation techniques.
According to Greenwald, only about 15% of women experience spontaneous desire, with most experiencing responsive desire triggered by environmental or situational cues. Unlike men, women tend to respond less to visual stimuli and more to contextual factors. This difference is reflected in the "orgasm gap": while 95% of men report regular orgasms during heterosexual encounters, only 30% of women do. The gap widens further in casual encounters, with just 12% of women reporting orgasms during one-night stands.
Greenwald and Peter Attia discuss how hormones influence sexual function, with estrogen and [restricted term] acting as "accelerators" and progesterone as a "brake." For perimenopausal and menopausal women, hormone therapy can help manage sexual health issues. Greenwald recommends various treatment options, including DHEA for vaginal pain and [restricted term] cream for boosting sex drive.
Greenwald emphasizes the importance of lubricants in sexual health, particularly recommending silicone-based options applied 30 minutes before intercourse. She advises against high osmolality lubricants like Astroglide and KY, instead recommending products like Uberlube. For ongoing vaginal health, she suggests regular use of moisturizers and, for postmenopausal women, local estrogen therapy.
Both negative and traumatic sexual experiences can significantly impact women's sexual wellbeing. Greenwald recommends trauma-informed approaches, including sensate focus exercises and professional therapy, to help women reclaim their sexuality.
While FDA-approved medications like Addyi and Vyleesi exist for enhancing female sexual desire, their efficacy is limited and they come with significant side effects. Greenwald discusses alternative approaches, including [restricted term] therapy for postmenopausal women and the potential benefits of legal THC in small doses for enhancing sexual experiences.
Greenwald explains that while pregnancy can boost desire due to hormonal changes, postpartum healing requires patience and careful attention to vaginal health. For menopausal women, she recommends various hormone therapy options to address changes in sexual function and maintain overall health, emphasizing the importance of personalized treatment approaches based on individual needs and preferences.
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Sally Greenwald, an OB-GYN specializing in women's sexual health, delves into the intricacies of female sexual anatomy and how understanding this can improve sexual wellbeing for both men and women.
The discussion explores female genitalia, particularly the clitoral complex, vaginal tissue, and erogenous zones, highlighting why this knowledge is vital for sexual function.
Greenwald discusses the anatomy of the clitoris, which is comprised of more than just the small, visible part; it's akin to an iceberg's tip, with a larger structure beneath. The internal part includes the vestibule and the "crura," forming a wishbone shape with nerve structures on either side of the labia minora. This part of the clitoris has a larger internal structure with over 8,000 nerve endings that receive increased blood flow during arousal, leading to the potential for orgasm. The clitoral nerve is home to two types of nerve fibers: type A and C. Type A fibers respond to vibration and deep pressure, while type C fibers to heat and light touching. Both of these nerve types can be stimulated for orgasm, and it's worth noting that type A fibers have a myelin sheath that protects them over time.
Throughout arousal, vaginal tissues undergo transformation, preparing the body for intercourse. The excitement phase of orgasm involves engorgement of pelvic tissues and an increased blood flow, which makes the vagina longer, wider, and changes its angle to reduce potential discomfort during penetration. The vagina lubricates internally in a process that Greenwald compares to sweating, with the cells of the vaginal canal releasing water molecules for lubrication, aided by cervical mucus.
Greenwald goes on to cover sensitive vaginal areas, such as the "G-spot," a part of the clitoral structure that runs along the anterior part of the vagina. She explains that when aroused, engagement of this area with a “come hither” movement can escalate sexual pleasure. While only about 10% of women initially orgasm from stimulation of this internal clitoral branch, this figure may increase with education. Greenwald advises partners to explore thi ...
Female Anatomy and Physiology for Sexual Function
Sexual desire and arousal patterns differ significantly between sexes, with nuances that can affect satisfaction in sexual relationships. Sally Greenwald provides insights into these differences, particularly focusing on women's sexual response and the discrepancies known as the orgasm gap.
Spontaneous desire, common in men, is only present in about 15% of women, as women tend to have what is known as responsive desire. This form of desire often requires environmental or situational cues, rather than spontaneous arousal. Partners can stimulate arousal by making emotional investments, such as helping with chores, offering physical touch, or creating contextually stimulating situations.
Greenwald notes that visual stimuli, often effective for men, are not as influential for women, pointing out that women tend to be more responsive to situational cues for sexual desire. For example, women may find greater arousal through reading erotic literature or using auditory or literature-based erotica apps. To cultivate arousal patterns, it's key for women to engage in regular sexual activity, which can help them understand their body's response to various stimuli and learn to develop responsive desire over time. Greenwald advises using lubricants and other methods of curation, including scheduled sex, which can train the system.
Communication and exploration with a partner are also vital for women in order to create an environment for arousal. Greenwald emphasizes the importance of staying present in the moment with techniques such as breathing and mindfulness, as well as self-descriptive engagement with one's physiological responses.
A substantial orgasm gap exists between men and women. Approximately 95% of men report that they almost always have an orgasm when having sex with a woman. In contrast, only about 30% of women report the same with a male partner. This disparity is even more pronounced in one-night stands, where around 90% of men, compared to a meager 12% of women, report having orgasms. This gap suggests that the frequency of orgasms could affect one's ease in achieving orgasm, potentially contributing to the differences observed between men an ...
Differences in Sexual Desire and Arousal Between Sexes
Sally Greenwald, a specialist in women's sexual health, provides insights into how hormones influence sexual function and the benefits of hormone therapy for libido and arousal in perimenopausal and menopausal women.
Greenwald and Peter Attia discuss the complexities involved in sexual desire, conceptualizing it in terms of "accelerators" and "brakes."
Greenwald describes how neurotransmitters like estrogen and [restricted term] serve as accelerators to sexual desire, while other hormones can act as brakes. Estrogen, she notes, works through alpha receptors to stimulate the sex drive and beta receptors to decrease anxiety and inhibition. [restricted term] has a more direct relationship with the sex drive, and its replacement therapy can improve libido indirectly by enhancing sleep and reducing hot flashes. Additionally, natural spikes in these hormones around ovulation can boost a woman's sex drive. Conversely, Peter Attia adds that progesterone may act as a "brake" on performance, including sexual function, as it is low before ovulation when sexual desire seems to be heightened.
Greenwald emphasizes the use of hormone therapy to manage sexual health issues in perimenopausal and menopausal women. She discusses the use of DHEA intravaginal application to alleviate vaginal pain and [restricted term], often in cream form, to boost sex drive and desire. Her aim is to achieve a total [restricted term] level above 20, using patient symptoms as a guide for adjustments. [restricted term], which increases sex hormone-binding globulin, impacts free [restricted term] levels in the body.
For women who can't take estrogen—such as those with a family history of blood clots or who experience migraines—Greenwald suggests using [restricted term], a progestin derived from [restricted term], as it has a high ovulation suppression rate and a diuretic component that improves tolerance.
Yet for women who do want estrogen, they can opt between synthetic estrogen, which is more readily available and covered by insurance, and a natural form of estrogen. The natural form boasts additional benefits like bone health but is ...
The Role of Hormones in Sexual Health
In a discussion covering vaginal health, Sally Greenwald and Dr. Tammy Rowan emphasize the importance of understanding the role of lubricants, moisturizers, and local estrogen therapy, especially for postmenopausal women.
Greenwald underscores the importance of lubricants in maintaining sexual health, regardless of age or natural lubrication levels. Lubricants reduce friction during intercourse, which can prevent the micro abrasions and tearing that contribute to pain and potential conditions like vaginismus. She particularly recommends using a silicone-based lubricant 30 minutes before intercourse, with application higher up in the vaginal canal using a lube shooter, due to their longer-lasting effects compared to water-based options. Medications, life stages, and other factors affecting natural lubrication support the need for lubricants, although some glands like the Bartholin's can sometimes get clogged and cause pain.
The World Health Organization provides guidelines focused on reducing HIV transmission, but Greenwald notes that these guidelines are equally applicable to sexual pleasure and health—recommended for almost everyone to protect against pain and injury. She advises against lubricants with high osmolality, such as Astroglide and KY, due to their dehydrating effects. Instead, she endorses products like Uberlube, with an osmolality of 600, and Good Clean Love Almost Naked, with an osmolality of 280 to 300.
Greenwald also speaks to the significance of vaginal moisturizers for ongoing health, which lower the pH and hydrate the tissue. Products like Reverie, comprised of hyalur ...
Lubricants, Moisturizers, and Local Estrogen Therapy
Peter Attia and Sally Greenwald discuss the significant impact of adverse sexual experiences on women's ability to have a fulfilling sexual life, highlighting the spectrum of trauma and the ways in which individuals can reclaim intimacy.
Attia notes that negative sexual experiences ranging from egregious cases like sexual assault and rape to less severe but still impactful events, such as a poorly conditioned and unpleasant first consensual encounter, can severely affect a woman's sense of safety and enjoyment in sexual activities later in life. He points out that such experiences are not uncommon and can lead to lasting and profound effects on sexual function.
Sally Greenwald mentions that many of her patients have had sexual traumas that influence their current sexual experiences. She talks about the importance of a trauma-informed approach to sexual encounters, especially when a patient may not feel ready to engage sexually. The use of trauma-informed methods, such as sensate focus exercises, can as ...
Impact of Sexual Trauma on Sexual Function
Pharmaceutical advances see the development of substances aimed at enhancing sexual desire and arousal, particularly among women. The FDA has approved two medications, Addyi and Vyleesi, for these purposes, but their efficacy is limited and they come with significant side effects.
Addyi, a pill, and Vyleesi, an injection, are the only two FDA-approved medications targeting arousal in women. They operate by adjusting neurotransmitters—increasing [restricted term] and [restricted term] and reducing serotonin.
Neither medication was studied in postmenopausal women and can take up to six weeks for benefits to be realized. Addyi trial data revealed only about one extra satisfying sexual encounter per month, and use of the medication requires abstaining from alcohol due to the risk of nausea and potential interactions with antidepressants and mood stabilizers.
The societal context surrounding Addyi's approval reflects the complexities of women's sexual drive and the hurdles in pharmacological interventions. The pill showed a significant placebo effect in clinical trials. Vyleesi, related to PT 141 and sometimes called the 'Barbie drug,' can lead to tanning and affects mood and sexual desire.
Dr. Sally Greenwald discusses using [restricted term] treatment, aiming for hormone levels that alleviate symptoms, which may vary significantly among patients. She also addresses the balancing act of prescribing estrogen and progestins, the latter can offset an increase in sex hormone binding globulin caused by estrogen.
It’s noted, though not in the given transcript, that [restricted term] is advised only for postmenopausal women as per the guidelines. In addition, Greenwald sheds light on data showing that legal ...
Enhancing Sexual Desire and Arousal Substances
As women navigate the stages of their reproductive lives, sexual health issues vary. During pregnancy, postpartum, and menopause, women encounter different physiological and hormonal changes that impact their sexual desire, function, and comfort.
Sally Greenwald and her fellow discussants note that sex during a healthy pregnancy is safe and beneficial, assuming there are no contraindications like a low-lying placenta or cervical insufficiency. Due to high levels of estrogen and [restricted term], as well as increased blood flow to the genital area, sex can become quite intense and pleasurable.
Postpartum sexual health is particularly delicate, with a standard recommendation of waiting six weeks before resuming sexual activity after both vaginal birth and C-section. Greenwald explains that high prolactin levels postpartum reduce sexual interest, which is nature's way of spacing pregnancies. American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology also recommends 18 months between pregnancies for the health of the mother and subsequent baby.
Especially for breastfeeding women who may experience vaginal dryness and pain due to low estrogen levels, similar to menopausal symptoms, local estrogen is noted to be beneficial for postpartum healing. To maintain vaginal health, Greenwald prescribes estrogen cream to postpartum women, as she does with postmenopausal women.
Discussing hormonal changes in menopause, it is mentioned that the decline in estrogen and potential degradation of the nerve fiber in the clitoral complex can affect sexual function. However, teaching women how to achieve orgasms from parts of the clitoral nerve with a better blood supply can help maintain sexual pleasure and interest during menopause.
For perimenopausal patients, after determining their preferences regarding ovulation and contraception, hormone therapy options like 17 beta [restricted term], the main estrogen during reproductive years with various health benefits, can be considered. New birth control pills containing 17 beta [restricted term] or [restricted term] valerate offer health benefits while also providing contraception.
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Sexual Health During Pregnancy, Postpartum, and Menopause
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