Orgasm Queen: Do This For 20 Minutes Before Having Sex & Have Sex With Them Like When You First Met! I Never Orgasmed Until He Tried This!

Susan Bratton discusses the little-known facts about the diversity of orgasms, highlighting over 20 different types that people can experience, each with unique sensations and characteristics. She emphasizes the importance of understanding these differences for enhanced sexual experiences.

There are over 20 different types of orgasms that people can experience, each with its own unique sensations and characteristics.

Susan Bratton mentions that there are over 20 kinds of orgasms, a fact not widely recognized, particularly among men who often think the number is limited to one or two. Referring to the various kinds of orgasms, she introduces terms such as "expanded orgasm" and "quantum-gasm," which contrast with the typical "one-and-done" orgasm. She encourages what she calls "orgasmic cross-training," starting with a known method that works and gradually introducing something new.

Bratton distinguishes between the quick release of the "one-and-done" orgasm, visualized as "ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah," and what she calls "the queen of orgasms," characterized by a prolonged "oh, oh, oh," indicating a more drawn-out and blissful experience.

The "one-and-done" orgasm is a common but limited experience, while the "queen of orgasms" is an extended, blissful state of climactic release that requires specific techniques to achieve.

Orgasms can arise from stimulating different erogenous zones like the clitoris, vagina, anus, breasts, and even the throat, rather than just the genitals.

Bratton points out specific locations that can be touched for different orgasm types, such as the clitoris, vagina, anus, breasts, nipples, and throat. She suggests tools such as a double vibrating penis ring to focus on multiple erogenous zones during partnered sex and recommends incorporating breast play with breast oils. Bratton explains that stimulating various parts of a woman's body, including the vulva, clitoris, the entroidal sphincter, inside the vagina, and on the labia, can provide different sensations.

The male and female sexual response cycles differ significantly in terms of arousal, engorgement, and the time needed to reach orgasm.

Susan Bratton delineates between the sexual response cycles for males and females, with males typically experiencing a rapid, linear arousal process leading to a single, intense orgasm, while females have a more complex pattern that allows for the possibility of multiple orgasms.

Men typically experience a rapid, linear arousal process and a single, intense ejacu ...

Sex and relationship expert Susan Bratton shares her insights on enhancing sexual experiences and intimacy in relationships. Her approach focuses on novelty, communication, and exploration.

Introducing novelty, variety, and "erotic play dates" can reignite passion and desire in long-term relationships.

Susan Bratton emphasizes the importance of bringing novelty to relationships to prevent routines from growing stale. She advises couples to create a "sex life bucket list" and to maintain physical fitness for better sexual experiences. Erotic play dates offer couples a chance to have fun through erotic adventures, moving away from the routine and focusing on experimentation and enjoyment.

Trying new activities, locations, toys, and sensations can add excitement and prevent sexual routines from growing stale.

A variety of activities can add excitement, such as exploring each other's bodies, trying out sex toys, or engaging in different sexual experiences. Susan provides examples such as finding the G-spot, using sex toys, having a lingerie photo shoot, or having sex on the dining room table. Introducing new toys, locations, and giving yoni massages can also spice things up.

Scheduling dedicated, pressure-free intimate encounters allows couples to focus on exploration, connection, and shared pleasure.

Susan and her partners engage in a collaborative approach, discussing what they want to experience during intimate encounters. By scheduling erotic play dates, couples create opportunities to express their desires, explore new erotic experiences, and focus on connection.

Communicating openly and honestly about desires, boundaries, and needs is essential for building sexual intimacy and trust.

Bratton highlights the importance of open and honest communication in the bedroom, advocating for direct conversations about what pleasures both partners. Encouraging couples to move beyond treating their partner the way they themselves want to be treated, she promotes treating them the way they need to be treated.

Developing a "Sexual Soulmate Pact" enables partners to share their preferences and requests without judgment or criticism.

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Understanding and addressing the role of self-acceptance, body positivity, and past trauma is essential for a fulfilling sex life. Susan Bratton, Steven Bartlett, and a caller named Eliza discuss how these issues can shape one's experiences with intimacy and sexual satisfaction.

Negative body image, shame, and self-judgment can significantly inhibit sexual desire and satisfaction, especially for women.

Bratton introduces a concept known as an "angel shower," where receiving positive affirmations from a group can help individuals accept kindness and compliments, potentially breaking through negative self-perceptions and fostering a more positive body image. Eliza, a caller, discusses her discomfort with her changed body and lack of self-love, which highlights how negative body image can impact sexual desire.

Susan Bratton also identifies issues like feeling undesirable, often exacerbated by hormones such as estrogen, as contributing to women's judgment towards themselves. She reflects on her own past negative feelings towards her breasts and the process of growing to appreciate them, demonstrating the importance of overcoming internalized messages about imperfections. Bratton suggests practices like breast massage and nipple stimulation as ways to cultivate a positive, embodied relationship with one's sexuality.

Overcoming internalized messages about one's body or appearance being "imperfect" is crucial for embracing and celebrating one's sexuality.

Emphasizing the significance of mental state in sexual desire, Bratton encourages focusing on pleasure and connection rather than body appearance. She suggests sex can be a mindfulness practice and emphasizes self-care and enjoying life, including utilizing sex and orgasms to overcome stress.

Unresolved sexual trauma, whether from childhood or past relationships, can profoundly impact one's current sexual experiences and self-perception.

Seeking professional support, engaging in somatic healing techniques, and cultivating self-compassion are important steps in overcoming the effects of trauma.

Susan Bratton candidly discusses her own childhood sexual trauma and its effects on her adult sex life, illustrating how unresolved trauma can influence present experiences. She recounts avoiding intimacy with her husband and the associated feelings of guilt and misunderstanding. Bratton underscores the importance of profe ...