In this episode from the Stuff You Should Know podcast, the hosts explore unusual historical instances of people acting out of spite. They recount tales of extreme lengths people have gone to, like the Coldingham nuns mutilating themselves before a Viking raid, only to meet a tragic end. The hosts also delve into spiteful acts born out of business and personal rivalries, such as the founding of Lamborghini after a rebuke from Ferrari.
The episode examines spite in the political arena too, highlighting tit-for-tat exchanges like Saddam Hussein's insulting mosaic portrait of the elder President Bush, later destroyed by the younger Bush in retaliation. It also touches on architectural examples, celebrity antics, and even an outrageous holiday lights display borne of neighborhood spite. In all, the episode explores the phenomenon of spite across various historical contexts and demonstrates the lengths some have gone in defiance or vengeance.
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In 867 CE, facing a Viking raid, St. Aebbe the Younger led Coldingham's nuns in cutting off their lips and noses to preserve their vows of chastity. Josh Clark notes this extreme act aimed to uphold religious commitments rather than spite, but it was in vain - the Vikings burned the monastery, killing all the nuns.
After their business partnership dissolved, Henry Clay Frick harbored deep resentment toward Andrew Carnegie. Beyond winning compensation in court, Frick taunted Carnegie, like building a larger mansion nearby. Ultimately, Frick coldly rebuffed Carnegie's attempt at reconciliation.
Ferrari owner Ferruccio Lamborghini suggested a clutch improvement to Enzo Ferrari, who dismissed him rudely. In response, Lamborghini started his own luxury car company in 1963, strategically hiring former Ferrari employees.
Saddam Hussein commissioned a mosaic mural of George H.W. Bush for the lobby floor of Baghdad's Al Rashid Hotel, made with the intent for visitors to "walk all over" the former U.S. president he called a "criminal."
In what appeared retaliatory during the Iraq War, George W. Bush ordered the destruction of the unflattering mosaic portrait of his father Hussein had installed.
After divorcing in 1925, a husband was demanded by his ex-wife to build her an identical home if she left. He maliciously constructed the replica on isolated Plum Island without utilities to spite her before it was sold in 2012.
In 2012, after a couple refused to vacate for a highway, Chinese authorities built the road curving around their home, leaving it defiantly standing in the road's path amid compensation disputes.
In 1993, Prince changed his name to an unpronounceable symbol to defy Warner Bros' control over his music rights and contract limits, writing "slave" on his cheek to symbolize his battle with the label.
After being ordered to remove his excessive Christmas lights due to complaints, electrician Bill Ansell erected an outrageous, crude new display mocking the township and targeting a neighbor to antagonize them.
1-Page Summary
In 867 CE, as Viking raiders advanced southward to the British Isles, local villages fell under siege, suffering physical and sexual assaults. At the Coldingham monastery in Scotland, the nuns faced an imminent threat. Their lead nun, Saint Aebbe the Younger, suggested a harrowing plan: to mutilate themselves and thereby diminish their attraction to the Vikings to avoid sexual assault and maintain their vows.
Saint Aebbe set the precedent by severing her own lip, and the nuns followed by cutting off their noses. This act of self-mutilation was an extreme measure, aimed to preserve their chastity, which was of paramount importance to them as brides of Christ.
However, Chuck Bryant points out that their sacrifice was ultimately in vain. Despite their drastic efforts to guard their purity, the nuns' lives were met with a tragic end. The Viking raiders set the monastery ablaz ...
Historical/Religious Examples of Spite
Business rivalries can be deeply personal and sometimes lead to lasting legacies shaped by spite and vengeance. Two notable stories exemplify how bitterness and the urge to outdo a rival can fuel innovation and success, even when rooted in resentment.
Chuck Bryant and Josh Clark recount the famous feud between Henry Clay Frick and Andrew Carnegie. The dissolution of their partnership led to a deep-seated animosity that Frick harbored against Carnegie for the rest of his life.
Even after Frick won a lawsuit and compensation against Carnegie, his resentment persisted. Frick would go out of his way to taunt Carnegie, such as when Carnegie’s company faltered, and he even built a larger mansion near Carnegie's just to spite him. The rivalry reached a personal crescendo when Carnegie, in poor health and seeking reconciliation, reached out to Frick. Frick's heartless response was that he would meet Carnegie in hell, highlighting the intensity of his animus.
When it comes to automotive legends, the story of Ferruccio Lamborghini's venture into luxury cars is a classic tale of rivalry born out of rejection.
Business/Personal Rivalries and Spite
Josh Clark and Chuck Bryant spotlight how actions between political figures can often stem from personal animosities, showcasing a particularly spiteful exchange between two world leaders.
Josh Clark and Chuck Bryant discuss an act of disrespect by Saddam Hussein directed at former U.S. President George H.W. Bush. Saddam Hussein had a mosaic mural of Bush created and installed on the floor of the Al Rashid Hotel's entrance in Baghdad. Designed with the phrase "Bush is criminal," it was unmistakably intended to demean the former president by having visitors walk over his likeness.
In what appears to be a retaliatory move, George W ...
Political/Public Figures Acting Out of Spite
Spite houses are a unique architectural phenomenon, and two standout examples illustrate the lengths people will go to make a point or stand their ground.
One such example is the "Pink House" on Plum Island, a notorious spite house built amidst Massachusetts' remote marshland.
In 1925, following a divorce, the wife demanded that if she were to leave, her husband must construct an exact replica of their current home for her. He obliged but selected a desolate location on Plum Island, without fresh water or electricity, to rebuild the house — likely intended to spite his ex-wife. Over the years, various tenants occupied the pink house until 2011. The following year, it was sold to the Parker River National Wildlife Refuge. Now off-limits to the public, there are efforts to preserve the house officially.
In China, a couple named Luo Bogin and his wife made headlines in 2012 when they refused to sell their house to the government, which did not offer enough compensation for a highway project. The government's solution was to build the highway around their house, resulting in a striking image of a road that expanded and curved around the proper ...
Architectural Examples of Spite (E.G. Spite Houses)
Tales of defiance and creative rebellion often emerge from disputes in the entertainment industry and neighborhood disputes. From Prince's iconic battle with his record label to Bill Ansell's Christmas display feud, acts of spite can manifest in unique and sometimes elaborate ways.
In 1993, Prince Rogers Nelson, better known as Prince, deliberately changed his name to an unpronounceable symbol as an act of defiance against Warner Brothers Records. The symbol, blending male and female elements, had been a part of Prince's imagery for some time, adorning his guitar and possibly his motorcycle in the film "Purple Rain."
Though initially perceived as a quirk of Prince's eccentric personality, it's widely understood now that the name change was done to spite Warner Brothers. Prince was entangled in an unsatisfactory record contract that limited the frequency of his music releases and granted the label rights to his songs.
By adopting the symbol, Prince aimed to complicate matters for Warner Brothers, potentially challenging the contract since it was originally signed with "Prince." During performances, he emphasized his protest by writing "slave" on his cheek, symbolizing how he felt bound by the contract. It wasn't until his contract expired in 2000 that Prince reclaimed his birth name. Throughout this period, the media adapted, referring to him as "the artist formerly known as Prince" since digital files with the symbol were distributed by Warner Brothers as there were no keyboard symbols for his new name.
The narrative of spite isn't confined to the celebrity sphere. In Ross Township, Pennsylvania, an electrician named Bill Ansell became known for his excessive Christmas display. His decorations cau ...
Celebrity/Artistic Acts of Spite
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