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The 2023 SYSK Ho-Ho-Holiday Spectacular! | STUFF YOU SHOULD KNOW

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Dive into the 2023 SYSK Ho-Ho-Holiday Spectacular as Josh Clark and Chuck Bryant unwrap a treasure trove of Christmas curiosities from regional traditions to alternative festive movie choices. Across the U.S., Christmas customs vary widely; the Midwest fuels the workhorse spirit during the holidays while the Northeast revels in Christmas Eve soirées. Southern charm shines through with close-knit dinners, whereas the West indulges in leisurely dining and cinematic traditions. Lively discussions in this episode of Stuff You Should Know also bring the cherished echoes of Darlene Love's Christmas performances and explore the quirky, subjective world of the most disliked Christmas tunes.

Temper the December chill with Chuck and Josh's guide to crafting a Christmas Negroni cocktail that promises to spice up your holidays—just remember to enjoy responsibly. Beyond the joviality of festive recipes and music critiques, they also share pragmatic advice to preserve the life of your Christmas tree with simple, eco-friendly tips, ensuring it remains the centerpiece of your home throughout the festive season. And for those yearning for a yuletide twist, the 1974 film "Black Christmas" is suggested as an unconventional classic, blending holiday cheer with chilling horror. No detail is too small in this holiday spectacular, as they wrap up with the nuances of Christmas card etiquette that keep the season’s spirit authentically alive.

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Regional Christmas traditions in the US

Chuck and Josh Clark discuss the diverse Christmas traditions across the United States based on a Civic Science survey of 90,000 respondents. In the Midwest, a notable 35% of people work between Christmas and New Year’s Day, and they are less likely to have work Christmas parties but still attend large personal gatherings. The Northeast is known for hosting 30% more Christmas Eve parties and completing their shopping early. The South prefers intimate Christmas dinners and road trips to celebrate, with only 29% working between holidays. In contrast, the West has a distinct preference for dining out and traveling, with West Coast residents, particularly Californians, being likely to watch a movie on Christmas Day.

Darlene Love's annual Christmas song on Letterman

Darlene Love’s annual performance of "Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)" on David Letterman's show is a beloved tradition that has persisted even after Letterman's retirement. Notably, Bruce Kapler's humorous saxophone solo entries, like emerging from a giant present or descending on a wire, have become iconic. Although disrupted once by the Writer Strike, Love has continued the tradition on The View, maintaining the festive spirit she's known for bringing to audiences each Christmas.

Rankings of Worst Christmas Songs

Opinions on the worst Christmas songs vary, but some consistently receive negative feedback. The Today Show and YouGov America's 2021 poll rated "Santa Baby" as a least favorite, while a Local Spins survey highlighted Paul McCartney's "Wonderful Christmastime." Older poll results from oldstreetsolutions.com indicate that 53% of respondents disliked Justin Bieber's "Mistletoe," suggesting regional and individual tastes also influence the status of all these songs during the holiday season.

Recipe for Christmas Negroni cocktail with spiced gin

To make a Christmas Negroni cocktail with spiced gin, start by infusing 500 milliliters of gin with spices such as cinnamon, star anise, and orange peel. After one to two days, strain the gin and mix three-quarters of an ounce with equal parts Campari and sweet vermouth, serving over ice with a cinnamon stick or star anise garnish. A variation with Prosecco offers a lighter touch. The recipe comes with a reminder that the infused Negroni packs a punch, so it should be enjoyed responsibly.

Tips for making a Christmas tree last longer indoors

To keep a Christmas tree fresh, use a stand that holds enough water and refill it daily. A mixture of sugar and vinegar can help preserve the tree's sap and prevent bacteria growth. Ensure you choose a tree with a fresh scent and pliable branches, keep it away from heat sources, and use LED lights to reduce drying. After Christmas, consider environmentally friendly disposal options like recycling or garden mulching.

The 1974 slasher film "Black Christmas" as an alternative holiday movie

"Black Christmas" from 1974 is lauded as a unique holiday movie, blending Christmas settings with slasher horror. It has gained enduring favor, reputedly being part of Elvis Presley’s holiday traditions and cited as one of Steve Martin’s favorite films. Its festive yet frightening aspect offers a stark contrast to traditional heartwarming movies and cements its cult classic status.

Christmas card etiquette

For proper Christmas card etiquette, cards should be sent out by December 15th. If removing someone from your mailing list, it's acceptable to cite budget constraints as a reason. Take the absence of a card from someone for two consecutive years as a sign to consider removing them from your list. It’s crucial to send cards with personal notes, especially to older recipients, as they highly value these tangible gestures of connection.

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  • The Civic Science survey methodology typically involves collecting data through online surveys distributed to a large pool of respondents. These surveys are designed to gather opinions and insights on various topics by presenting questions to participants. The data collected is then analyzed to identify trends, preferences, and behaviors within the surveyed population. The results are often used to draw conclusions and make inferences about the broader population or specific demographics.
  • Bruce Kapler was a saxophonist who performed with Darlene Love during her annual Christmas song performances on David Letterman's show. His solo entries were known for their humor and theatrics, often involving creative and memorable entrances onto the stage, such as emerging from a giant present or descending on a wire. These performances added an entertaining and festive element to the traditional Christmas music, becoming iconic moments in the show's history.
  • The Local Spins survey highlighted Paul McCartney's "Wonderful Christmastime" as one of the worst Christmas songs based on negative feedback from respondents. This indicates that the song was not well-received by the participants of the survey conducted by Local Spins. The survey results suggest that "Wonderful Christmastime" is a divisive or disliked holiday song among those surveyed.
  • To infuse gin with spices for a Christmas Negroni cocktail, you add spices like cinnamon, star anise, and orange peel to the gin and let it sit for a few days. This process allows the flavors of the spices to meld with the gin, creating a festive and aromatic base for the cocktail. The infused gin adds a unique twist to the traditional Negroni recipe, enhancing the drink with warm, seasonal flavors. It's a simple way to customize your cocktail and bring a touch of holiday cheer to your drink.
  • To dispose of a Christmas tree in an environmentally friendly way, consider recycling it through local programs that chip the tree into mulch for gardens or parks. Another option is to use the tree for composting, where it can break down naturally and enrich the soil. Some communities offer curbside pickup for trees to be recycled, ensuring they are repurposed rather than sent to landfills. These eco-friendly methods help reduce waste and benefit the environment post-holiday season.
  • "Black Christmas" is a 1974 slasher film that is set during the Christmas season and revolves around a group of sorority sisters who are stalked by an unknown killer. The movie is known for blending the festive backdrop of Christmas with elements of horror and suspense, creating a unique and chilling atmosphere. Its juxtaposition of holiday cheer with terrifying events has made it a cult classic among fans of horror films, offering a different take on traditional Christmas movies. The film's ability to combine the joyous holiday setting with suspenseful and frightening themes has contributed to its reputation as an alternative holiday movie choice.
  • When it comes to Christmas card etiquette, it is considered acceptable to remove someone from your mailing list if needed. If you choose to do so, citing budget constraints as a reason is a polite way to handle the situation. Additionally, sending cards with personal notes is important, especially for older recipients who appreciate the personal touch during the holiday season. Remember that the absence of a card from someone for two consecutive years could be a sign to consider removing them from your list.

Counterarguments

  • While 35% of people in the Midwest may work between Christmas and New Year’s Day, this statistic doesn't account for the varying personal choices and employer policies that might affect holiday work schedules.
  • The Northeast might host more Christmas Eve parties, but this doesn't necessarily mean that the quality or enjoyment of these parties is greater than in other regions.
  • The South's preference for intimate Christmas dinners and road trips may not reflect the preferences of all its residents, as there is likely a significant portion that enjoys larger gatherings or staying local.
  • Watching movies on Christmas Day in the West Coast, particularly among Californians, is mentioned as a trend, but it's important to recognize that many families may have other traditions or no tradition at all.
  • Darlene Love's annual performance is a tradition for some, but not all viewers may be aware of or interested in this particular holiday event.
  • Bruce Kapler's saxophone solos may be iconic to some, but others might not find them memorable or may prefer other holiday performances.
  • The dislike for "Santa Baby," "Wonderful Christmastime," and "Mistletoe" is subjective, and there are certainly individuals who enjoy these songs and consider them holiday classics.
  • The Christmas Negroni cocktail recipe is one of many holiday drink options, and not everyone may enjoy the taste of spiced gin or choose to consume alcoholic beverages.
  • The tips for keeping a Christmas tree fresh are helpful, but some may argue that artificial trees are a more convenient and environmentally friendly option.
  • "Black Christmas" has a cult following, but it's not universally accepted as a holiday movie, and some may prefer more traditional, family-friendly Christmas films.
  • The tradition of sending Christmas cards by December 15th is a guideline, not a rule, and some may argue that the sentiment is more important than the timing.
  • The etiquette of removing someone from a Christmas card list due to budget constraints may not be universally accepted, and some might find it more appropriate to discuss changes in card exchanges openly.
  • Personal notes in Christmas cards are valued by many, especially older recipients, but some may argue that the act of sending any card, even without a personal note, is a sufficient gesture of thoughtfulness.

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Regional Christmas traditions in the US

Chuck and Josh Clark discuss a recent survey by Civic Science that reveals the diverse ways Americans celebrate Christmas across the United States, with 90,000 responses highlighting unique regional traditions.

Midwest: More likely to work between Christmas and New Years

In the Midwest, spanning states like Michigan, Ohio, and Illinois, it’s noted that 35% of Midwesterners work between Christmas Day and New Year's Day, which is higher compared to other regions. Furthermore, it seems Midwesterners are the least likely to have a work Christmas party. However, about half of Midwestern respondents plan to go to a Christmas party with 10 or more attendees. Additionally, Midwesterners are 25% more likely than the national average to open at least some gifts on Christmas Eve.

Northeast: Most holiday parties and late gift buying

The Northeast has distinctively more holiday festivities, with people in this region being 30% more likely than any other to attend a Christmas Eve party. They also host 40% more holiday parties compared to those in the South or the West. Interestingly, as many as 34% in the Northeast complete most of their gift buying by December 15th.

South: Host Christmas dinner; road trips to family

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  • The Midwest region includes states like Michigan, Ohio, and Illinois. The Northeast region typically covers states like New York, Massachusetts, and Pennsylvania. The South region encompasses states such as Texas, Florida, and Georgia. The West region includes states like California, Washington, and Oregon.
  • The regional differences in Christmas traditions across the US can be influenced by factors such as historical settlement patterns, cultural diversity, climate, and local customs. These elements shape how people celebrate the holiday in distinct ways based on their region's unique characteristics and traditions. Additionally, economic factors and work culture can also play a role in determining how Christmas is observed in different parts of the country. Overall, a combination of historical, cultural, social, and economic factors contributes to the diverse Christmas traditions seen across the Midwest, Northeast, South, and West re ...

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Darlene Love's annual Christmas song on Letterman

Darlene Love's annual Christmas performance on David Letterman's show has become a beloved holiday tradition for many viewers, with its own memorable moments and continuity even after Letterman's retirement.

Spectacular Saxophone Solos

A highlight of Love's performances are the entrances of saxophonist Bruce Kapler from the CBS Orchestra. Viewers have been entertained by Kapler’s varied and humorous entrances during the saxophone solo of the holiday classic "Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)." His entrances are a spectacle in themselves: he has emerged from a giant present, descended on a wire, stepped out from a snow globe, and even appeared from a fireplace. The recurring appearances have become so iconic that fans have stitched together supercuts of Darlene Love’s performances over the years, featuring Kapler's creative entrances, for enjoyment on YouTube.

Adapting to Change

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Darlene Love's annual Christmas song on Letterman

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  • Darlene Love's annual Christmas performance on David Letterman's show was a cherished tradition where she sang "Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)" each year around Christmas time. The performances were known for their festive spirit and the inclusion of saxophonist Bruce Kapler, who had creative and memorable entrances during the saxophone solo. The tradition continued even after Letterman's retirement, with Love moving her annual Christmas performance to The View.
  • Bruce Kapler is a saxophonist who has been a part of Darlene Love's annual Christmas performances. He is known for his creative and entertaining entrances during the saxophone solo of the song "Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)." Kapler's entrances, such as emerging from a giant present or descending on a wire, have become iconic moments in the performances. His role adds a unique and memorable element to Love's holiday tradition on television.
  • Bruce Kapler, the saxophonist from the CBS Orchestra, is known for his creative and entertaining entrances during Darlene Love's annual Christmas performances on David Letterman's show. These entrances are memorable because Kapler has appeared in various ways, such as emerging from a giant present, descending on a wire, stepping out from a snow globe, and even coming out from a fireplace. His entrances add a unique and humorous element to the performances, becoming iconic moments that fans look forward to each year.
  • During the Writer Strike in 2007-2008, late-night talk shows like David Letterman's were affected as writers went on strike, leading to a lack of scripted content for the shows. This strike caused disruptions in the regular programming schedule, including the delay of Darlene Love's annual Christmas performance ...

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Rankings of Worst Christmas Songs

When it comes to holiday music, opinions can sharply contrast from one person to the next. Yet, certain Christmas songs have consistently ranked negatively across various polls, reports, and surveys.

By region and taste: Biebs' "Mistletoe," McCartney's "Wonderful Christmastime"

A poll conducted by the Today Show and YouGov America in 2021 identified "Santa Baby" as the least favorite or most hated Christmas song. Meanwhile, local preferences also come into play. A survey from Local Spins in Grand Rapids in 2020 also highlighted Paul McCartney's "Wonderful Christmastime" as one of the disliked Christmas tunes.

Results from older polls provide another perspective. Poll results from oldstreetsolutions.com show that 53 percent of respondents disliked Justin Bieber's "Mistletoe." Discussions ar ...

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  • Individual preferences for disliked Christmas songs can be influenced by factors such as overexposure during the holiday season, personal musical tastes, nostalgia, cultural background, and emotional associations with the songs. These factors can vary widely from person to person, leading to differing opinions on which songs are disliked. Additionally, regional preferences and the context in which the songs are heard can also play a role in shaping individuals' views on specific Christmas tunes. The complexity of these influences can result in a diverse range of opinions on what constitutes a disliked Christmas song.
  • "Wonderful Christmastime" by Paul McCartney and "Mistletoe" by Justin Bieber are often considered contenders for the most disliked Christmas song due to differing opinions among l ...

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  • "Santa Baby" has been covered by numerous artists and has a playful, tongue-in-cheek tone that some listeners find entertaining and enjoyable, rather than irritating.
  • "Wonderful Christmastime" has a distinctive synthesizer riff and was created by a former Beatle, which could be seen as innovative for its time and nostalgic for fans of Paul McCartney and the Beatles.
  • Justin Bieber's "Mistletoe" is a modern Christmas song that may resonate with a younger audience who appreciates contemporary pop music and Bieber's celebrity status.
  • The dislike of certain Christmas songs may be less about the song itself and more about the frequency with which it is played during the holiday season, leading to listener fatigue rather than inherent issues with the song.
  • The concept of a "most dis ...

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Recipe for Christmas Negroni cocktail with spiced gin

The Christmas season isn't complete without a festive cocktail, and a Christmas Negroni with spiced gin might just be the perfect blend of tradition and holiday spirit.

To create the spiced gin necessary for your Christmas Negroni, begin by combining 500 milliliters of gin with a mixture of warm, aromatic spices, including two cinnamon sticks, two star anise, four cloves, four crushed cardamom pods, two bay leaves, and two strips of orange peel. Put all these ingredients into a mason jar and let them infuse for one to two days, allowing the botanicals to impart their rich flavors into the gin. After this period, strain the gin to remove all the spices.

The Christmas Negroni itself is a straightforward mixture of equal parts of the key ingredients. For each serving, combine three-quarters of an ounce (or 25 milliliters) of the spiced gin with equal parts Campari and sweet vermouth. Pour the concoction over ice in a glass and give it a good stir to blend the flavors and chill the drink.

For the finishing touch, garnish the cocktail with a cinnamon stick or star anise to enhance the beverage’s festive aroma and aesthetic appeal.

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  • To create spiced gin, you infuse gin with warm, aromatic spices like cinnamon, star anise, cloves, cardamom, bay leaves, and orange peel in a sealed container for one to two days. This process allows the flavors of the spices to blend with the gin, enhancing its taste profile. After infusing, the gin is strained to remove the spices, leaving behind a flavored spiced gin ready for use in cocktails.
  • The specific measurements for the Christmas Negroni cocktail recipe include 25 milliliters of spiced gin, 25 milliliters of Campari, and 25 milliliters of sweet vermouth per serving. These equal parts are combined over ice and stirred before serving. The spiced gin is infused with warm spices for 1-2 days before straining.
  • To strain the spiced gin, you need to separate the infused gin from the spices. This is typically done using a fine mesh strainer or cheesecloth to catch the spices while allowing the liquid to pass through. The straining process ensures that the gin is free of any solid particles or debris from the infusion. Once strained, the spiced gin is ready to be used in the Christmas Negroni cocktail recipe.
  • To g ...

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  • While the Christmas Negroni with spiced gin is presented as a festive and traditional holiday drink, some might argue that the traditional Negroni, without the holiday twist, is the true classic and should be preserved as such.
  • Infusing gin with spices for 1-2 days may not be suitable for everyone's schedule, and some might prefer quicker methods or purchasing pre-infused spiced gin.
  • The infusion process might be too strong or too subtle depending on the spices' freshness and the environment's temperature, leading to inconsistent flavor profiles.
  • The recommendation for equal parts of spiced gin, Campari, and sweet vermouth may not cater to everyone's taste preferences; some may prefer to adjust the ratios to balance the bitterness and sweetness to their liking.
  • Garnishing with a cinnamon stick or star anise is a nice touch, but it might not appeal to those who prefer a less spiced or ...

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Tips for making a Christmas tree last longer indoors

To ensure your Christmas tree stays fresh and vibrant throughout the holiday season, Chuck Bryant and Josh Clark provide some tips for its care.

Stand holds adequate water

Choosing a proper tree stand that can hold enough water is crucial as the tree will need to stay hydrated.

Daily refills & mix-ins

Clark emphasizes the necessity of checking and maintaining the water level daily to keep the tree’s trunk submerged. Bryant suggests a helpful mix-in for keeping your Christmas tree nourished: add a half cup of granulated sugar and a half cup of vinegar to five gallons of water. This mix helps to preserve the tree's sap and stabilize pH levels, preventing bacteria growth and rot. Clark recommends mixing this solution in a standard five-gallon bucket, like those available at hardware stores, making it convenient for daily water top-offs.

Proper handling

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  • The mix of granulated sugar and vinegar in water helps preserve a Christmas tree by nourishing it and stabilizing pH levels. This mixture can prevent bacteria growth and rot in the tree's trunk. It is recommended to add half a cup of granulated sugar and half a cup of vinegar to five gallons of water for optimal tree care. Mixing this solution in a standard five-gallon bucket makes it convenient for daily water top-offs.
  • Recycling a Christmas tree typically involves chipping or shredding the tree into mulch. This mulch can then be used for various purposes, such as landscaping or composting. Many communities offer tree recycling programs after the holiday season. The recycled trees can also be used to create habitats for wildlife or erosion control in natural areas.
  • Stabilizing pH levels in the water for the Christmas tree helps prevent bacterial growth and decay. The proper pH balance ensures the tree's ability to absorb water and nutrients effectively. This maintenance promotes the tree's overall health and longevity during the holiday season.
  • LED lights are recommended over traditional incandescent lights ...

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  • The effectiveness of adding sugar and vinegar to the water is debated among experts, with some suggesting that plain water is just as effective for maintaining a tree's freshness.
  • Daily refills might not be necessary for all trees or environments; some may retain water better than others, depending on factors like humidity and tree type.
  • While LED lights are indeed cooler and more energy-efficient, some people prefer the warmth and traditional look of incandescent lights for their Christmas tree.
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The 1974 slasher film "Black Christmas" as an alternative holiday movie

Josh Clark revisits the classic 1974 horror movie "Black Christmas" and addresses its unique position in film history as a festive yet chilling cinematic experience.

Praised by Elvis; Steve Martin

As an alternative to the heartwarming and joyous films that usually define the season, "Black Christmas" stands out for its blend of holiday settings with the suspense and dread typical of the slasher genre. The film is set during Christmas time, wherein the festive backdrop serves almost as an additional character, contrasting and intensifying the eerie atmosphere.

The original "Black Christmas" film earned admiration from some noteworthy celebrities, including Elvis Presley and Steve Martin. It is reported that Elvis made watching "Black Christmas" at Graceland part of his holiday tradition, signifying his person ...

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  • Josh Clark is the author or writer who revisited the 1974 horror film "Black Christmas" and discussed its unique qualities in the context of holiday movies. He provides insights into the film's significance and its distinctiveness as an alternative holiday viewing choice. Clark's perspective adds depth to the understanding of how "Black Christmas" stands out in the realm of festive yet chilling cinematic experiences. His role in the discussion contributes to highlighting the film's enduring appeal and cultural impact.
  • Elvis Presley included watching "Black Christmas" at Graceland as part of his holiday tradition, showing his personal fondness for the horror classic. Steve Martin expressed to Olivia Hussey, one of the film's lead actresses, that "Black Christmas" was one of his all-time favorite movies, indicating his admiration for the film. These endorsements from Elvis and Steve Martin contribute to the cult status and recognition of "Black Christmas" as a unique holiday film.
  • "Black Christmas" is unique as a h ...

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  • While "Black Christmas" may have a unique place in film history, its status as a holiday movie could be seen as a stretch for some, as the themes and content do not align with traditional holiday sentiments.
  • The notion that the festive backdrop intensifies the eerie atmosphere might not resonate with all viewers; some may find that the Christmas setting detracts from the horror elements or feels gimmicky.
  • The personal traditions of celebrities like Elvis Presley do not necessarily reflect broader cultural practices, and using celebrity endorsements to gauge a film's status could be seen as relying too heavily on anecdotal evidence.
  • Steve Martin's admiration for "Black Christmas" is a subjective opinion and may not be indicative of the film's quality or appeal to the general public.
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Christmas card etiquette

Navigating the social complexities of Christmas card sending can be made easier with some modern guidance on timing, list management, and special considerations.

Send by mid-December these days

To ensure friends and family can enjoy your Christmas card throughout the festive season, it's suggested that cards be sent out by December 15th. Mailing them by this date allows recipients to display the cards as holiday decorations and is appreciated as part of the season's traditions.

Excuses if you want to cut someone

In cases where you wish to remove someone from your Christmas card list, you can use finances as an understandable excuse. You can subtly communicate that, due to budget constraints, you had to limit the number of cards sent out this year. To soften the impact, imply that they are among a larger group of people you're unable to send a card to, even if they are the only one you've excluded. In the event that you don't receive a Christmas card from someone, you can take this as your cue to exclude them from your list, especially after two consecutive years without a card exchange. This practice can help manage your list without any awkward questions or confrontations.

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  • Using finances as an excuse to remove someone from your Christmas card list is a way to politely explain why someone may not receive a card from you. It can be a subtle way to manage your list without causing hurt feelings. By mentioning budget constraints, you can convey that you had to limit the number of cards sent out without directly addressing the individual's exclusion.
  • When you need to remove someone from your Christmas card list, you can use budget constraints as a polite excuse. By mentioning financial limitations and implying a larger group exclusion, you can soften the impact of excluding that individual. This approach helps manage your list without causing awkwardness or hurt feelings.
  • Not receiving a Christmas card from someone for two consecutive years can be seen as a subtle signal that they may not ...

Counterarguments

  • Sending Christmas cards by December 15th might not be feasible for everyone due to varying schedules and responsibilities, and some may prefer to send e-cards or messages via social media which do not require such early planning.
  • Using finances as an excuse to cut someone from your Christmas card list might not be the most transparent approach; honest communication about the desire to streamline connections could be more respectful and clear.
  • The strategy of implying a large group exclusion to soften the impact of cutting someone from your list could be seen as disingenuous if it's not true, and it may be more hurtful if the person finds out they were the only one excluded.
  • Automatically excluding someone from your Christmas card list after not receiving a card for two years may not consider the reasons behind their lack of response, such as personal hardship or oversight, and could prematurely end a valued relationship.
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