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154: Married to a Murderer: Narcissistic Creep Marries a 19 Year Old Girl Then She Disappears

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This episode of the SERIALously podcast explores the disturbing case of Drew Peterson, a police officer with a history of troubled marriages and infidelity. It delves into the suspicious circumstances surrounding the deaths of his third wife Kathleen Savio and the subsequent disappearance of his much younger fourth wife Stacy.

The summary outlines the police investigation into Drew's behavior and inconsistent accounts, shedding light on the concerning patterns that ultimately led to his conviction for Kathleen's murder. It also highlights the relentless efforts of Stacy's sister Cassandra, who continues her search for Stacy's remains after over 16 years, determined to find her and hold authorities accountable.

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154: Married to a Murderer: Narcissistic Creep Marries a 19 Year Old Girl Then She Disappears

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Drew Peterson's background and personal life

Drew Peterson had a history of troubled marriages and infidelity.

Drew Peterson married his first wife Carol right after high school in 1974, but the marriage ended in 1980 due to Drew's affair. His second marriage to Vicki Connolly also ended after 10 years because of an affair. Drew's third wife was Kathleen Savio, with whom he had two children before divorcing in 2003 after Drew had an affair with 19-year-old Stacy, who became his fourth wife.

Stacy sought stability after a difficult childhood marked by family tragedy.

Stacy's childhood was marred by the deaths of her two sisters and abandonment by her troubled mother. Despite this, Stacy was determined to build a stable family life. She met Drew while working at a hotel, and though 30 years her senior, he seemed to offer the security she craved. They married when Stacy turned 19 and had a child together.

The deaths of his previous wives and the disappearance of his fourth wife

Kathleen Savio was found dead in her bathtub in 2004 under suspicious circumstances.

Kathleen Savio's death was initially ruled an accidental drowning, but later autopsies determined it was a homicide. According to Stacy Peterson in Pastor Neil's account, Drew returned home covered in women's clothing on the night of Kathleen's death.

Stacy Peterson went missing in 2007 under suspicious circumstances.

Drew claimed Stacy left him for another man after an argument. However, Stacy had expressed fearing for her life and wanting a divorce to her sister Cassandra. Drew's accounts were inconsistent, and a lie detector test found his answers about Stacy's whereabouts deceptive.

The investigation uncovered concerning patterns in Drew's behavior and lies.

Stacy's family and Drew's ex-wives reported his controlling and abusive behavior. Drew's stepbrother Tom helped remove a suspiciously warm barrel from Drew's house the night Stacy disappeared. A pastor also revealed Stacy confided Drew killed Kathleen.

Despite lack of physical evidence, Drew was convicted of Kathleen's murder.

With only hearsay testimony as evidence, Drew was found guilty of Kathleen's murder and sentenced to 38 years in prison in 2012. He received an additional 40 years for attempting to hire a hit on the prosecutor.

The ongoing search for Stacy and the family's efforts to find her

Cassandra has relentlessly searched for Stacy for over 16 years.

Stacy's sister Cassandra believes she has located Stacy's remains in a Chicago canal but has been continually stymied by lack of action from law enforcement despite presenting evidence. She remains determined to find Stacy and hold authorities accountable.

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  • Drew Peterson had a history of troubled marriages and infidelity. He married multiple times, with his marriages ending due to his extramarital affairs. His infidelity played a significant role in the breakdown of his relationships, leading to divorces and ultimately contributing to the tragic events surrounding his wives.
  • Stacy's difficult childhood was marked by the deaths of her two sisters and abandonment by her troubled mother, which left her facing significant emotional challenges and instability from a young age.
  • Kathleen Savio's death was initially deemed an accidental drowning by the authorities investigating the case. This ruling was later challenged after further autopsies and investigations revealed evidence suggesting foul play and indicating that her death was not accidental.
  • Drew's stepbrother Tom removing a suspiciously warm barrel from Drew's house is a significant event in the case. This action raised suspicions due to the unusual circumstances surrounding it. The warm barrel could have indicated recent use or contained evidence related to Stacy's disappearance. Tom's involvement added complexity to the investigation and raised questions about his knowledge of the situation.
  • Drew Peterson was convicted of Kathleen Savio's murder based on hearsay testimony, which included statements made by Stacy Peterson to others about Drew's involvement in Kathleen's death. Hearsay evidence is typically considered less reliable in court because it is secondhand information. However, in this case, the prosecution successfully argued that the statements were admissible under a legal doctrine known as the forfeiture by wrongdoing, which allows hearsay statements if the defendant's actions caused the witness to be unavailable to testify.
  • Drew Peterson received an additional 40-year sentence for attempting to hire someone to kill the prosecutor who was involved in his murder trial. This action was seen as a serious crime aimed at obstructing justice and intimidating legal authorities. The attempt to hire a hitman demonstrated a clear intent to harm or silence those working on his case. This further criminal act added to the severity of his legal consequences.
  • Cassandra, Stacy Peterson's sister, has been actively searching for Stacy for over 16 years. She believes she has found Stacy's remains in a Chicago canal but has faced challenges in getting law enforcement to take action based on the evidence she has presented. Despite these obstacles, Cassandra remains determined to locate Stacy and hold those responsible for her disappearance accountable.

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Drew Peterson's background and personal life

Drew Peterson’s personal life has been marked by a series of troubled relationships, including multiple marriages that ended because of his infidelities, and his controversial marriage to a woman 30 years his junior.

Drew Peterson had a long history of troubled relationships, including multiple marriages and affairs.

Drew Peterson, immediately after graduating high school, married his first wife Carol in 1974. The two had two children together, but this marriage ended in divorce in 1980 after Drew had an affair. He went on to marry his second wife, Vicki Connolly, but like his first marriage, it ended due to infidelity.

Drew’s third marriage was to Kathleen Savio, with whom he also had two more children. However, their relationship dissolved in 2003 after Kathleen received a letter detailing Drew’s affair with Stacy, a teenager at the time. There were 18 domestic-related calls to the police from Kathleen and Drew's house amidst their divorce proceedings. Drew violated an order of protection Kathleen had against him. At one point, while Kathleen was upstairs with their children, Drew was downstairs with Stacy, signaling the affair’s impact on the family dynamic. Drew and Kathleen were officially divorced, and he subsequently married Stacy.

After graduating high school, Drew married his high school sweetheart Carol in 1974, with whom he had two children.

Drew's first marriage ended in divorce in 1980 after he had an affair.

Drew then married his second wife Vicki Connolly, but this marriage also ended in divorce after 10 years due to another affair.

Drew's third marriage was to Kathleen Savio, with whom he had two more children, but this too ended in divorce in 2003 after Drew had an affair with a teenager named Stacy.

Stacy Peterson, Drew's fourth wife, came from a troubled family background and was only 19 years old when she married the 49-year-old Drew in 2004.

Stacy's childhood was fraught with tragedy, including the untimely deaths of her two young sisters and her mother’s abandonment of the family. Her mother, Christy, had mental health issues and problems with the law including theft and DUIs, and eventually vanished, suspected to have been murdered by her companion.

Despite these challenges, Stacy was driven to better her life. She g ...

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  • Drew Peterson had a history of troubled relationships marked by infidelities that led to the end of his marriages. His first marriage to Carol ended due to an affair, followed by his second marriage to Vicki Connolly, which also ended because of infidelity. His third marriage to Kathleen Savio dissolved after she discovered his affair with Stacy, a teenager at the time, leading to their divorce in 2003. Peterson then married Stacy, his fourth wife, who was significantly younger than him and came from a troubled family background.
  • Stacy Peterson's childhood was marked by significant family tragedies, including the deaths of her two young sisters and her mother's abandonment due to mental health issues and legal troubles. Her mother's disappearance, suspected to be a murder, added to the instability of Stacy's upbringing. These events shaped Stacy's early life and influ ...

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The deaths of his previous wives and the disappearance of his fourth wife

The circumstances surrounding the deaths and disappearance related to Drew Peterson's third and fourth wives have raised significant suspicion and concerns.

Kathleen Savio, Drew's third wife, was found dead in her bathtub in 2004, shortly after their divorce was finalized.

Kathleen Savio was found lifeless in her bathtub with a gash to her head, and despite her hair being soaked with blood, her body and the tub were completely dry. Drew Peterson recounted that he was working as the watch commander at the police department when the incident occurred. He claimed his concern grew when Kathleen did not respond to his efforts to drop off their children, leading neighbors to check on her and discover her body. For years, Drew and his children believed Kathleen had died in an accidental household incident. However, after her body was exhumed, two separate autopsies concluded her death was a homicide, countering the initial accidental drowning ruling by the coroner's jury.

Pastor Neil shared that Stacy Peterson confided in him that Drew had killed Kathleen. Stacy claimed Drew returned home on the night of Kathleen's death dressed in black and carrying a duffel bag of women's clothing, which he swiftly washed.

Stacy Peterson, Drew's fourth wife, went missing in 2007, just three years after marrying Drew.

Stacy Peterson's disappearance in 2007 sparked immediate concern from family and friends, particularly her sister Cassandra Cales, having failed to show up for a planned painting day, uncharacteristic for the closely-knit sisters. Drew Peterson suggested she left him for another man and that he last spoke to her when she called him from an airport. However, this account conflicted with earlier statements, where Stacy had told Cassandra she wanted a divorce and feared for her life because of Drew's control.

Annie Elise notes the effort by Stacy's friends and family to help police establish a timeline the day she went missing, with the last confirmed communication being a conversation about painting at 10:15 am. Drew offered differing accounts concerning Stacy's whereabouts, stating she visited her grandparents and left follo ...

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  • Enhance your observational skills by practicing detailed note-taking when you witness something unusual or out of place, just as you might if you were trying to remember suspicious activities. Carry a small notebook or use a note-taking app on your phone to jot down times, dates, descriptions, and any other relevant details. This habit can sharpen your awareness and could be useful in various situations, from reporting a crime to remembering important personal events.
  • Learn basic body language interpretation to better understand the non-verbal cues that might indicate someone is being deceptive, similar to how conflicting accounts and behavior raised suspicions in the case. Start with free online resources or library books that cover the basics of body language. Pay attention to the gestures and expressions of people around you in different contexts, and compare your observations with what you've learned to improve your ability to read people.
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The police investigation and legal proceedings against Drew

Investigations into Stacy's disappearance and Kathleen's death revealed a troubling pattern in Drew's behavior, leading to his arrest and conviction despite the challenges of the case.

The police investigation into Stacy's disappearance and Kathleen's death uncovered a pattern of suspicious behavior and inconsistencies in Drew's accounts.

Stacy had expressed fear to her sister about Drew, mentioning that if anything were to happen to her, Drew should be blamed. Drew's character was further brought into question when Stacy's family and Drew's ex-wives reported a history of his controlling and abusive behavior. Vicki, Drew's second wife, recounted that Drew once told her he knew how to kill her and make it seem accidental.

Additionally, Drew's status as a police officer initially gave him an appearance of being untouchable, complicating the investigation. Despite multiple calls and a protective order against him, Drew managed to maintain control. His stepbrother, Tom, was given full immunity to provide information to the authorities. Tom confessed that he had helped Drew carry a large, warm blue barrel out of Drew's house on the night Stacy disappeared, which he later believed could have contained Stacy's body. This incident, coupled with Drew's strange activities including asking Tom to rent a storage unit and his carefully orchestrated control over a phone call supposedly from Stacy, painted an incriminating picture.

Drew's stepbrother Tom claimed that he helped Drew remove a large blue barrel from the house on the night Stacy went missing, and that the barrel was warm to the touch.

Tom, who had suffered a breakdown and a subsequent suicide attempt due to guilt, informed police of his involvement in removing the blue barrel from Drew's house. He noted it was big enough to hold a body and remembered it being warm. This chilling detail corroborated the ominous circumstances surrounding Stacy's disappearance.

A pastor also revealed that Stacy had confided in him that Drew had killed Kathleen and instructed Stacy on how to cover it up.

The investigation revealed Stacy had spoken to a pastor about Drew’s role in Kathleen's death, further complicating Drew's previously untarnished public persona as an officer of the law.

Drew was eventually arrested and charged with Kathleen's murder in 2009, based on the evidence gathered through the investig ...

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  • You can enhance your personal safety by documenting any instances of feeling threatened or uncomfortable in a dedicated journal, noting dates, times, and details, which can be invaluable for any future investigations or legal actions.
    • Keeping a detailed record can serve as evidence if you ever need to report someone's behavior. For example, if you feel harassed at work, noting every incident with specifics can help build a case if you decide to report it to HR or take legal action.
  • You can improve your awareness of manipulative behaviors by starting a discussion group with friends or colleagues to share experiences and strategies for dealing with potential manipulation.
    • This could involve meeting once a month to talk about personal experiences, sharing stories from the news, or discussing literature on the subject. For instance, after reading about a case of manipulation, the group could discuss the red flags that appeared and how to respond to similar situations in their own lives.
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The ongoing search for Stacy and the family's efforts to find her

In the search for Stacy, her sister Cassandra has become an unyielding force, constantly pursuing leads and aiming to find closure for her family, despite serious obstacles and setbacks from law enforcement.

Stacy's sister Cassandra has never given up the search for her, continuously working to raise funds and organize searches.

Annie Elise notes that Cassandra has been on a relentless quest for over 16 years, raising funds and organizing searches. Cassandra herself believes she's found Stacy's remains in a Chicago canal, a discovery initially made possible by a sonar search in 2007. Despite reporting this to the state police and providing the coordinates, no action was taken. For three days, the body resembling her sister remained in the same location before it disappeared.

In the following spring, another search identified the body further down the canal, in an advanced state of decomposition. Again, the state police were notified but failed to act promptly, embroiling Cassandra in a year-long struggle only to result in an ineffective dive that did not include a new sonar assessment.

Cassandra believes she has located Stacy's remains in a canal, but her efforts to have the area properly investigated and the remains recovered have been repeatedly stymied by law enforcement.

With access to more advanced technology, Cassandra brought in an updated sonar ROV from Alaska to locate the body once again. She presented her findings, using the ROV, to the state police and the state's attorney but was met with resistance and delayed responses. The FBI intervened three months later, conducted a haphazard dive, and seemingly dismissed Cassandra's efforts, at one point treating her as a suspect rather than a grieving sister. The area was subsequently declared clear by the authorities, which did not ...

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  • Law enforcement agencies may have protocols and resource constraints that prevent them from acting on every lead with the urgency that family members desire.
  • The identification of remains can be a complex process, requiring careful forensic analysis to avoid misidentification, which may explain some of the delays in investigation.
  • The involvement of multiple jurisdictions or agencies can complicate and slow down the process of investigation and recovery of remains.
  • The state police and other law enforcement agencies may have legitimate reasons for not disclosing all details of their investigation to the public or to family members, which could be misinterpreted as resistance or lack of action.
  • The use of advanced technology like sonar ROVs is not infallible and can sometimes lead to false positives, which may necessitate additional verification steps by authorities.
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  • You can support ongoing investigations by contributing to crowdfunding campaigns that aim to finance independent searches or forensic analyses. By donating to these causes, you help families and investigators gather the resources they need to pursue leads and evidence that might otherwise be overlooked due to funding constraints.
  • Educate yourself on the basics of citizen-led investigative techniques through online courses or webinars. This knowledge empowers you to assist in community efforts to solve cold cases or missing persons cases by understanding how to responsibly collect and share information that could be vital to an investigation.
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