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Ruby Franke Calls Husband From Jail “I’m A Really Good Girl” After Almost Killing 2 Of Her Kids

By Stephanie Soo & Ramble

On the Rotten Mango podcast, the horrific case of Ruby Franke's alleged severe abuse of her two youngest children is examined. Details emerge about the abusive "prison war torture" conditions, extreme punishments, and malnutrition the children endured in what responders described as a "concentration camp setting." The chilling evidence includes Ruby's journal justifying the abuse and witness accounts of the children's emaciated and injured state.

The blurb delves into the complicated family dynamics, exploring Ruby's husband Kevin's and other family members' reactions, including the advocacy work of Ruby's eldest daughter Sherry. It also touches on the legal aftermath, with Ruby and her partner Jodi pleading guilty, as well as debates around Kevin's potential culpability and the larger implications for protecting child influencers.

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Ruby Franke Calls Husband From Jail “I’m A Really Good Girl” After Almost Killing 2 Of Her Kids

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Severe Child Abuse Allegations

Ruby and Jodi were accused of inflicting "prison war torture"-like abuse on Ruby's two youngest children in a "concentration camp setting." They enforced extreme punishments like forced labor, exposure to elements, and restraints. This resulted in malnutrition, blisters, rope burns, injuries needing hospitalization, according to responder accounts.

Evidence of Abuse

Ruby's journal justified abuse, believing the children were "possessed by evil." Witnesses described the children's emaciation and severe injuries. A paramedic was emotionally distressed by the boy's condition.

Family Reactions

  • Sherry, the eldest daughter, wrote about their childhood in her book "The House of My Mother" and advocated for protecting child influencers.

  • Siblings knew of issues but felt powerless against Ruby's control. Some condemned Ruby's actions, while others remained conflicted.

  • Kevin stayed loyal to Ruby despite abuse claims, asking about charges against her rather than his children's wellbeing. His actions prioritized protecting Ruby over supporting his children.

Potential Additional Culpability

  • Suspicions emerged around Jodi's friend Pam Botcher's involvement and potential destruction of evidence.
  • Debates arose over whether Kevin was manipulated by Jodi or culpable for failing to protect his children from abuse.
  • Ruby and Jodi pleaded guilty, sentenced to 4-30 years. Ruby blamed Jodi, while Jodi claimed innocence.
  • Kevin filed for divorce. Sherry advocates for child influencer rights, including a new Utah law.
  • The case highlighted dangers of family vlogging and the need for better child protections.

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  • You can raise awareness about child welfare by starting a blog or social media campaign focused on the importance of recognizing and reporting child abuse. Share information on the signs of abuse, how to report it, and resources for affected individuals. For example, create infographics that detail the physical and emotional signs of child neglect and abuse, and share stories that highlight the importance of community vigilance.
  • Volunteer with local child protective services or organizations dedicated to child welfare to help at-risk children. Offer your time to support activities, mentorship programs, or educational workshops that empower children to understand their rights and how to seek help. For instance, you could assist in organizing a workshop that teaches children about personal safety and self-advocacy in a way that's age-appropriate and engaging.
  • Advocate for stronger child protection laws by writing to your local representatives, detailing the need for better oversight of situations where children may be exploited, such as family vlogging. Explain the potential risks and propose specific measures, like regular welfare checks or stricter regulations on child labor in media. You might draft a template letter that others can use to contact their representatives, making it easier for more voices to be heard on the issue.

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Details of the Abuse Allegations and Evidence

The podcast hosts delve into serious allegations of child abuse involving severe physical harm, deprivation, and psychological traumas akin to "prison war torture" in a "concentration camp setting."

Severe Child Injuries and Abuse: Physical, Deprivation, Psychological

Extreme Methods of "Purification": Forced Labor, Exposure, and Restraint

Ruby Frankie and her partner Jodi enforced punishments on Ruby's two youngest children that demonstrated extreme and harmful methods. The children were subjected to five hours of forced labor in a cemetery without basic necessities, standing barefoot in sweltering heat, and carrying heavy boxes up and down stairs, among other abusive tasks. Their methods also included forcing the nine-year-old daughter to jump into a cactus and the nine-year-old son to balance on one foot while performing tasks—often resulting in self-injury. Inside the home, a safe room revealed rope and handcuffs used to physically restrain the children, sometimes in a hog-tied position.

Children Faced Malnutrition, Blisters, Rope Burns, and Injuries Needing Hospitalization

The children were regularly denied food, water, and entertainment—essentials for their well-being. This deprivation resulted in their being emaciated and malnourished. They were forced to undergo physical tasks that left them with blisters and rope burns, and severe injuries, including sunburns from long hours outside without protection, which sometimes required hospitalization. The children's injuries were clearly visible, with the boy's tendons showing at the Achilles tendon area. In one instance, deep wounds were found around a child's ankles, caused by restrictive ropes.

Ruby and Jodi's Actions Were "Prison War Torture" in a "Concentration Camp Setting" At Home

The abuse inflicted by Ruby and Jodi was likened to the severe and inhumane treatment found in a concentration camp. Jesse, one of the children, noted the absence of celebration on his birthday, which was justified with claims that he hadn't "earned the right to be special."

Evidence From Journals and Accounts Documented the Abuse

Ruby's Journal Justified Abuse, Believing the Children Were Possessed by Evil

Ruby documented her faulty justifications in a journal, calling the children weak, infectious, and a setup from the devil. She believed that the abusive tasks she assigned were intended to "destroy" evil within the children and make them repent for their sins. Ruby and Jodi's parenting ideology, documented in their book "Ri ...

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Details of the Abuse Allegations and Evidence

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  • You can become more aware of child welfare by volunteering with local organizations that support at-risk children. By offering your time at shelters, food banks, or after-school programs, you'll help provide safe environments and necessary resources for children who may be experiencing neglect or abuse.
  • Start a conversation about the signs of child abuse with friends and family to raise awareness. Educate yourself on the indicators of abuse and neglect, such as unexplained injuries or changes in behavior, and share this knowledge with others to create a more vigilant commu ...

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Reactions and Responses of Family Members

The unfolding drama surrounding a family torn apart by allegations of abuse reveals a spectrum of reactions ranging from advocacy to denial.

Sherry, Eldest Daughter, Protected Child Influencers and Advocated For Siblings

Sherry Wrote "the House of My Mother," a Visceral Look Into Childhood in a Family Vlogging Channel

Sherry, the eldest daughter, has taken a stand to protect child influencers and advocate for her siblings after her family's life unraveled in the public eye. She authored "The House of My Mother," a book that delves into the childhood experiences of those growing up within a family vlogging channel. Sherry reflects on watching Ruby distance herself from family and questions whether this was a step toward healing. Her book aims to shed light on the traumatic experiences not only unique to her but commonly endured by child influencers.

Sherry to Stop Sharing Personal Life Details Publicly

After enduring a tumultuous childhood and her mother, Ruby's, recent sentencing, Sherry has resolved to cease sharing personal details about her life publicly. Despite attending Ruby's sentencing, she chose to avert her gaze, having become all too familiar with what she described as "crocodile tears." Declaring her intention never to communicate with Ruby again, regardless of Ruby's potential apologies, Sherry now focuses on advocating for the protection of child influencers and their exploitation in family vlogs.

Siblings' Mixed Reactions: Some Condemn, Others Conflicted Over Ruby's Actions

The siblings of the family each have shown different reactions to the unfolding events.

Siblings Knew Of Family's Issues but Couldn't Intervene Due to Ruby's Control

Knowledge of the family's strife was not enough for Ruby's siblings to override her control. Bonnie, Ruby’s sister, has sought to publicly distance herself from Ruby's notorious actions, condemning her brother-in-law Kevin for his inaction. While chat threads reveal the siblings' discomfort with Ruby's extreme ideology and its intrusion into family events, they felt compelled to maintain silence, balancing their love for Ruby with opposition to her abusive behavior.

Chad, the eldest son, has also chosen to break contact with Ruby, hating the actions she took, yet acknowledging the potential for future conversations given their filial bond.

Kevin, the Father, Neglected His Children's Wellbeing

Kevin Stayed Loyal to Ruby, Expressing Love Despite the Abuse

Kevin appeared steadfast in his loyalty to Ruby, expressing love even amid abuse allegations.

Kevin Prioritized Protecting Ruby Over Supporting His Children

Kevin has continued to support Ruby throughout the legal and familial turmoil. In contrast to Sherry's protective actions, Kevin's initial disbelief about the accusations against Ruby indicates his struggles to reconcile with the state of his family.

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Reactions and Responses of Family Members

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  • Reflect on your own social media use by journaling about the content you share and its potential long-term impact on your family, especially if you have children. Consider how sharing personal details might affect them in the future and explore ways to protect their privacy, such as creating strict boundaries or pseudonyms for online personas.
  • Start a conversation with your family about digital consent, especially with younger members who might not fully understand the implications of being featured online. Use family meetings to discuss everyone's comfort levels and establish rules for what is and isn't shareable, ensuring that all voices are heard and respected.
  • Evaluate your support system an ...

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Discussions of Potential Additional Culpability

Concerns about the involvement of other individuals and the extent of their knowledge or participation in events are raised in discussions on a podcast.

Suspicions Around Jodi's Friend Pam Botcher's Involvement

Several points of discussion have suggested that Pam Botcher might have had more involvement than initially believed.

Pam, a "Three Musketeers" Member, Accused Of Destroying Evidence

Pam Botcher, a member of the group known as the "three musketeers" alongside Jodie Hildebrandt and Ruby, was accused by internet users of removing what were referred to as "pen papers" from the scene before authorities could access them. This act of potentially destroying evidence has raised accusations about her engagement in the ongoing situation.

Jessie, Jodi's niece, recalls Pam being present while they were held in captivity at Jodi's home. Sherry, an author, also implied that Jodi, Ruby, and Pam collaborated closely, calling them the "three musketeers of the apocalypse."

Pam's Behavior Raised Red Flags as She Prioritized Herself Over the Children's Wellbeing

When the police found two teenage daughters at Pam Botcher's house, they encountered resistance from Pam and her husband when trying to ensure the girls' safety. Pam's husband showed more concern over the image of a police car in their driveway than the wellbeing of the children, and Pam herself made comments about the girls scrubbing her floor, suggesting she may have been prioritizing her needs. Additionally, there were concerns raised when Pam, in the back of a police cruiser, appeared more worried about neighborly perception than the dire situation. It was also noted that none of the individuals associated with her displayed concern for the children's wellbeing amid abuse allegations.

Kevin: Victim of Jodi's Manipulation or Culpable?

Kevin's role and degree of responsibility concerning the situation with his children remain debated.

Some Argued Kevin Was Weak and Easily Brainwashed; Others Felt He Failed to Protect His Children

The public is divided over Kevin's culpability in the abuse, with Stephanie Soo mentioning that listener opinions varied on whether Kevin was a victim, trying to keep a calm front to gain custody of his children, or if he was complicit. Kevin's own frustrations with law enforcement and child protection services are in stark contrast to his actions at the time, where he admits to ignoring CPS calls due to his belief in Jodi and Ruby's narrative of the situation. He has spoken about the slow indoctrination process he endured and his current state of haunting regret over ...

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  • "Pen papers" referred to in the text are documents or notes written with a pen. In this context, the term is used to describe potentially crucial evidence that was allegedly removed from the scene by Pam Botcher. The significance lies in the suspicion that by taking these papers, Pam may have tampered with or concealed evidence related to the events under investigation. This action has raised concerns about her involvement and potential impact on the ongoing situation.
  • The "three musketeers of the apocalypse" is a reference to a group consisting of Jodi Hildebrandt, Ruby, and Pam Botcher. This term suggests a close-knit trio involved in significant events or situations, akin to the camaraderie depicted in the classic tale of the Three Musketeers. The use of "apocalypse" in this context may imply a sense of dramatic or intense involvement in troubling or catastrophic circumstances. The phrase underscores the perceived strong bond and shared actions of these three individuals in the context of the discussed events.
  • Kevin's interactions with law enforcement were ...

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The Sentencing, Legal Aftermath, and Ongoing Effects

The complex case involving Ruby and Jodi has come to a legal conclusion with their sentencing, but the reverberations continue to impact their family and raise important questions about the world of family vlogging.

Ruby and Jodi Pleaded Guilty, Sentenced To 4-30 Years in Prison

Ruby and Jodi have both been sentenced to a possible 4 to 30 years in prison after pleading guilty to four counts of aggravated child abuse. Initially, Ruby's loyalty to Jodi seemed unshakeable until she realized that turning against her could result in a lighter sentence.

Ruby Blamed Jodi At Sentencing; Jodi Claimed Innocence and Victimhood

During the sentencing, Ruby attempted to shift blame onto Jodi, presenting herself as misled and isolated by Jodi's counsel, and expressing a distorted view of reality influenced by Jodi's supposed mental illness. Ruby thanked authorities for "freeing" her upon her arrest and acknowledged that the harm inflicted on her children was by herself and Jodi.

Jodi, on the other hand, framed her plea deal as a form of protection for the children to prevent further trauma by stirring notions of innocence and victimhood. She suggested that the devil was involved and contended that the children self-inflicted some of the injuries showcased in the allegations. The concerns have risen that Jodi may receive a lighter sentence due to the primary focus on Ruby's actions and notoriety.

Case Impact: Kevin's Divorce, Kids Healing and Rebuilding Relationships

The case's outcomes have resulted in Kevin's involvement in protecting Ruby being analyzed and discussed among netizens, impacting the perspectives of culpability. The incident reflects Kevin's initial intent to support Ruby, even after authorities were involved.

Sherry Leaves Public Life to Advocate For Child Influencers' Rights

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The Sentencing, Legal Aftermath, and Ongoing Effects

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  • Kevin is a figure connected to Ruby and Jodi in the context of the legal case involving child abuse. His involvement revolves around supporting Ruby during the legal proceedings, which has sparked discussions about his role and culpability in the situation. The text suggests that Kevin's actions and decisions in relation to Ruby's case have been scrutinized by observers and netizens following the events.
  • Chad is an adult child from the family involved in the ...

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