In this episode of Rotten Mango, host Kaya Henderson and co-hosts expose the disturbing exploitation of children by Ruby Frankie, creator of the popular YouTube channel "8 Passengers." As the family vlogging channel grew in viewership and revenue, the pursuit of portraying an "ideal family" drove Ruby to mistreat her children through emotional manipulation, public humiliation, and deprivation of their basic needs.
The episode delves into Ruby's extreme religious interpretations that justify her damaging parenting methods, as well as the public backlash and aftermath following the emergence of shocking footage revealing the abuse. It serves as a cautionary tale about ethical failures in family vlogging and prioritizing profits over child welfare.
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Kaya Henderson and co-hosts expose the dark truth behind Ruby Frankie's YouTube channel "8 Passengers": exploiting her children through invasive vlogging to satisfy her obsession with portraying a perfect family.
With early profits from ads and sponsorships, Ruby's hobby of family vlogging becomes an income-generating business. As viewership and earnings rapidly grow to over $100,000 per month, Ruby and husband Kevin shift priorities from capturing family joy to manufacturing content - treating their children as employees.
To project an ideal family, Ruby emotionally manipulates and publicly humiliates her children. She deprives them of basic needs like food, shelter, and privacy to coerce participation. The vlogs reveal her children's anguish, as Ruby ignores their vulnerability. Concerned viewers demand investigations into suspected abuse.
Ruby interprets her LDS faith to an extreme, asserting her abusive discipline methods are divinely intended to "save" her children from selfishness. She indoctrinates them with these distorted beliefs about love and self-worth.
The family's promotion of Anasazi wilderness therapy - which traumatized son Chad through harsh survival tactics - raises concerns about prioritizing profit over child welfare.
As netizens uncover and critique Ruby's shocking punishments like denying Chad a bedroom for months, public outrage explodes with over 1000 calls to child services. The family faces a damaged reputation, losing sponsorships.
Ruby refuses accountability, dismissing valid concerns as "hate." Her defiant responses and legal threats against critics exacerbate the family's downfall from their previously beloved image - a cautionary tale about ethical failures in family vlogging.
1-Page Summary
As Kaya Henderson and co-hosts delve into the dark side of family vlogging, they share a grim portrayal of Ruby Frankie’s channel, 8 Passengers, uncovering patterns of exploitation and harmful parenting practices.
Ruby Franky's yearning for external validation through motherhood led to the inception of "8 Passengers" on YouTube, aiming to earn that recognition well beyond her immediate circle. Capitalizing on the unique family dynamics and Ruby's enthusiasm for sharing glimpses of their life, the channel escalates from a simple pastime to a profitable venture.
Ruby's obsession with capturing and showcasing perfect motherly moments spirals into the creation of 8 Passengers, a channel through which she incessantly vies for accolades and validation as an ideal mother. Despite Kevin's initial belief that his wife's endeavor was nothing more than a hobby, the channel begins to generate income, igniting an unquenchable ambition to outshine other family vloggers not only in viewership but also in accolades.
The Frankies watch their vlogging hobby transform into a substantial income source as their channel gains traction. What starts as a paycheck of $85 soon balloons into monthly earnings that far surpass household income, leaping from $2,000 to $20,000, and eventually peaking beyond $100,000. The lure of financial success turns their everyday moments into a business, evolving from spontaneous familial joy to controlled, employee-like engagements for their children.
The channel, complete with an "8 Passengers" bumper sticker on the family van, earns them a new spacious house and car. Fans even recognize their car on the highway.
As profits soar, Kevin and Ruby's priorities skew, with their success and the children's roles as "employees" overshadowing the wellbeing and authentic experiences of their younger kin. The frequency and vigor of filming sessions escalate. Kevin acknowledges using his children to rake in earnings, and Ruby's stringent focus on presenting a flawless domestic facade over the genuine happiness of their family becomes increasingly apparent.
Henderson, joined by concerned netizens, scrutinizes the invasive and insensitive nature of the 8 Passengers vlogs, revealing disturbing parenting behaviors by Ruby Franky.
Ruby exerts oppressive control over her children's lives, be it through emotional coercion or outright punitive measures like deprivation and public humiliation. A vlog captures Ruby forcing a pain-filled smile from Chad for a thumbnail, while another witness recounts how Ruby confiscates her child’s book until academic criteria are met. Chad's punishment for a sibling prank extends beyond the reasonable. His phone is taken; his bedroom denied for months; made to sleep on a beanbag. This resonates with vi ...
Ruby Frankie's Family Vlogging and Exploitation of Children
The detailed investigation into the Frankie household reveals multiple incidents of abuse and neglect led by Ruby's obsession with projecting a perfect family image.
Evidence is presented that showcases forced starvation, suggesting the denial of food, and children were forced to undergo demeaning tasks, such as walking barefoot in the desert and sleeping outside. The narrative describes Ruby engaging in extremely cost-conscious grocery shopping at the expense of nutrition, even to the extent of setting arbitrary calorie limit days that are insufficient for her active teenagers.
It's noted that Ruby disciplines her children on camera and more harshly when off-camera, with the children being forced to do tasks such as push-ups for leaving a sock outside. Chad recalls being physically punished through spanking and whipping with a belt. The children's frail appearance and authorities' statement about their survival further highlight the trauma experienced.
The children show signs of trauma, including Chad appearing deeply troubled and expressing distress regarding his mother's absence at his football games. The fact that children receive basic items like bedding as birthday gifts instead of necessity further underscores the neglect and abuse.
Ruby burdens her children with chores, including meticulous cleaning, and caring for the younger siblings. They are told to stay home from school to clean, and the frequent filming of chore completion demands precision, leaving them with little downtime or rest.
Ruby Franke, a family vlogger, films her children's lives putting their private moments on public display. The vlog details moments of familial disputes, including the confiscation of a bedroom door, leading to ...
Abuse and Neglect in the Frankie Household
Kevin and Ruby Frankie’s interpretations of LDS faith and controversial parenting strategies have raised alarm, with their extreme approaches and decisions causing concerns about the impact on their children’s well-being.
Kevin remarks that the primary goal in their religion is to become a parent, which may influence Ruby's parenting. Her religious views become extreme as she uses religion to exert power and becomes obsessed with incorporating God into her vlogging. Ruby asserts that her method of raising children is divinely intended.
While no direct connection between strict obedience, punishment, and Ruby’s religious beliefs is provided, it is implied her extreme parenting, which may involve doctrinal distortions, aims to correct or bring children back as "children of God."
For instance, Ruby says the two youngest are showing long patterns of selfishness and an unwillingness to repent. As a result, she and Kevin have decided to give the "gift" of truth, boundaries, and repentance instead of Christmas presents.
Ruby singles out the youngest children not to receive Christmas presents to give them a "visceral experience" of love from their parents. Her relentless focus on religious practices shows an environment where her children may be heavily indoctrinated with these beliefs, potentially distorting their understanding of love, discipline, and self-worth.
The hosts mention that Ruby and Kevin sent their son Chad to Anasazi, a wilderness therapy camp, when he was 14, which is portrayed in their vlogs as Chad's story of redemption and victory. Stephanie Soo describes the "rabbit stick room" at the Anasazi camp, suggesting children, including Chad, walk in every Friday to say goodbye to their previous life.
Children at the camp experience harsh conditions, including survival treks and limited food intake, c ...
Frankies' Religious Beliefs and Impact on Children
The Frankie Family faces an intense public backlash after disturbing footage of their actions is uncovered.
Netizens have compiled evidence of Ruby Frankie's unsettling behavior in her vlogs to prompt calls to Child Protective Services (CPS). Multiple incidents have been critiqued, including Ruby and Kevin making their children pay cash to retrieve homework from a trash bag, and Ruby's denial of a bedroom to her teenage son for seven months. This content sparked public outrage and frustration, leading to roughly a thousand calls to CPS.
Commenters have parsed through the family's old vlogs and criticized disturbing segments, with expressions ranging from concern for the children's well-being to disgust at the family's actions. For example, Ruby's youngest daughter hid in fear after a nail polish incident, while others noted Ruby's neglectful behavior, such as improper attention to her children’s dental care and public shaming. Footage handed over to a Hulu documentary added fuel to the fire, revealing more moments of alleged abuse and manipulation by Ruby.
Ruby’s defiant response to these criticisms—claiming she's been a responsible mother from the beginning and questioning the motive of the hate agains ...
Family's Public Backlash and Scrutiny After Exposure
The public response to Ruby's actions, her family's justification attempts, and her contentious interactions with viewers online constitute a downfall from grace for the once beloved Frankie Family. The situation highlights a broader cautionary tale about the risks of family vlogging on child welfare, as evidenced by the array of negative reactions and potential legal repercussions stemming from their online presence. Ruby's strong refusal to a suggested PR apology and ul ...
The Frankie Family's Downfall: A Cautionary Tale on Family Vlogging and Child Welfare
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