#397: Diddy’s ‘Freak Off’: What Truly Happened To Cassie In The 10-Year Relationship With Diddy
This podcast episode summary delves into disturbing allegations made by Cassie Ventura, Diddy's former long-term girlfriend, in a recent lawsuit. Cassie accuses Diddy of physical assault, financial control, and coercing her into degrading sexual situations during their decade-long relationship.
The summary also examines corroborating evidence, including accounts from other women who claim to have experienced abuse from Diddy. It covers Diddy's initial denial, subsequent apology, and the aftermath of Cassie's lawsuit, including reports of more accusers coming forward and a settlement paid to Cassie.
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Cassie Ventura's Allegations Against Diddy
Cassie Ventura details a decade-long pattern of abuse during her relationship with Diddy in a new lawsuit. She alleges Diddy physically assaulted her, controlled her finances and career, and threatened retaliation if she left him or spoke out, according to the lawsuit.
Cassie also accuses Diddy of forcing her to participate in degrading "freak-off" sex parties while he filmed the encounters, according to the lawsuit. She claims Diddy coerced her by threatening to withhold her music career.
Other Women's Allegations
Gina, another ex-girlfriend, alleges Diddy was physically, emotionally, and mentally abusive towards her for years, according to Gina. She claims Diddy forced her to have abortions against her will.
Dawn Richards of Danity Kane alleges witnessing Diddy violently attack Cassie, including shoving, choking, and throwing scalding food at her, according to Richards.
Corroborating Evidence
Security footage from 2016 shows Diddy assaulting Cassie in a hotel hallway, confirming her account. Cassie's friends and former staff corroborate the abuse, with some saying they were too scared to intervene, according to Tiffany Redd and Roger Bonds.
Diddy's Response and Aftermath
Initially denying the "baseless" allegations, Diddy later apologized after the hotel footage surfaced, admitting "inexcusable" behavior, according to his statements.
Cassie's lawsuit led to over 120 more accusers coming forward. Homeland Security raids on Diddy's homes discovered weapons, drugs, and thousands of baby oil bottles, suggesting potential trafficking, according to reports.
Diddy swiftly settled Cassie's lawsuit for an undisclosed, likely multi-million dollar amount despite continued denials, according to legal proceedings.
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- You can educate yourself on the signs of abuse and manipulation by reading materials from credible organizations like the National Domestic Violence Hotline or Loveisrespect to recognize and address such behaviors in your own relationships.
- Understanding the dynamics of power and control can help you identify red flags in relationships around you. For example, if a friend seems to be isolated from others or has unexplained injuries, these could be signs of abuse.
- You can support survivors by volunteering your time or donating to local shelters and organizations that aid those affected by domestic violence.
- By offering your support, you provide a safe space for survivors to share their stories and heal. For instance, volunteering at a call center for a domestic abuse hotline can make a real difference in someone's life.
- You can create a personal safety plan that includes strategies for leaving an abusive situation, securing financial independence, and maintaining privacy online.
- A safety plan might involve setting aside emergency funds, memorizing important phone numbers, and knowing the nearest safe location to go to in case of an emergency. This proactive approach ensures you have a roadmap to safety should you ever need it.
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Cassie Ventura's allegations of abuse and manipulation by Diddy
Cassie Ventura settled a civil lawsuit against Diddy with undisclosed terms that seem to include a non-disclosure agreement, and has now filed a new lawsuit alleging a decade-long pattern of abuse during their relationship.
Cassie's lawsuit details a decade-long pattern of physical, emotional, and psychological abuse by Diddy
Cassie Ventura, in her lawsuit filed in November 2023, recounts a pattern of physical, emotional, and psychological abuse during her on-again, off-again relationship with Diddy from 2007 to 2018. Cassie alleges Diddy forcibly kissed her, drugged her, regularly beat her often in front of his staff, and controlled her finances and career. She claims the abuse included horrible incidents like being beaten in a hotel room—an event her former makeup artist was supposedly privy to but too scared to report. Roger Bonds, a declared former bodyguard of Diddy, corroborated that he had seen Diddy lay hands on Cassie.
Diddy allegedly isolated Cassie, controlled her finances and career, and threatened her with consequences if she left or spoke out
Cassie’s allegations include being isolated by Diddy, who paid for everything in her life, thereby exerting control over her. Diddy controlled her personal affairs to such an extent that MRI results from an alleged abuse-related injury were sent directly to him instead of her. After incidents of alleged abuse, Cassie was hidden in Diddy's house or hotels away from the public eye. She felt powerless, noting Diddy's extensive network was aware of the assaults but feared increased violence or retaliation if she reported him. Cassie claims she was obliged to blindly follow Diddy's instructions out of fear, and after leaving him, was terrorized when her new address was leaked online.
Cassie says Diddy forced her to participate in degrading "freak-off" sex parties while he filmed the encounters
The lawsuit describes "freak-off" sex parties as degrading events where Cassie was coerced to engage with male sex workers while Diddy watched and directed the activities. Cassie was forced into sexual acts and Diddy allegedly used his control over her music career to ensure her participation. This participation included wearing specific lingerie and performing sexual acts that were filmed by Diddy. Cassie developed intense fear and anxiety due to these events, and sometimes faced physical abuse if she refused to participate.
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Cassie Ventura's allegations of abuse and manipulation by Diddy
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Actionables
- Educate yourself on the signs of abuse by reading literature from credible organizations like the National Domestic Violence Hotline, which can help you recognize similar patterns in relationships around you.
- Understanding the dynamics of abusive relationships can be crucial in identifying them. By learning about the various forms of abuse, including physical, emotional, and psychological, you can become more aware of the warning signs in your own relationships or those of friends and family. This knowledge can empower you to offer support and resources to those who may be experiencing abuse.
- Create a personal safety plan that includes emergency contacts, safe places, and financial resources, which can be a lifeline if you find yourself in a controlling or abusive situation.
- Having a safety plan in place is a proactive step to protect yourself. It should include details like who to call in an emergency, where to go if you need to leave quickly, and how to access funds if your finances are controlled. This plan can provide a sense of security and control over your own well-being, which is especially important if you're in a situation similar to what was ...
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Other women's allegations of abuse by Diddy
New allegations arise against Diddy from various women, including a former girlfriend and a member of his past music group, Danity Kane, painting a troubling picture of the artist's past relationships.
Gina, another ex-girlfriend of Diddy, alleges he was physically, emotionally, and mentally abusive towards her for years
Gina has come forward with allegations that Diddy was physically, mentally, and emotionally abusive towards her during their relationship. She describes a relationship that started pleasantly but quickly turned abusive, lasting for about three and a half years. Gina claims that Diddy habitually belittled her by comparing her to his ex-girlfriend Cassie, calling her derogatory names, and commenting negatively on her physical appearance.
Gina says Diddy would compare her to Cassie, call her derogatory names, and physically assault her, including an incident where he punched her in the face
One specific incident of physical abuse Gina recalls took place around May at Meek Mill's birthday party, not long after their relationship began. Additionally, after Cassie filed her lawsuit, ten other victims filed lawsuits against Diddy for similar abusive behavior.
Gina claims Diddy forced her to have abortions against her will on multiple occasions
Gina alleges that Diddy's abusive behavior extended to controlling her reproductive rights, claiming that he forced her to have abortions on multiple occasions against her will.
Dawn Richards, a former member of Diddy's group Danity Kane, alleges Diddy violently attacked Cassie in her presence
Dawn Richards, a former member of Danity Kane, has come forward with her own lawsuit against Diddy, detailing a pattern of violent behavior that she witnessed.
Richards says she witnessed Diddy shoving Cassie against a wall, choking her, and throwin ...
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Other women's allegations of abuse by Diddy
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Actionables
- You can educate yourself on the signs of abusive relationships by reading materials from credible organizations like the National Domestic Violence Hotline or Loveisrespect to better recognize and understand abusive dynamics in relationships.
- Understanding the signs, such as isolation, physical harm, or forced decisions, can help you identify these patterns in your own relationships or those of people around you. This knowledge can empower you to offer support or seek help when necessary.
- Start a personal journal to reflect on your own relationship experiences, noting any behaviors that may align with the patterns of abuse discussed.
- Regular reflection can increase self-awareness and help you recognize if you've experienced similar behaviors. This practice can also serve as a tool for emotional processing and may guide you in making informed decisions about your relationships.
- Create a saf ...
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Corroborating evidence and testimony supporting the allegations
New revelations and corroborating testimonies have come to light in the allegations against Sean 'Diddy' Combs, painting a concerning picture of his behavior towards Cassie Ventura and others.
Security camera footage emerges showing Diddy assaulting Cassie in a hotel hallway, confirming her account
Attorney Tony Busby claims to represent over 120 accusers, including ones with allegations of abuse at the hands of Mr. Combs during auditions where victims were promised stardom. Adding concrete support to these allegations, security camera footage from 2016 at an LA hotel captured a violent incident between Mr. Combs and Miss Ventura. The video, obtained from the Intercontinental hotel, shows a barefoot Cassie in a hoodie hurriedly leaving a hotel room with items in her arms. Shortly after, a towel-clad Diddy is seen chasing her, grabbing the hoodie, throwing Cassie to the ground, and kicking her. He dragged her back toward the room, retrieved her dropped items, and, after momentarily letting her go, shoved her again and threw a glass vase at her.
Cassie's friends and former staff members corroborate the abuse, with some saying they were too scared to intervene
Cassie's reluctance, fear, and the actions of her friends indicate a deeply troubling environment. After an incident at the Blind Dragon, Cassie was seen not wanting to leave with Diddy, but he insisted. A friend packed Cassie an overnight bag in a scenario that appeared to be a recurring one. Tiffany Redd, a songwriter, recalled being woken up by Diddy violently screaming for Cassie, demanding compliance in a manner that left her terrified and humiliated. Redd also noted Cassie's music advancement was tied to her participation in demeaning activities Diddy called "freak-offs."
Tiffany Redd, who wrote songs for Cassie, describes times where Diddy confron ...
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Corroborating evidence and testimony supporting the allegations
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Actionables
- You can develop a better understanding of the signs of abuse by researching the psychological and behavioral patterns associated with it. Start by reading articles or books by experts in psychology or social work that explain the subtle signs of coercion and control in relationships. This knowledge can help you recognize potentially abusive situations in your own life or in the lives of those around you.
- Create a personal safety plan if you feel at risk of abuse or know someone who might be. This plan should include steps to increase personal security, such as setting up check-ins with trusted friends, identifying safe places to go in an emergency, and keeping important documents and a small amount of money readily accessible.
- Encourage open conversations about abuse and its preventio ...
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Diddy's response to the allegations and the aftermath
The situation surrounding Diddy is tumultuous following allegations, an unexpected apology, a significant settlement, and shocking discoveries by Homeland Security.
Initially, Diddy denies the allegations, calling them "baseless and outrageous lies" aimed at extorting money
Diddy and his legal team initially denied any wrongdoing in the face of allegations. His attorney, Ben Brafman, dismissed the claims as a shakedown for $30 million, designed to tarnish Diddy's reputation. Diddy himself referred to the allegations as "baseless and outrageous lies" aimed at extorting money. This firm stance aligned with the portrayal of Cassie's lawsuit, with Diddy's lawyer asserting that the claimants were merely seeking a payday.
However, after the hotel footage is released, Diddy issues a public apology, admitting his "inexcusable" behavior
The narrative shifted when hotel footage that seemingly corroborated Cassie's account of assault was leaked. Initially, Diddy had paid the hotel security worker $50,000 not to release the footage or contact the police. After the leak, Diddy publicly admitted to his "inexcusable" behavior, apologized, and mentioned hitting rock bottom. He also revealed that he sought professional help, including therapy and rehab, while asking for God's mercy and grace. Rather than asking for forgiveness, he expressed a commitment to being a better person each day.
Cassie's lawsuit leads to a flood of over 120 additional accusers coming forward, many alleging sexual abuse and trafficking
Although details of how Cassie's lawsuit led to additional accusers coming forward are not provided, it's mentioned that the number of victims, including minors, is "shocking" and considered just the "tip of the iceberg." Tony Busby, hinting at the breadth of the scandal, suggested that individuals are trying to distance themselves from Diddy, indicating a wide-reaching controversy. Moreover, a hotline set up for victims received over 12,000 calls within just ...
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Clarifications
- Homeland Security's involvement in raiding Diddy's homes was related to sex trafficking charges. The raid was conducted to investigate allegations of criminal activities, including potential sex trafficking operations. The discovery of weapons, drugs, and a large quantity of baby oil during the raid raised suspicions and prompted further investigation. This action was part of a broader effort to uncover any potential illegal activities linked to the allegations against Diddy.
- The discovery of a large quantity of baby oil during the raid on Diddy's home by Homeland Security raised questions due to its unusual nature and quantity. The presence of 1000 bottles of baby oil alongside weapons and drugs hinted at potential unconventional uses or acti ...
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