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#389: French Husband Drugged Wife Nightly So 72 Men Could SA Her Without Her Knowledge For 10 Yrs

By Stephanie Soo & Ramble

This episode explores a disturbing case in France where a man named Dominique systematically drugged his wife Giselle nightly for nearly a decade. During these episodes of unconsciousness, Dominique invited dozens of men to sexually assault Giselle without her knowledge.

For years, Giselle experienced unexplained health issues such as memory loss and disorientation, which are now understood as effects of the prolonged abuse. The episode highlights the issue of "chemical submission" in France, where drugging victims to enable assault is underreported due to legal requirements around consent. Giselle's case aimed to raise awareness and push for legislative reform.

#389: French Husband Drugged Wife Nightly So 72 Men Could SA Her Without Her Knowledge For 10 Yrs

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#389: French Husband Drugged Wife Nightly So 72 Men Could SA Her Without Her Knowledge For 10 Yrs

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Dominique's Systematic Drugging and Assault of Wife Giselle

From 2011 to 2020, Dominique systematically drugged his wife Giselle with sedatives and invited dozens of men to sexually assault her unconscious body, according to Giselle's attorneys. He secretly mixed [restricted term] and [restricted term] into her food, rendering her unconscious for hours. Dominique meticulously planned the assaults, recording the crimes on video and providing perpetrators with instructions to avoid detection.

Giselle's Health Issues Revealed as Effects of Prolonged Abuse

For years, Giselle experienced unexplained memory loss, disorientation, and physical symptoms like insomnia and hair loss, which doctors struggled to diagnose. Upon the horrific revelation of Dominique's crimes, Giselle's adult daughter Caroline was devastated, grappling with intense feelings of betrayal and rage at her father's actions.

Claims of Ignorance from Perpetrators Despite Evidence

Among the over 50 identified perpetrators invited by Dominique, many attempted to deflect responsibility by claiming ignorance or arguing Giselle's unconsciousness was consensual. However, the evidence contradicted this, as Giselle's attorneys stated some perpetrators took measures not to wake her. Disturbingly, others admitted being aroused by her unconsciousness.

Chemical Submission: An Underreported Issue in France

In France, the phenomenon of "chemical submission" - where victims are drugged by someone they know to enable sexual assault - is largely underestimated. French law requires "violence, coercion, or surprise" rather than lack of consent for sexual assault cases. Giselle's public trial aimed to raise awareness and push for legal reform centered on consent.

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  • Educate yourself on the signs of chemical submission by reading articles and resources from credible organizations that specialize in drug-facilitated sexual assault prevention. Understanding the symptoms, such as memory loss and disorientation, can help you recognize potential cases in your community and provide support to victims or guide them to professional help.
  • Start a book club with friends or colleagues focusing on literature that explores the themes of consent and sexual assault law. This can foster informed discussions about the complexities of consent and the legal system, potentially leading to a better understanding of the need for legal reform and how to support it.
  • Volunteer at a local crisis center or hotline to provide emotional support to survivors of sexual assault. Training provided by these organizations can equip you with the skills to offer compassionate assistance, and your involvement can contribute to the broader effort of raising awareness about issues like chemical submission.

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#389: French Husband Drugged Wife Nightly So 72 Men Could SA Her Without Her Knowledge For 10 Yrs

Dominique's systematic drugging and assaulting of his wife Giselle

Giselle's life was a hidden nightmare as her husband, Dominique, clandestinely drugged and coordinated her assault over nearly a decade.

Dominique's clandestine and meticulously planned crimes over nearly a decade

From 2011 to 2020, Dominique systematically drugged his wife Giselle with a cocktail of powerful sedatives like [restricted term] and [restricted term], which he secretly mixed into her dinners. He conducted these heinous acts with precision and planning, taking measures to prevent detection and fulfill his disturbing intentions.

Dominique regularly drugged his wife Giselle with a combination of powerful sedatives like [restricted term] and [restricted term], rendering her unconscious for hours at a time

Giselle would inadvertently consume the drugged food, leading to extended periods of unconsciousness where she would not remember events, such as being asleep for 8 hours during a road trip without any usual alertness she had in cars. Dominique hid the medications in one of his hiking boots in the garage, effectively disguising his malicious activities.

Dominique would then invite dozens of men to their home to sexually assault the unconscious Giselle, filming and cataloging the crimes in detail

Dominique not only facilitated the assaults but boasted about them in disturbing forums like "Without Them Knowing." He'd share tips and instructions with other men, downgrading Giselle in his communication, and calling these events “rape parties.” He extended these actions to truck rest stops on the highway, continually assaulting Giselle's autonomy.

Dominique hid the medications in his hiking boots and posted specific instructions online for the perpetrators on how to access the home without detection

Dominique’s methodical approach was chilling; he meticulously filmed, recorded, and logged the assaults on a USB drive, creating an extensive catalog of nearly 20,000 digital files. He established explicit rules for the ...

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  • You can increase awareness about the misuse of prescription drugs by starting a blog or social media campaign focused on educating people about the dangers of sedatives like [restricted term] and [restricted term] when used improperly. Explain the risks of addiction, overdose, and the potential for these drugs to be used in crimes, using infographics and easy-to-understand language to reach a broad audience.
  • Enhance your personal safety by investing in a small, wearable camera that automatically records when you feel unsafe or when activated by a significant change in your physiological state, such as a rapid increase in heart rate. This can serve as a deterrent to potential perpetrators and provide evidence if needed. ...

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The devastating impact on Giselle and her family as they uncover the truth

The story of Giselle's ordeal and her family's subsequent anguish provides a stark account of abuse and betrayal. Over a period of several years, Giselle experienced mysterious health issues, which, upon the harrowing discovery, were understood to be the consequences of her husband Dominique's prolonged drugging and assaults.

Giselle's mysterious health issues over the years were actually the result of the prolonged drugging and assaults

Giselle experienced severe memory loss, disorientation, and physical symptoms that were brushed off by doctors until the truth was revealed

Giselle, whose life with her husband had spanned over 50 years, was unaware that she had been systematically drugged and assaulted during her marriage. The revelation explained the enigmatic memory loss, physical symptoms, and the sense of disorientation she experienced, all of which had been inadequately addressed by medical professionals. Symptoms such as insomnia, hair loss, rapid weight loss, and a profound confusion had become a frightening part of her daily existence. Giselle's adult children, who noticed her deteriorating health, feared a diagnosis of Alzheimer's disease.

During the decade from 2011 to 2020, Giselle was so heavily sedated that she retained no recollection of the assaults, her memory impaired beyond the vague sense of a dream. She experienced episodes where she would deflate like a rag doll, unresponsive and with a blank stare. Even jokes about being drugged led to a tearful reaction from Dominique without an admission of guilt.

Giselle was devastated to learn the extent of the abuse and betrayal by her husband of 50 years, leading her to immediately file for divorce

The impact of discovering the abuse and betrayal by Dominique was earth-shattering for Giselle. Upon learning the truth, she immediately left her husband, packing her belongings and stepping away from the relationship with dignity. She filed for divorce, expressing feelings of being violated and betrayed on an unimaginable scale. The situation was further compounded as Giselle found the abuse videos too unbearable to watch.

The family struggled to reconcile the loving father figure they knew with the monster that Dominique truly was

Giselle's children, especially daughter Caroline, grappled with intense feelings of betrayal, rage, and grief at the revelation

The duality of Dominique as both a family patriarch and a perpetrator of heinous acts created a painful rift within the family. Caroline, Giselle's daughter, confronted her father's actions with despair and anger, as she was unable to reconcile the loving father she had known for 42 years with the reality of his crimes. This "unquenchab ...

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  • You can create a personal safety net by establishing a trusted circle of friends and family who are aware of your daily routines and well-being. Explain to them the importance of mutual check-ins, especially if you feel vulnerable or are going through a significant life change. For example, set up a system where you send a daily message or have a quick call to confirm everything is okay.
  • Develop a habit of journaling to document your physical and emotional state over time. This can serve as a personal record that might help you notice any unusual patterns or changes that could indicate something is wrong. For instance, if you start experiencing unexplained symptoms or mood swings, your journal entries could help you identify a timeline and potential triggers.
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The large number of perpetrators and their claims of ignorance or lack of intent

There is a shocking number of over 72 suspects involved in the case surrounding the sexual assault of Giselle, with 51 identified and on trial. Many of the 53 individuals invite by Dominique to abuse Giselle attempted to deflect responsibility by arguing ignorance or lack of intent.

Many of the over 50 perpetrators claimed they did not realize Giselle was unconscious and non-consenting

Despite Giselle's clear drugged state, some perpetrators professed ignorance regarding her inability to consent. A few claimed surprise upon learning that Giselle was not consenting. They argued that Dominique's presence misled them into believing the acts were consensual, despite the evidence against this. Some justifications went as far as arguing that her unconsciousness was part of the couple's sex games. Furthermore, her attorneys stated that it was unbearable to hear such claims, especially when the evidence contradicted this, showing perpetrators whispering and taking measures not to wake Giselle up.

The mindset of some perpetrators toward consent was disturbingly revealed, as they found Giselle's unconsciousness arousing. A firefighter among them even expressed that he was excited by her lack of consciousness. One individual even noted his excitement at Giselle being completely submissive and searched for confirmation about the use of sleeping pills.

The perpetrators came from all walks of life, including professions like firefighters, journalists, and military me ...

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  • Educate yourself on the nuances of consent by reading up-to-date literature from credible sources like sexual health organizations or legal definitions. Understanding the complexities of consent can help you recognize and challenge harmful misconceptions in your community. For example, you could read materials from the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) or consult your local laws on consent to ensure you have a clear understanding of when and how consent can be given.
  • Start conversations with friends and family about the diversity of individuals who commit sexual assault, using the fact that perpetrators come from all walks of life to dispel myths. This can be as simple as discussing current events or cases that highlight this issue, aiming to raise awareness that sexual predators cannot be stereotyped based on profession, age, or appearance.
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The legal and cultural issues around chemical submission and sexual assault

In France, the phenomenon of chemical submission, where individuals are drugged by someone they know to commit sexual assault, is a serious, yet often underestimated and underreported issue, creating widespread legal and cultural challenges.

Chemical submission, the drugging of victims by someone they know, is a largely underestimated and underreported phenomenon in France

The podcast defines chemical submission as forcing someone to submit through chemicals, with date rape categorized within this. In France, this act often involves someone the victim knows rather than a stranger, challenging the common perception that perpetrators are unknown "creepy men in the alleyway." In fact, 42% of credible reports of date rape drug usage in 2021 occurred in private settings among acquaintances.

Doctors often fail to recognize the signs of chemical submission, leaving victims without proper diagnosis or support

Unfortunately, French medical professionals are not typically trained to recognize victims of chemical submission, leading to a lack of diagnosis or support for those affected. Giselle, a woman who had been repeatedly drugged, visited several doctors, neurologists, and gynecologists who failed to identify her condition as chemical submission.

This problem is compounded by France’s outdated legal definition of sexual assault, which currently requires "violence, coercion, or surprise" for a case to proceed, rather than focusing on a lack of consent.

Giselle and her daughter Caroline have been advocating alongside other victims of chemical submission for the legal definition of sexual ...

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  • You can educate your social circle about the signs of chemical submission by sharing information through casual conversations or social media posts. Explain the importance of recognizing unusual behavior or symptoms in friends that could indicate they've been drugged, such as sudden drowsiness, confusion, or loss of coordination. Encourage friends to look out for each other, especially in private settings, and to seek medical help if they suspect someone has been drugged.
  • Start a local initiative to distribute consent-focused educational materials at community centers, bars, and colleges. Create simple flyers or cards that outline what consent looks like, the legal aspects of sexual assault, and the importance of recognizing when someone is too impaired to give consent. This grassroots effort can help shift cultural perceptions and promote a better understanding of consent in your community.
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