In this episode of Rotten Mango, the hosts examine the chilling case of Marissa, a babysitter with a history of child abuse who concealed the truth about a baby's death. They reveal disturbing details about Marissa's background, her conflicting accounts of events, and her eventual confession to fatally injuring the infant.
The episode also probes Marissa's demeanor during interrogation, and the lack of remorse she and her boyfriend displayed. Without judgment, the hosts discuss the couple's behavior and Marissa's attempts to manipulate investigators and portray herself as a caring mother.
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Marissa had a disturbing history of injuring children under her care, including an infant who sustained a skull fracture and brain bleed. Detective Holtz recalls investigating a previous incident where Marissa admitted a child was injured while under her supervision. Despite this history and losing parental rights to her own children, Marissa continued working as a babysitter, gaining access to Heather's kids.
On the day baby Benson died, Marissa was alone caring for him and Heather's toddler, despite restrictions against being around children. Marissa claimed Benson just slept, but her accounts lack details. Furthermore, Marissa and her boyfriend Adam provided conflicting reports about the children's behavior that day, casting doubt on their credibility.
Initially denying wrongdoing, Marissa claimed Benson's death was accidental. However, the autopsy revealed severe head injuries inconsistent with her account. Marissa eventually confessed to dropping Benson from shoulder height into his pack and play out of frustration over his crying, causing fatal injuries.
Adam exhibited concerning, combative behavior during the investigation, lashing out with slurs and threats. Meanwhile, Marissa, in letters from jail, focused on portraying herself as a loving mother while manipulating men for support. Her letters showed little remorse, instead making excuses and attacking her portrayal as a "monster."
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Marissa's past is marked by disturbing incidences of child abuse and negligence, culminating in the injury and abuse of multiple children in her care.
Authorities had previous encounters with Marissa, which assosciate her with severe child injuries. Detective Holtz received a report about an 11-month-old girl, under Marissa's supervision, who suffered a skull fracture and signs of a potential brain bleed. The doctor who examined the child was certain that the injuries seemed non-accidental, pointing towards neglect. Adam recalls an incident where a child under Marissa's care allegedly fell off the couch, suggesting a pattern of accidents occurring when children were left with her. Further unsettling this narrative, officers note that Marissa, pregnant and already stripped of parental rights to her four children due to similar incidents, continued to work as a babysitter. It is known that she is associated with causing brain bleeds and skull fractures, and this recent case marks the third infant injured under her care.
Detective Holtz, familiar with Marissa's past due to a preceding investigation into a child's severe head injury while under her care, delved further into the case. Previously, Marissa had denied being responsible for a child's skull fracture. However, when pressed, she admitted to being the caregiver at the time of the injury. This troubling history led to Marissa and her partner Adam's parental rights being terminated, underscoring the gravity of her alleged abuses, as the state generally is reluctant to sever such ties without serious considerations.
Despite her alarming history, Marissa m ...
Marissa's history of child abuse and negligence
The death of baby Benson is shrouded in mystery, with the events of the day leading to his demise being unclear and the accounts from the caretakers, Marissa and her boyfriend Adam, being inconsistent and raising doubts about their credibility.
Marissa’s account of the day Benson died lacks specific details. She had been home alone with Benson and Heather’s children, following a two-month period where an active investigation required Marissa not to be around any children. Although she was under this restriction, on the day of Benson's death, she was alone with her own child, Heather's toddler, and Heather's baby Benson after Adam had gone hunting.
Marissa claimed that she fed Benson once, and then he slept. She used a video monitor to keep an eye on him while he was in a pack and play but mentioned she didn't physically check on him. Later, after returning from McDonald’s with Adam, Marissa left Benson sleeping in his car seat. She expected Heather would arrive by 9 PM.
When she found Benson cold and unresponsive, she did not check on him immediately nor attempt to revive him. She admits to placing Benson on his belly to sleep and finding his face in a blanket. She did not attempt CPR or call for help immediately because she was scared of having her baby taken away.
Marissa and Adam's portrayal of the children differ significantly; Marissa claimed the children were not frustrating, while Adam described the toddler and baby Benson as difficult, referring to them as "crybabies" in a text earlier in the day ...
The circumstances and timeline around Benson's death
Marissa's police interrogation revealed a series of claims and confessions, ultimately leading to the admission of her role in baby Benson's death.
Initially, Marissa did not inquire about Benson's well-being and described him as fine when she was taking care of him. She told Detective Holtz that she had no idea what happened to Benson, insisting that he was fine last she checked and vehemently stating "I would not kill a baby." This denial of responsibility continued with Marissa suggesting through her comments that Benson's death was an accident. She specified that she was monitoring Benson using a baby monitor, further implying that there was no direct interaction that could have led to his death.
Contrary to Marissa's claims, the autopsy of baby Benson revealed multiple head injuries caused by blunt force trauma, inconsistent with Marissa's account of suffocation. No information from the provided podcast transcript elaborated on the specific inconsistencies between Marissa's initial explanations and the autopsy findings.
Marissa later admitted to being frustrated with Benson's fussiness and crying. In her final interrogation, she confessed to picking up Benson, walking over to the pack and play, and dropping him from shoulder height into it. Afterwards, she positioned Benson on his stomach, face down in the pack and play, and lef ...
Marissa's interrogation and confession
Marissa and her boyfriend Adam have been scrutinized for their behavior and lack of remorse during the investigation of Benson's death.
Adam demonstrated a combative attitude towards the investigation from the outset. When police arrived at their door, Adam was more angry than confused and quickly became defensive. His frustration with social services was evident as he lashed out at the mother of the girl who reported the incident, questioning her motives. As the investigation into child abuse opened, Adam vehemently contested the idea of their son being taken away, since he was not present during the incident. Adam's aggressive behavior escalated to the point of screaming at detectives and authorities, displaying a clear lack of cooperation. He was particularly offensive during a confrontation in a hotel room, using "racist and homophobic slurs," and threatening to sue the jail over delayed mail.
Adam also made conflicting statements about his and Marissa's habits and expressed frustration towards their son, referring to him derogatively. This pattern of outbursts and threats, coupled with a strong resistance to authority, was a consistent part of Adam's reaction to the investigation.
Despite the serious nature of the case against her, Marissa's communications from jail did not reflect a person grappling with the gravity of her actions. In her letters to various individuals, she focused predominantly on her desires and needs. She expressed eagerness to have more children and a desire to leave town to pursue a typical family life, emphasizing her physical longing for her boyfriend and their anticipated reconnection.
Marissa advised her sister to befriend good people and asked for money while also instructing Adam to cut her sister off du ...
Marissa and Adam's relationship and reactions
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