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#375: Babysitter Returns Dead Baby Back To Mom - Then Can’t Stop Smiling During Interrogation

By Stephanie Soo & Ramble

In this episode of Rotten Mango, the hosts examine the chilling case of Marissa, a babysitter with a history of child abuse who concealed the truth about a baby's death. They reveal disturbing details about Marissa's background, her conflicting accounts of events, and her eventual confession to fatally injuring the infant.

The episode also probes Marissa's demeanor during interrogation, and the lack of remorse she and her boyfriend displayed. Without judgment, the hosts discuss the couple's behavior and Marissa's attempts to manipulate investigators and portray herself as a caring mother.

#375: Babysitter Returns Dead Baby Back To Mom - Then Can’t Stop Smiling During Interrogation

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#375: Babysitter Returns Dead Baby Back To Mom - Then Can’t Stop Smiling During Interrogation

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Marissa's History of Child Abuse

Marissa had a disturbing history of injuring children under her care, including an infant who sustained a skull fracture and brain bleed. Detective Holtz recalls investigating a previous incident where Marissa admitted a child was injured while under her supervision. Despite this history and losing parental rights to her own children, Marissa continued working as a babysitter, gaining access to Heather's kids.

The Unclear Events Around Benson's Death

On the day baby Benson died, Marissa was alone caring for him and Heather's toddler, despite restrictions against being around children. Marissa claimed Benson just slept, but her accounts lack details. Furthermore, Marissa and her boyfriend Adam provided conflicting reports about the children's behavior that day, casting doubt on their credibility.

Marissa's Interrogation and Confession

Initially denying wrongdoing, Marissa claimed Benson's death was accidental. However, the autopsy revealed severe head injuries inconsistent with her account. Marissa eventually confessed to dropping Benson from shoulder height into his pack and play out of frustration over his crying, causing fatal injuries.

Marissa and Adam's Lack of Remorse

Adam exhibited concerning, combative behavior during the investigation, lashing out with slurs and threats. Meanwhile, Marissa, in letters from jail, focused on portraying herself as a loving mother while manipulating men for support. Her letters showed little remorse, instead making excuses and attacking her portrayal as a "monster."

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  • Marissa was the sole caregiver when baby Benson died, but her explanations lacked detail. Marissa and her boyfriend, Adam, gave conflicting reports about the children's behavior that day, raising doubts. These inconsistencies in their stories created uncertainty about the events leading to Benson's death.
  • Marissa confessed to dropping baby Benson from shoulder height into his pack and play out of frustration over his crying. This action caused severe head injuries that were fatal to Benson. The autopsy results revealed these injuries were inconsistent with Marissa's initial account of the incident.
  • Adam's combative behavior during the investigation could indicate that he was uncooperative, aggressive, or defensive when questioned by authorities. This behavior might have included using offensive language, making threats, or displaying hostility towards investigators. Such conduct could suggest that Adam was not forthcoming or cooperative in providing information or may have been trying to obstruct the investigation in some way.
  • Marissa's lack of remorse and focus on portraying herself as a loving mother despite her actions could be indicative of a complex psychological defense mechanism known as denial. Denial is a coping strategy where individuals refuse to acknowledge the reality of their actions or their consequences, often to protect themselves from feelings of guilt or shame. In Marissa's case, this behavior may stem from deep-seated issues or a distorted self-perception that prevents her from fully accepting responsibility for her harmful actions.

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#375: Babysitter Returns Dead Baby Back To Mom - Then Can’t Stop Smiling During Interrogation

Marissa's history of child abuse and negligence

Marissa's past is marked by disturbing incidences of child abuse and negligence, culminating in the injury and abuse of multiple children in her care.

Marissa had a history of injuring children in her care, including a previous incident where an infant in her care sustained a skull fracture and brain bleed.

Authorities had previous encounters with Marissa, which assosciate her with severe child injuries. Detective Holtz received a report about an 11-month-old girl, under Marissa's supervision, who suffered a skull fracture and signs of a potential brain bleed. The doctor who examined the child was certain that the injuries seemed non-accidental, pointing towards neglect. Adam recalls an incident where a child under Marissa's care allegedly fell off the couch, suggesting a pattern of accidents occurring when children were left with her. Further unsettling this narrative, officers note that Marissa, pregnant and already stripped of parental rights to her four children due to similar incidents, continued to work as a babysitter. It is known that she is associated with causing brain bleeds and skull fractures, and this recent case marks the third infant injured under her care.

Detective Holtz, familiar with Marissa's past due to a preceding investigation into a child's severe head injury while under her care, delved further into the case. Previously, Marissa had denied being responsible for a child's skull fracture. However, when pressed, she admitted to being the caregiver at the time of the injury. This troubling history led to Marissa and her partner Adam's parental rights being terminated, underscoring the gravity of her alleged abuses, as the state generally is reluctant to sever such ties without serious considerations.

Despite her troubling past, Marissa continued to work as a babysitter and had access to children, including Heather's children.

Despite her alarming history, Marissa m ...

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  • Terminating parental rights is a legal process where a court ends the legal parent-child relationship. This is typically done when it is determined that the parent is unable or unwilling to provide proper care for the child. The decision is based on evidence of abuse, neglect, or other factors that show the parent is unfit to continue in their role. The process varies by jurisdiction but generally involves a court hearing where evidence is presented to support the termination.
  • Heather, who had known Marissa since they were both 15, was unaware of Marissa's troubling history of child abuse and negligence. Heather only discovered Marissa's past when she saw Marissa's mugshot indicating charges for child abuse. This lack of awareness led Heather to unknowingly entrust her children to Marissa for babysitting.
  • Marissa's continued access to children despite her history of child abuse and negligence can be attributed to factors like lack of comprehensive background checks, gaps in comm ...

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The circumstances and timeline around Benson's death

The death of baby Benson is shrouded in mystery, with the events of the day leading to his demise being unclear and the accounts from the caretakers, Marissa and her boyfriend Adam, being inconsistent and raising doubts about their credibility.

On the day of Benson's death, Marissa was alone with Benson and Heather's toddler, and the events leading up to Benson's demise are unclear.

Marissa’s account of the day Benson died lacks specific details. She had been home alone with Benson and Heather’s children, following a two-month period where an active investigation required Marissa not to be around any children. Although she was under this restriction, on the day of Benson's death, she was alone with her own child, Heather's toddler, and Heather's baby Benson after Adam had gone hunting.

Marissa claimed that she fed Benson once, and then he slept. She used a video monitor to keep an eye on him while he was in a pack and play but mentioned she didn't physically check on him. Later, after returning from McDonald’s with Adam, Marissa left Benson sleeping in his car seat. She expected Heather would arrive by 9 PM.

When she found Benson cold and unresponsive, she did not check on him immediately nor attempt to revive him. She admits to placing Benson on his belly to sleep and finding his face in a blanket. She did not attempt CPR or call for help immediately because she was scared of having her baby taken away.

Marissa and her boyfriend Adam provided conflicting accounts of the day's events, casting doubt on their credibility.

Marissa and Adam's portrayal of the children differ significantly; Marissa claimed the children were not frustrating, while Adam described the toddler and baby Benson as difficult, referring to them as "crybabies" in a text earlier in the day ...

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  • The circumstances surrounding Benson's death are unclear due to inconsistent and incomplete accounts from the caretakers, Marissa and Adam, about the events leading up to his demise. Their differing narratives and actions after discovering Benson unresponsive have raised doubts about the credibility of their explanations, making it challenging to determine what truly happened on the day of Benson's death.
  • Marissa's restriction from being around children was due to an ongoing investigation that required her to avoid contact with children for a specific period. This restriction was put in place for reasons related to the investigation, possibly to ensure the safety and well-being of the children involved. It indicates that Marissa was under some form of legal or official constraint that limited her interactions with children during that time.
  • Marissa's response upon finding Benson unresponsive was inadequate. She did not check on him immediately, did not attempt to revive him, and did not call for help promptly. Her hesitation was driven by fear of losing her own child, leading to a delay in seeking assistance for Benson.
  • Marissa and Adam provided conflicting accounts regarding the events of the day leading to Benson's death, particularly in their descriptions of the children's behavior and the actions taken with Benson before his passing. These inconsistencies in ...

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Marissa's interrogation and confession

Marissa's police interrogation revealed a series of claims and confessions, ultimately leading to the admission of her role in baby Benson's death.

During police interrogation, Marissa initially denied any wrongdoing and claimed Benson's death was an accident.

Initially, Marissa did not inquire about Benson's well-being and described him as fine when she was taking care of him. She told Detective Holtz that she had no idea what happened to Benson, insisting that he was fine last she checked and vehemently stating "I would not kill a baby." This denial of responsibility continued with Marissa suggesting through her comments that Benson's death was an accident. She specified that she was monitoring Benson using a baby monitor, further implying that there was no direct interaction that could have led to his death.

However, the autopsy revealed that Benson had sustained severe head injuries inconsistent with Marissa's version of events.

Contrary to Marissa's claims, the autopsy of baby Benson revealed multiple head injuries caused by blunt force trauma, inconsistent with Marissa's account of suffocation. No information from the provided podcast transcript elaborated on the specific inconsistencies between Marissa's initial explanations and the autopsy findings.

After being confronted with the evidence, Marissa eventually confessed to dropping Benson from shoulder height into the pack and play, causing his fatal injuries.

Marissa later admitted to being frustrated with Benson's fussiness and crying. In her final interrogation, she confessed to picking up Benson, walking over to the pack and play, and dropping him from shoulder height into it. Afterwards, she positioned Benson on his stomach, face down in the pack and play, and lef ...

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  • Marissa's interrogation by Detective Holtz involved her initial denial of wrongdoing and her eventual confession to causing baby Benson's death by dropping him into a pack and play. The interrogation process included Marissa's changing statements in response to evidence presented by the police, leading to her admission of the fatal actions she took. The confession revealed Marissa's emotional state and the circumstances that led to her tragic actions. The interrogation and confession were pivotal moments in the investigation into baby Benson's death.
  • Baby Benson's death was initially believed to be an accident by Marissa, who was caring for him. However, an autopsy revealed severe head injuries inconsistent with Marissa's account. Marissa later confessed to dropping Benson from shoulder height into a pack and play, leading to his fatal injuries. The confession detailed Marissa's frustration with Benson's crying and her actions that resulted in his death.
  • The autopsy findings revealed severe head injuries caused by blunt force trauma, which did not align with Marissa's initial explanation of Benson's death being accidental suffocation. This discrepancy between the autopsy results and Marissa's account raised questions about the true circumstances leading to the baby's death. The injuries indicated a more violent cause of deat ...

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Marissa and Adam's relationship and reactions

Marissa and her boyfriend Adam have been scrutinized for their behavior and lack of remorse during the investigation of Benson's death.

Marissa and her boyfriend Adam exhibited concerning behavior and a lack of remorse following Benson's death.

Adam made numerous inappropriate and angry outbursts during the investigation, including using racial and homophobic slurs and threatening authorities.

Adam demonstrated a combative attitude towards the investigation from the outset. When police arrived at their door, Adam was more angry than confused and quickly became defensive. His frustration with social services was evident as he lashed out at the mother of the girl who reported the incident, questioning her motives. As the investigation into child abuse opened, Adam vehemently contested the idea of their son being taken away, since he was not present during the incident. Adam's aggressive behavior escalated to the point of screaming at detectives and authorities, displaying a clear lack of cooperation. He was particularly offensive during a confrontation in a hotel room, using "racist and homophobic slurs," and threatening to sue the jail over delayed mail.

Adam also made conflicting statements about his and Marissa's habits and expressed frustration towards their son, referring to him derogatively. This pattern of outbursts and threats, coupled with a strong resistance to authority, was a consistent part of Adam's reaction to the investigation.

Marissa continued to maintain an image of herself as a loving, maternal figure, even while in jail, and attempted to manipulate men into supporting her.

Marissa's letters from jail revealed a self-serving and callous attitude, with a focus on her own needs and a lack of genuine concern for the well-being of the children in her care.

Despite the serious nature of the case against her, Marissa's communications from jail did not reflect a person grappling with the gravity of her actions. In her letters to various individuals, she focused predominantly on her desires and needs. She expressed eagerness to have more children and a desire to leave town to pursue a typical family life, emphasizing her physical longing for her boyfriend and their anticipated reconnection.

Marissa advised her sister to befriend good people and asked for money while also instructing Adam to cut her sister off du ...

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  • Marissa and Adam are a couple who have faced scrutiny for their behavior following the death of Benson. Adam displayed aggressive and combative behavior during the investigation, while Marissa maintained a self-serving and manipulative attitude even while in jail. Their actions and reactions suggest a lack of genuine remorse or concern for the well-being of the children involved.
  • The text describes the behaviors of Marissa and Adam following an investigation into Benson's death. Adam displayed combative behavior towards authorities, including making inappropriate outbursts and threats. Marissa, while in jail, focused on her o ...

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