S4 Ep 10: Navigating the Landscape of Modern Parenting with Martha Stewart

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk helps parents build mutually respectful relationships with their children. Written by two educators, it’s been dubbed “the parenting bible” by The Boston Globe. Although it was published over 40 years ago, it remains popular because of its concrete advice on how to communicate in a way that shows your child you hear them and care about how they feel.

Having to say no to your child can make you seem like the enemy. The ideas in this book can shift that dynamic and show the child you’re on their side. Instead of getting locked in power struggles, you can work together to solve problems. You’ll learn how to give effective praise, respond when your child says they “hate” someone, get your child to cooperate, promote their independence, and get better behavior without punishment. This guide updates the material in the book and includes additional research about effective parenting techniques, including newer brain research that supports the authors’ original recommendations.

Join Mel Robbins and her guest Amy McGlinn in "The Mel Robbins Podcast" as they delve into personal growth and the intricate maze of relationships. Mel, drawing on conversations with experts like Dr. Russell Kennedy and the everyday wisdom of Dr. Mindy Pelz and Dana K. White, shares her own regimented routines for mental and physical wellness, advocating for the nurturing of both to achieve a comprehensive state of well-being. Whether through morning light exposure or intermittent fasting, see how Robbins applies these lifestyle habits to strengthen mental health and champions intentional actions that bolster self-worth and internal love.

Diving deeper, Robbins grapples with the complexities of digital-era heartache, offering practical advice for those entangled in the web of social media stalking post-breakup. In a heartfelt response to various listeners’ confessions, she provides solace and straightforward solutions, including embracing intimacy in its many forms after life-changing events like childbirth. Mel doesn't stop at relationships; she unpacks her own beliefs in life's interconnectedness, the intricacies of self-promotion in business, and her family's experiences with dyslexia. This episode isn't just about receiving guidance; it's an invitation for active listener engagement and a collective pursuit of mindful improvement, setting "The Mel Robbins Podcast" apart as a participatory beacon for those on the path to betterment.

Everyone wants to find true happiness in their lives, but many of us believe that happiness can only come from experiencing huge changes—such as a trip around the world or a lottery jackpot. But, as it turns out, you can change everything...without changing much at all.

In The Happiness Project, Gretchen Rubin explains how resolving to make the smallest of changes in your everyday life—using the “good” dishes, remembering friends’ birthdays, or singing in the morning—can translate into more vivid memories, stronger relationships, and a deeper sense of happiness and gratitude in your life.

Most of us want Wholehearted, meaningful lives. What stops us? In Daring Greatly, Brené Brown suggests that what holds us back the most is the widespread belief that vulnerability is a weakness. If you can embrace your vulnerability, you’ll find that it’s actually your greatest strength.

In Daring Greatly, you’ll learn how to live a Wholehearted life and become a better leader, parent, and spouse in the process.

"Navigating the choppy waters of adolescence can be daunting, but 'The Mel Robbins Podcast' shines a guiding light. In a heartwarming conversation with her son, Oakley Robbins, Mel delves into the emotional undercurrents of teenage life, exploring topics like emotions, self-esteem, and anxiety. Oakley shares invaluable advice from his perspective, shedding light on managing derogatory comments, forming lasting friendships, and the importance of initiating discussions about mental health.

Mel Robbins and Oakley Robbins also agree on the key role that parents play, advocating for them to become 'coaches' that provide support without attempting to remove all of life's stumbling blocks. They emphasize the importance of effective communication, clear rules, and mutual respect. This episode of 'The Mel Robbins Podcast' isn't just a deep dive into teenage life and its challenges; it's also a toolkit for parents and teens alike, offering solutions, tactical insights, and cherishing open dialogue."

No, you’re not a bad parent. And your kids are actually good kids—parenting is just hard. Do you wish it came with a manual? Clinical psychologist Becky Kennedy’s Good Inside might be just what you need.

Good Inside is a parenting manual to help you make changes in your child’s behavior while building a positive relationship with them. Most parenting advice sees children’s behavior as a problem to be fixed through time-outs, rewards, and serious conversations. But Becky Kennedy argues that these strategies jeopardize your connection with your children. That’s a high price to pay for band-aid strategies that don't deal with the root causes of problematic behaviors.

Our guide lays out the core principles of Kennedy’s approach to parenting, her essential toolkit for dealing with challenging behavior, and strategies to deal with 10 common parenting challenges. We complement Kennedy’s advice with that of other experts, including the authors of parenting classics The Whole-Brain Child, 1-2-3 Magic, and How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk.

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk helps parents build mutually respectful relationships with their children. Written by two educators, it’s been dubbed “the parenting bible” by The Boston Globe. Although it was published over 40 years ago, it remains popular because of its concrete advice on how to communicate in a way that shows your child you hear them and care about how they feel.

Having to say no to your child can make you seem like the enemy. The ideas in this book can shift that dynamic and show the child you’re on their side. Instead of getting locked in power struggles, you can work together to solve problems. You’ll learn how to give effective praise, respond when your child says they “hate” someone, get your child to cooperate, promote their independence, and get better behavior without punishment. This guide updates the material in the book and includes additional research about effective parenting techniques, including newer brain research that supports the authors’ original recommendations.

Disciplining kids often involves tears, yelling, and drama. In No-Drama Discipline, parenting experts Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson aim to empower parents to discipline their children without the drama, which creates the space to teach children, not just argue with them. This book builds on the lessons of the authors’ previous collaboration on parenting, The Whole-Brain Child, but with a specific focus on discipline.

In this guide, we’ll learn the basics of the authors’ approach to discipline, including how to calm your child’s raging emotions and solidify your bond before redirecting them to a new behavior. Throughout the guide, we’ll also feature advice from other experts on parenting as well as scientific context to help explain why Siegel and Bryson’s advice is so powerful.

In Set Boundaries, Find Peace, therapist Nedra Glover Tawwab details how you can transform your relationships by learning to set healthy boundaries, which are standards for how you’d like to be treated. Tawwab explains where your boundaries come from and offers strategies for identifying and communicating your boundaries in a variety of situations.

In our guide, we’ll first focus on defining what healthy boundaries look like. Then, we’ll offer a step-by-step process you can follow to identify, communicate, and reinforce your boundaries. We’ll focus on a few types of relationships in which many people struggle to set boundaries. Finally, we’ll discuss the ways others may violate your boundaries, offering suggestions for how you can respond when violations occur. We’ll also compare Tawwab’s work to other psychological approaches to relationships, as well as offer more tools you can use to set healthy boundaries.

In 1-2-3 Magic, clinical psychologist Thomas W. Phelan introduces a simple countdown approach to discipline that lets you spend less time managing your child’s behavior and more time enjoying your relationship. The book distills discipline into two tasks: stopping unwanted behavior and initiating productive behavior. Phelan explains that when you’re able to spend less time on discipline, you’ll have more time to focus on your more enjoyable parental duty: cultivating a warm and loving relationship with your child.

Phelan’s approach will resonate with parents looking for a discipline model that builds children’s self-efficacy, self-esteem, and independence. His tools help you redirect behavior, skip lectures, reduce conflicts, and establish positive routines. We’ll supplement Phelan’s advice with additional tips for parents on how to change their own behaviors, insights into how some of Phelan’s recommendations can apply to adults, and historical background on child discipline.

Unlock the secrets to better communication and relationship dynamics within the family with the latest episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast. Join host Mel Robbins and her guest Oakley Robbins as they dive deep into the intricacies of family bonds, from setting healthy boundaries to handling sensitive issues like divorce and parental favoritism. With an empathetic approach, they offer invaluable advice that is sure to resonate with both parents and children alike. Mel and Oakley illuminate how to create an atmosphere of trust and respect within the family, underscore the importance of maintaining connection with siblings post-college, and discuss the subtle art of engaging in difficult conversations with sensitivity.

Explore the landscape of teenage behavior and how parents can stay engaged without invading privacy in this insightful discussion on The Mel Robbins Podcast. Oakley Robbins shares his personal transformation, shedding light on self-discovery and the path to building self-esteem through authenticity. They touch on video gaming as a social haven for teens, the power of daily family rituals to encourage openness, and proactive ways to boost confidence. Furthermore, Mel shares practical strategies to address challenging topics such as alcohol consumption and bullying, while Oakley offers tools for managing anxiety and stress, especially during the tumultuous college search process. This episode is a goldmine for families seeking to strengthen their connections and for individuals striving for personal growth.

Dive into the heartwarming and instructive world of the Robbins family on "The Mel Robbins Podcast," where Mel, alongside her children Kendall and Oakley, and her husband Christopher, delves into the captivating dynamics of family relationships. This episode unravels the delightful surprise of a celebrity encounter and the buzz of excitement it brings, demonstrating how such moments can bring a family closer as they share their personal icons and imagine their reactions to meeting them.

On a more serious note, they pivot to tackle a listener's question about parent-teen conflict, offering not just empathy but also practical strategies such as the "Red Light, Green Light" communication technique for managing emotional readiness. The Robbins family doesn't shy away from discussing their own tensions and the role of apologies in family bonds, providing a raw look into the ebbs and flows of familial interactions. As they prepare for the festive season, the Robbins extend their conversation to the challenges of social transitions and emotional support systems, offering listeners a chance to reflect on their own family dynamics and learn how to navigate the holidays with grace and understanding.

Do you want to cultivate a healthy relationship with your child? Do you wish you had the tools to understand them better? In The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read, Philippa Perry offers guidance for strengthening your bonds with your child and raising an emotionally secure individual. She argues that you can improve your parent-child relationship no matter your child’s age by examining how your parents’ style of parenting impacts your own, listening to your child, and meeting them with respect and understanding.

In this guide, we’ll discuss Perry’s advice for fostering a strong, loving parent-child relationship. Additionally, we’ll explore various ways to positively influence your child’s behavior, including the way they treat themselves and the way they learn to resolve conflicts. In our commentary, we’ll examine parenting advice from other authors and look deeper into some of the psychological principles underpinning Perry’s ideas.

Join Mel Robbins and KC Davis on The Mel Robbins Podcast as they delve into the topic of self-care and everyday task management, challenging societal norms about constant hustle. The team asserts the need for self-compassion, particularly during stressful times, and helps listeners navigate the path towards maintaining a healthier self- perception. Emphasis is placed on avoiding self-blame and understanding that making mistakes and learning from them is an integral part of being human.

The conversation shifts towards daily task management strategies with Davis introducing easy-to-implement, practical solutions that facilitate task fulfilment without overwhelming oneself. The notion of equitable rest, mental well-being and the importance of kindness are all folded into this thought-provoking discussion. Notably, this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast fosters a paradigm shift from societal expectations to an empathetic environment encouraging personal growth.