In this episode from the "Nothing much happens: bedtime stories to help you sleep" podcast, the host shares an endearing account of closely observing a pair of nesting mourning doves. Over the course of spring and summer, she witnessed their intricate nest construction and the nurturing of two sets of chicks to fledglings.
The host reflects on her family's tradition of providing natural materials to aid nesting birds, a practice she continues with her extraordinary cat Cinder. With keen intuition for interspecies connections, Cinder not only avoids disturbing the doves but assists in this seasonal ritual, accompanying the host on nature walks to collect supplies like pine needles and milkweed for the birds' nests. The host's tale pays homage to the interconnectedness of humans, animals, and nature.
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Kathryn unexpectedly discovered a mourning dove nest being built on her bathroom windowsill and eagerly observed the doves' nesting rituals. She marveled at their skilled nest construction using pine needles, hay, and scraps. While initially cautious, the doves grew accustomed to Kathryn's presence.
Over spring and summer, Kathryn witnessed the doves nurture two sets of chicks to fledglings. She reflected that the term "a piteousness of mourning doves" didn't capture their vibrant activity. When the doves migrated, their sturdy nest weathered the winter, awaiting their return.
Kathryn describes her cat Cinder as unusually empathetic, intuitively understanding the dove situation and avoiding disturbance. Beyond a pet, Cinder's caregiving instincts lead her to connect strays and lonely creatures with humans needing companionship - acting as a matchmaker.
Kathryn fondly recalls her grandmother's springtime rituals providing nesting materials like moss, lichen and cobwebs for returning birds. Following her grandmother's ethos that magic should benefit nature, Kathryn gathers these items with Cinder.
On bike rides to the woods, Kathryn collects pine needles, milkweed fluff and moss. Kathryn reflects on testing sedum for the mourning doves' nests, aiming to aid their nestbuilding - continuing her family's tradition of practical magic benefiting the natural world.
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Kathryn's unexpected window into nature provides her with the daily rituals of mourning doves building and raising their young right outside her bathroom window. Her close observations reveal both the intricacies of the doves' nest construction and the tender moments of their familial life.
Last spring, Kathryn's attention was captured by the soft cooing of mourning doves, leading her to discover a nest taking shape on her bathroom windowsill. She was overcome with excitement, eagerly anticipating the chance to watch the doves raise their young.
Day after day, Kathryn watched in fascination as the doves skillfully constructed their nest. With each passing day, they added pine needles, bits of hay, and other scraps, intricately weaving them to build up the structure in layers.
Initially cautious, the doves gradually grew accustomed to Kathryn's daily observances. She noticed their brief pause and intent gaze with their liquid black eyes when she came into view, but they soon recognized her as no threat and returned to their diligent work.
Throughout the spring and summer, Kathryn had the joy of watching the doves nurture not just one, but two clutches of chicks. The first set of tiny eggs hatched, and she marveled as the fledglings grew and took their inaugural flights. Without missing a beat, the doves prepared for their second brood.
Kathryn's observations and experiences with the mourning doves and their nest
Kathryn describes her cat Cinder as an exceptional feline, showing not only typical pet behaviors but also acts of caregiving and even matchmaking.
Cinder is recognized by Kathryn as an unusually empathetic creature, more akin to an "auntie" in the animal world. Her intuitive understanding of others' feelings is apparent in the way she interacts with both animals and people.
Kathryn has noted that Cinder, fully aware of the doves nearby, made a conscious decision to stay away from the window. This behavior was to ensure that the doves did not feel threatened by her presence, exemplifying her extraordinary empathy and understanding.
Far beyond a mere pet, Cinder's ...
Kathryn's cat Cinder and Cinder's unique characteristics and behaviors
Kathryn fondly recounts her grandmother’s springtime rituals and describes how she continues the practice of practical magic that directly benefits the natural world.
Kathryn Nicolai remembers her grandmother gathering nesting materials such as moss and lichen, pine needles, and cobwebs, and spreading them around the garden, the base of her birdbath, and near the black oil sunflower feeder as a spring offering. Her grandmother believed that magic should do something useful or good; otherwise, she didn’t see the point. Kathryn has read in her grandmother's grimoire that a rite or ritual should accomplish something useful or good, or else it wasn't worthwhile, and has adopted this viewpoint.
Her grandmother, a practical woman, cautioned against offering strips of hair from brushes and combs longer than an inch because it could entangle and harm birds. Instead, she advised looking for materials like moss, lichen, pine needles, and, the witchiest of all, cobwebs. Following her grandmother’s footsteps, Kathryn agreed with her grandmother's type of practical magic and began embracing rituals that bring tangible benefits.
Kathryn, along with her cat Cinder, begins their springtime ritual by collecting cobwebs from indoor ceilings, shaking them out over the back porch, and then embarking on a bike ride. Cinder rides in a specially installed basket, and they head towards the woods to collect materials like pine needles and milkweed fluff.
In the woods, Kathryn gathers moss from a broad patch of mossy stone crop, s ...
Kathryn's family history and the practical magic traditions she has inherited from her grandmother
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