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Episode 577: Listener Tales 87

By Morbid Network | Wondery

This episode of the Morbid podcast explores a range of creepy roommate stories shared by listeners. From toxic behaviors and struggles with boundaries, to outright criminal and paranormal happenings, a common thread emerges: dealing with unchecked problematic roommates often leads to tense and unsettling living arrangements.

The stories recount firsthand accounts of unhinged roommates practicing witchcraft or filming explicit content, followed by uncomfortable boundary negotiations. More extreme tales describe experiences with roommates exhibiting threatening conduct, plots for violence, and even undiscovered criminal backgrounds. Additionally, peculiar supernatural encounters like shadowy figures and unexplained phenomena highlight the mysterious and paranormal experiences some narratives revolve around. This chilling episode unravels a series of gripping stories that shed light on the potential perils of shared living spaces.

Episode 577: Listener Tales 87

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Episode 577: Listener Tales 87

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Crazy/Unhinged Roommate Experiences

Distressing Habits and Boundary Issues

Ella's roommate Molly was upfront about practicing witchcraft and filming adult content, filling their dorm with occult paraphernalia and inappropriate personal items. Despite attempts to establish boundaries, Molly's behavior became unmanageable.

Erratic and Threatening Behavior

Stephanie exhibited extremely bizarre conduct, such as disturbing vocalizations, sudden appearances, and meltdowns that terrified her roommates Mandy and the narrator. Her unsettling actions, including an incident where she sang a creepy lullaby, forced them to take protective measures.

Potentially Dangerous/Criminal Roommate Situations

Secretly Plotting Crimes

The narrator experienced a roommate named Sophie attempting to mix dangerous chemicals, prompting campus police involvement. Sophie admitted to planning a robbery and murder against someone named Dave, causing the narrator to flee.

Undiscovered Criminal History

Years later, the narrator learned a former roommate, James, was serving life for a double homicide committed during a robbery, leaving them shaken at having lived with an undiscovered criminal.

Paranormal/Supernatural Roommate Experiences

Unexplained Phenomena

The narrator witnessed shadows, unexplained noises, and tangible presences suggesting paranormal activity. Sam grew up experiencing similar events, like phantom footsteps and self-opening doors in their old farmhouse. The narrator's cat also reacted to strange sparkling lights.

Communicating with Entities

After seeing a black silhouette resembling a boy, the narrator and roommate used a Ouija board to contact an entity calling itself "Christopher." Later, divining rods detected playful male and female spirits admitting to pranks.

Ash Kelley endured childhood incidents like cold spots and shadowy figures. Workers confirmed spiritual activity, and Ash's parents witnessed paranormal events like inexplicably aged wallpaper.

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Actionables

  • Create a roommate agreement that outlines acceptable behaviors and privacy expectations to ensure a harmonious living situation. By setting clear boundaries from the start, you can avoid the discomfort and distress that comes from unexpected or inappropriate behavior in shared living spaces. For example, you might include clauses about quiet hours, guest policies, and the use of common areas, which can help prevent situations like those described.
  • Develop a personal safety plan that includes emergency contacts, escape routes, and self-defense techniques to feel secure in your living environment. Given the unsettling behaviors mentioned, it's important to be prepared for any situation that might arise. You could practice evacuation drills, have a list of local emergency numbers, and perhaps take a basic self-defense class to empower yourself in potentially threatening scenarios.
  • Engage in a reflective journaling practice to process and understand any unusual experiences or feelings in your environment. Writing down your thoughts and observations can help you make sense of them and decide if they're worth further exploration or if they can be dismissed. For instance, if you notice strange occurrences, jotting them down with dates and times can help you determine if there's a pattern or a logical explanation, rather than immediately attributing them to paranormal activity.

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Episode 577: Listener Tales 87

Crazy/unhinged roommate experiences

Living with roommates can bring unexpected challenges and sometimes bizarre, even frightening situations that require effective communication and protective measures.

Roommates with unconventional or disturbing personal habits can create tense living situations

Ella encountered a tense living situation with her roommate Molly, who was upfront about her involvement in witchcraft and her intention to use their shared dorm room for filming adult content for Twitter. Molly unpacked about 100 crystals, numerous incenses, witchy herbs, and books on magic upon move-in, and also explained her need for “a lot of alone time” to record her sessions. Despite Ella's initial attempts to accommodate by spending less time in the room, tensions rose when she and other roommates encountered Molly filming exposed in a maid costume or found her personal items, such as sex toys and a container of murky water in the microwave. Discussions about boundaries and a possible filming schedule ensued to manage the situation. However, operative boundary setting wasn't enough, as the shared microwave incident led to Ella getting the Resident Assistant (RA) to remove Molly from the room.

Roommates with erratic or unstable behavior can disrupt the home environment and potentially threaten the safety of other residents

Stephanie, another roommate with erratic behaviors, created a disconcerting atmosphere for her cohabitants. Her room was extraordinarily messy and she kept to herself, frequently locked behind her door, sometimes emitting a haunting moan or suddenly appearing while whistling an eerie tune. Her grumpiness and bizarre conduct, such as throwing objects in her room and yelling, led to the roommates deciding to leave her alone.

Steph, as Stephanie was also referred to, would regularly have meltdowns, and her manic laughter from behind closed doors was equally unnerving. A chilling event occurred when ...

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  • An RA, short for Resident Assistant, is a student leader responsible for overseeing and supporting residents in a dormitory or residential hall. RAs typically enforce community standards, provide guidance, and address conflicts or issues within the living environment. They serve as a resource for residents and often act as a liaison between students and the housing admini ...

Counterarguments

  • While unconventional habits can create tension, they do not necessarily lead to a tense living situation if there is clear communication and mutual respect among roommates.
  • Filming adult content in a shared space without explicit consent from all roommates is inappropriate, but the issue could potentially be resolved with a clear agreement on privacy and shared space usage.
  • Owning crystals, incenses, witchy herbs, and magic books is a personal choice and does not inherently cause tension unless it infringes upon the space or rights of others.
  • Needing a lot of alone time is not unusual and can be accommodated with proper scheduling and respect for shared living arrangements.
  • The presence of personal items like sex toys in shared spaces is a matter of personal boundaries and respect, and while it may be uncomfortable for some, it can be addressed through open dialogue.
  • Involving the Resident Assistant to remove a roommate should be a last resort after all other attempts at conflict resolution have failed.
  • Erratic behavior can be a sign of underlying mental health issues, and while it may be disruptive, it is important to approach such situations with empathy and seek professional help rather than only tak ...

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Potentially dangerous/criminal roommate situations

The possibility of living with an untrustworthy or dishonest roommate can be a dire threat to one's safety, as they may secretly plot criminal activities that risk the well-being of their housemates.

Untrustworthy or dishonest roommates may secretly plot criminal activities that endanger their housemates

A situation is recounted where a roommate named Sophie confessed to disturbing and potentially harmful actions. Upon arriving home, the narrator encountered a strong chemical smell and found empty cleaner bottles, evidently part of an attempt to mix dangerous chemicals. The severity of the incident compelled the narrator to involve campus police, who promptly moved them to a new room for safety. Sophie claimed innocence, stating she was merely cleaning up and blamed the narrator for a prior incident.

However, during separate interviews by the campus police, discoveries were made on Sophie's phone of a search about mixing acetone and bleach, which she justified as post-incident research. The narrator remained convinced it was premeditated. As a result, the narrator pursued and was granted a no-contact order against Sophie, who continued to live without facing consequences.

In a personal narrative, the narrator describes an unsettling revelation during freshman year when a roommate admitted to a plan to rob and murder a friend named Dave, known for dealing cash-only transactions. The narrator quickly left the shared living space with a stun gun in hand, also warning ...

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  • A stun gun is a self-defense weapon that delivers an electric shock to temporarily incapacitate an attacker. It is used for personal safety in situations where physical harm may be imminent. Stun guns are designed to deter threats and provide a means of escape from dangerous situations. The presence of a stun gun in the narrative indicates the narrator's preparedness to defend themselves in a potentially threatening encounter.
  • James, a former roommate of the narrator, was revealed to be serving a life sentence for a double homicide. This means he was conv ...

Counterarguments

  • While it is true that untrustworthy roommates can pose a risk, it is also important to consider that not all untrustworthy behaviors are indicative of criminal intent. Some individuals may simply have poor judgment or personal issues that lead to irresponsible, but not criminal, behavior.
  • The assumption that a roommate plotting criminal activities is a common occurrence may lead to unnecessary fear or paranoia. It's important to balance caution with the understanding that most roommate relationships do not involve such extreme situations.
  • Regarding learning about a roommate's past criminal actions, it's important to recognize the capacity for change in individuals. A person's past does not always predict their future actions, and many people with criminal histories do not reoffend, especially when they have been rehabilitated or have taken steps to change their behavior.
  • It's also worth considering that the discovery of a roommate's criminal past may not ...

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Paranormal/supernatural roommate experiences

Unusual and unsettling phenomena in shared living spaces can leave occupants feeling unnerved as they encounter what seems to be evidence of roommates from the spectral realm.

Unexplained paranormal phenomena in a shared living space can unnerve the occupants

The narrator speaks of a time involving strange occurrences, such as witnessing shadows resembling humans, hearing unexplained noises, and experiencing a tangible presence. These events are singular to the narrator, who recounts various experiences specific to them. The narrator describes a scenario where, while in the bathtub, the door swung open by itself, reinforcing a sense of an unseen entity at play. Shadows appeared to frequent the bathroom, jocularly commented by the narrator as potentially a ghost with IBS.

The focus then shifts to Sam, who grew up in an antiquated farmhouse where footsteps and the creaks of an aging structure were part of the nightly soundscape. Parents would dismiss the odd occurrences, attributing them to the farmhouse's age, but the nocturnal activities persisted—doors opened on their own, and footsteps led to Sam’s room, never seeming to return.

The narrator had a cat named Lexington, which reacted to the phenomena, fixating on a window where balls of sparkling light appeared and eventually vanished. This coupling of human and animal reactions hints at an unseen presence engaging with the living.

Attempts to communicate with suspected supernatural entities residing in the home can yield unsettling results

After seeing a solid black silhouette of what looked like a young boy disappear into the darkness, the narrator and their roommate decided to use a Ouija board to attempt contact with the entity. During this chilling interaction, they connected with an entity named "Christopher," a 13-year-old boy, presumed to be the same one the narrator had seen. Alarmed by the encounter via the Ouija board, they ceased all further communication out of fear.

Additional tales include the narrator’s involvement with a man linked to a native medicine man who used divining rods to communicate with spirits. The rods signaled the presence of two playful spirits, a man and a woman, who admitted to mischievous acts such as a prank involving wallpaper. These spirits, while mischievous, were not malevolent, and communication halted when the divining rods ceased to move, leaving the narrator questioning the implications ...

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  • Skepticism about the existence of paranormal phenomena suggests that there may be rational explanations for the events described, such as drafts causing doors to move or auditory hallucinations.
  • The reliability of eyewitness accounts can be questioned, as human perception is subject to bias, error, and the influence of suggestion.
  • The use of Ouija boards and divining rods lacks empirical support and is often considered pseudoscience; their results can be attributed to the ideomotor effect rather than actual spirit communication.
  • Psychological factors, such as the power of suggestion and the expectation of experiencing something supernatural, can lead to misinterpretation of ordinary events as paranormal.
  • The age and condition of a building can account for many of the described phenomena, such as creaking sounds and doors opening, due to structural settling, temperature changes, and other natural causes.
  • The presence of animals reacting to unseen stimuli could be due to their heightened senses detecting mundane things like insects or small rodents rather than superna ...

Actionables

  • You can document your experiences with unexplained phenomena by keeping a detailed journal, noting the time, date, and nature of each event. This can help you identify patterns or logical explanations for the occurrences. For example, if you notice that doors tend to open by themselves at a certain time, you might discover it coincides with heavy traffic outside causing vibrations.
  • Enhance your living space's energy by incorporating elements that are traditionally believed to promote positivity, like salt lamps, crystals, or plants. These items are not only decorative but are also thought by some to improve the ambiance of a home. For instance, placing a salt lamp in a room where you've felt uneasy might change the atmosphere and your perception of the space.
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