Dr. Laurie Santos: How to Achieve True Happiness Using Science-Based Protocols
What influences human happiness beyond material wealth? In this episode of Huberman Lab, host Andrew Huberman delves into the psychology and neuroscience of happiness with Dr. Laurie Santos. From defining the core components of happiness to understanding the brain's reward systems, they explore key drivers such as social connections, exercise, and mindfulness practices.
Santos highlights how factors like gratitude, engaging with personal strengths, and acts of kindness can boost emotional well-being. She offers insights into non-material sources of meaning and life satisfaction across cultures. Throughout, Huberman and Santos discuss the impact of in-person interactions versus digital connections, the temporary nature of both positive and negative emotional states, and practical strategies for cultivating lasting happiness.
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The Psychology and Neuroscience of Happiness
Defining Happiness
According to Dr. Laurie Santos, happiness involves both emotional and cognitive components. The emotional side involves experiencing positive feelings, while the cognitive component focuses on one's overall life satisfaction.
Beyond Material Circumstances
Santos and Andrew Huberman point out that happiness isn't solely determined by wealth or circumstances. While income correlates with happiness up to meeting basic needs, other factors like social connections, exercise, and mindfulness become more important drivers of happiness beyond that level. Santos highlights how cultures like Denmark emphasize these non-material aspects.
The Brain's Role
Our brains' reward systems, driven by [restricted term] and other neurochemicals, shape how we perceive rewards and happiness. However, we tend to adapt quickly to positive circumstances due to hedonic adaptation. Santos notes that negative emotions also tend to be temporary due to similar neurological adaptation.
Social Connection Matters
In-person social interactions are a powerful driver of happiness, as Santos discusses the impact of even brief positive interactions and close relationships. However, she warns that digital interactions provide an incomplete "nutrisweet" version of social connection that may not fully satisfy our needs. Interestingly, pets can facilitate beneficial social connections.
Boosting Happiness
To improve happiness, Santos and Huberman recommend:
- Practicing gratitude by noticing small joys ("delights") and sharing them with others
- Leveraging personal strengths through "job crafting" and hobbies
- Engaging in acts of kindness, which provide meaning and social bonds
Throughout, Santos and Huberman highlight how authentic social connections, mindfulness practices, and focusing on non-material sources of meaning can boost our emotional well-being.
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- Hedonic adaptation, also known as the hedonic treadmill, describes how individuals tend to return to a stable level of happiness despite significant life changes. This phenomenon suggests that people have a baseline level of happiness that they typically revert to over time, even after experiencing positive or negative events. It implies that material gains, like increased wealth, may not lead to sustained increases in overall happiness. Hedonic adaptation involves both cognitive shifts and neurochemical processes that help maintain emotional equilibrium despite external circumstances.
- Neurochemicals like [restricted term] are signaling molecules in the brain that play a crucial role in regulating various functions, including mood, reward, and pleasure. [restricted term] is often associated with the brain's reward system, influencing feelings of motivation and reinforcement. It is released in response to pleasurable experiences and reinforces behaviors that lead to rewards. Imbalances in [restricted term] levels have been linked to conditions like depression, addiction, and Parkinson's disease.
- Job crafting is a proactive approach where individuals modify aspects of their job to better align with their personal needs, goals, and skills. It involves employees reshaping their job tasks, relationships, and the meaning of their work without formal managerial involvement. This process aims to enhance job satisfaction, work-related well-being, and performance by allowing employees to tailor their roles to better suit their preferences and values. Job crafting is distinct from traditional job design theories as it empowers employees to take the initiative in shaping their work experiences.
Counterarguments
- While happiness does involve emotional and cognitive components, some researchers argue that it is also influenced by biological and genetic factors, which can affect an individual's baseline level of happiness.
- Although wealth and circumstances may not be the sole determinants of happiness, there is evidence suggesting that financial security and certain life circumstances can have a long-term impact on an individual's well-being.
- The importance of social connections, exercise, and mindfulness may vary among individuals, with some finding happiness in solitude or in less physically active lifestyles.
- The role of the brain's reward systems in happiness is complex, and focusing solely on neurotransmitters like [restricted term] may oversimplify the neurobiology of happiness.
- Hedonic adaptation is a general trend, but some positive life changes can have lasting effects on happiness levels, contrary to the idea that we always quickly adapt to positive circumstances.
- The impact of in-person social interactions on happiness might be overstated for some individuals, particularly those who are introverted or have social anxiety, for whom these interactions can be stressful.
- Digital interactions, while different from in-person connections, can still provide meaningful and satisfying relationships, especially for people who have difficulty with face-to-face interactions or for maintaining long-distance relationships.
- The role of pets in facilitating social connections may not apply to everyone, as some individuals may not experience the same level of emotional support from pets or may not be interested in animals.
- Practicing gratitude and sharing small joys may not be effective for everyone, as some individuals might find these practices forced or inauthentic.
- Leveraging personal strengths through hobbies and job crafting can be beneficial, but it may not be feasible for everyone due to various constraints such as time, resources, or work environments.
- Acts of kindness can provide meaning and social bonds, but they can also lead to burnout or be perceived as inauthentic if they are not done voluntarily or with genuine intent.
- The emphasis on authentic social connections and mindfulness practices may not acknowledge the full spectrum of what contributes to emotional well-being for different individuals, including those who find happiness in achievements, intellectual pursuits, or other non-social activities.
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The psychology and neuroscience of happiness
Happiness involves both emotional and cognitive components
Emotional component refers to experiencing positive feelings, while cognitive component involves one's overall satisfaction with life
Dr. Laurie Santos explains that happiness, or subjective well-being, has emotional and cognitive aspects. The emotional component is about feeling positive emotions in one's existence, such as joy and excitement. The cognitive component involves how you think about your life, encompassing purpose and satisfaction with life's trajectory. This aligns with Andrew Huberman's thoughts on the layers of happiness we experience and the role of contrast with negative experiences in shaping our perception of happiness. This contrast is interpreted through sensory perception, storytelling, and the search for meaning.
Happiness is not solely dependent on material circumstances
Studies show that above a certain income level, additional wealth does not significantly increase happiness
Dr. Laurie Santos and Andrew Huberman discuss circumstances' influence on happiness, pointing out that behavior, thought patterns, emotions, and social connections significantly impact happiness. Santos references research indicating that while more money correlates with more happiness at the lower end of the income spectrum, this correlation levels off around an income of $75,000 (2010 dollars). This plateau suggests that once basic needs are met, factors such as exercise, sleep, and gratefulness have a greater impact on happiness.
Factors like social connection, physical activity, and presence of mind have a greater impact on happiness
Cultural practices in Denmark exemplify how social connections, fewer work hours, and fitness contribute to higher happiness levels, despite not having the wealth of countries like the U.S., which ranks lower in happiness studies. Santos discusses the dangers of focusing on extrinsic rewards, such as exercise becoming less enjoyable when done for metrics rather than enjoyment. She also explores the subjective sense of feeling wealthy in time, or "time affluence," which can enhance happiness independently of financial wealth.
The brain's reward system and hedonic adaptation play a key role in happiness
[restricted term] and other neurochemicals drive our perception of rewards, but we quickly get used to positive experiences
[restricted term] and other neurochemicals influence our perception of pleasure and rewards, but due to hedonic adaptation, the impact of positive experiences wears off as they become the new normal, and we start seek ...
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- Hedonic adaptation, also known as the hedonic treadmill, describes the tendency for humans to return to a stable level of happiness despite significant life changes. This concept suggests that individuals have a baseline level of happiness that they tend to revert to over time, regardless of positive or negative events. It explains why major life events, such as winning the lottery or facing adversity, may not have a lasting impact on overall happiness. Hedonic adaptation involves cognitive and neurochemical processes that help maintain emotional equilibrium despite external circumstances.
- Neurotransmitters like [restricted term] are chemicals in the brain that help transmit signals between nerve cells. [restricted term] is associated with feelings of pleasure and reward, influencing motivation and reinforcement of certain behaviors. It plays a crucial role in the brain's reward system, impacting mood, movement, and cognition. Imbalances in [restricted term] levels can contribute to various neurological and psychiatric conditions.
- The transitory nature of positive and negative experiences means that both good and bad feelings are temporary and do not last indefinitely. Our brains adapt to both positive and negative stimuli over time, causing the initial intensity of emotions to diminish. Understanding this transience can help us appreciate the fleeting nature of emotions and navigate them more effectively for overall well-being.
- Societal narratives of material success can distort what individuals believe will make them happy, emphasizi ...
Counterarguments
- While the text suggests that happiness is not solely dependent on material wealth, it's important to consider that financial security can significantly reduce stress and anxiety, which are barriers to happiness. Therefore, the role of material circumstances in happiness might be more complex and significant than suggested.
- The idea that above a certain income level, additional wealth does not significantly increase happiness, is based on studies that may not account for individual differences in aspirations, values, and the cost of living in different areas, which can affect the income-happiness relationship.
- The emphasis on social connections, physical activity, and presence of mind may overlook the fact that happiness is a highly individual experience and what works for one person may not work for another.
- The role of the brain's reward system and hedonic adaptation in happiness is presented as a universal mechanism, but individual differences in neurochemistry and psychological traits can lead to variations in how people experience and adapt to positive and negative emotions.
- The comparison of negative emotions to warning lights that indicate a need for change may oversimplify the complexity of emotional experiences and the many factors tha ...
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The role of relationships and social connection in happiness
A hearty discussion with Santos and Huberman reveals the profound impact of relationships and social connection on happiness, emphasizing the necessity of in-person interactions in fostering our well-being.
In-person social connection is a powerful driver of happiness
Interacting with others face-to-face, even briefly, can boost positive emotions and well-being
Santos comments on the power of emotional contagion, where the happiness of those around us directly influences our own happiness. Studies show that time spent with friends and family, as well as being around other people, predicts happiness levels. Simple acts like talking to a stranger on the train can increase positive emotion and improve perceptions of life satisfaction. Furthermore, experiments have shown that even brief interactions, such as having coffee, can lead to a lift in mood that sustains for days or weeks.
Maintaining close relationships with friends and family is crucial for happiness
Santos and Huberman underscore the value of face-to-face social interactions and how recalling happy times often involves other people. In Denmark, a culture emphasizing fewer work hours allows people more time to foster these important social connections. Also, shared experiences, such as sports or family activities, play a significant role in personal happiness. Huberman recalls a drive with his girlfriend and their dog, highlighting the pure joy found in shared experiences.
Smartphones and technology can hinder real-world social connection
Merely having a phone present reduces social engagement and performance on cognitive tasks
Huberman and Santos highlight the detrimental impact smartphones have on cognition and social engagement. Huberman was shocked to learn about the significant decrease in task performance merely due to the presence of a phone. Similarly, research by Liz Dunn found that with a phone within eyeshot, social smiling decreased by 30%, indicating diminished social connection.
Relying on digital/virtual interactions can provide a "nutrisweet" version of social connection that doesn't fully satisfy our needs
Smartphones bring about a false sense of connection, much like artificial sweeteners mimic sugar. Santos points out that texting and scrolling through social media feeds can give a quick [restricted term] hit, but they don't fulfill our need for in-depth social interaction. Huberman compares these digital interactions to consuming processed foods – easy but not nourishing. Santos fears many are "starving nutritionally" for auth ...
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- Emotional contagion is the phenomenon where emotions spread from one person to another, leading to a synchronization of feelings. This can occur through unconscious mimicry of expressions, vocalizations, and behaviors. It plays a crucial role in fostering emotional connections and can influence individuals' moods and behaviors based on the emotions of those around them. Emotional contagion is a natural process observed not only in humans but also in other animals like primates, dogs, and chickens.
- Denmark's culture emphasizes work-life balance with shorter work hours compared to many other countries. This approach aims to prioritize personal time, leisure activities, and social connections outside of work. The Danish work culture values efficiency and productivity during working hours, allowing employees to enjoy more time for themselves and their relationships. This emphasis on work-life balance is reflected in policies such as flexible working hours and generous parental leave, contributing to overall well-being and happiness in Danish society.
- The term "nutrisweet" in this context is used metaphorically to describe a social connection that is superficial or lacking in depth, similar to how artificial sweeteners like NutraSweet mimic the taste of sugar but do not provide the same nutritional value. It suggests that relying on digital interactions, like texting or social media, can give a quick but shallow sense of connection that may not fully satisfy our need for genuine, meaningful social interactions. Just as artificial sweeteners do not offer the same ...
Counterarguments
- While face-to-face interaction can boost well-being, some individuals with social anxiety or introverted personalities may find these interactions stressful rather than uplifting.
- Emotional contagion can also spread negative emotions, not just happiness, which can impact mental health adversely.
- Quality of time spent with friends and family may be more important than quantity; simply spending time with others does not guarantee happiness.
- Talking to strangers can be enriching, but it can also be uncomfortable or unsafe in certain contexts, and not everyone may experience increased positive emotion from such interactions.
- The mood lift from brief interactions like having coffee may not be as long-lasting for everyone, and some may require deeper connections to experience sustained well-being.
- The importance of maintaining close relationships can vary across cultures and individual preferences; some people may find happiness in solitude or less frequent social contact.
- Shared experiences are significant, but individual pursuits and personal achievements can also be sources of happiness for many people.
- Smartphones and technology can enhance social engagement for those who are physically unable to meet in person or who maintain long-distance re ...
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Practical strategies and techniques for improving happiness
Dr. Laurie Santos and Andrew Huberman explore various strategies for boosting happiness by harnessing mindfulness, character strengths, and kindness.
Practicing gratitude and focusing on positive experiences (a "delight" practice)
Taking time to notice and appreciate small joys and blessings can shift attention away from the negative
Dr. Santos emphasizes that by training the brain to notice delights, such as seeing a cute dog or hearing a funny song, one can offset the natural negativity bias. She suggests using a notes app or texting delights to a friend to strengthen both gratitude and social connections. Santos discusses how pets, by keeping their owners present and engaged in the moment, help induce better thought patterns and contribute to mindfulness, leading to positive emotions.
Dr. Santos also encourages reflecting on positive experiences to shift the attention ratio towards positive emotions and away from the negative. She mentions the sensory aspect of delights, linking them to presence and immediate sensations such as taste or visual enjoyment.
Sharing these delights with others can amplify the positive effects
Huberman conveys that noticing things that spark immediate joy can lead to natural smiles. He points to the power of the word "delight," which is immediate and can be experienced on a rapid timescale. Sharing these experiences amplifies happiness, as evidenced when Santos delighted in the picture of Huberman's bulldog, an experience that brought joy to both of them. She also highlights the practice of engaging with others' delights – sharing in someone else's joys can be uplifting, as seen in the enjoyment people might get from reading Ross Gay's daily essays about small delights in his book "The Book of Delights."
Leveraging your signature character strengths
Identifying and intentionally applying your personal strengths in work and leisure activities can boost meaning and purpose
Santos and Huberman discuss identifying signature strengths as well as their applications in daily life to boost happiness. Santos references a list of universal character strengths and suggests that using these strengths through "job crafting" or leisure activities can help individuals live more fulfilling and purposeful lives.
This can be done even in seemingly mundane or constrained jobs
Examples provided include hospital janitorial staff finding ways to integrate their strengths like humor into their work environment to improve their experience and the experience of those around them. Santos also suggests using a "strengths test" with a friend or partner as a foundation for activities, termed a "strength date." This approach applies strengths to find purpose not only at work but also during leisure time.
Engaging in acts of kindness and helping others
Performing thoughtful gestures for others, or even asking for ...
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- While noticing small joys can be beneficial, it may not be a comprehensive solution for those with clinical depression or anxiety, who might need professional treatment to manage their conditions.
- The concept of a negativity bias is well-established, but some individuals may have a predisposition towards a more positive outlook, and thus the impact of "delight" practices might vary from person to person.
- Using a notes app or texting friends about positive experiences assumes access to technology and a supportive social network, which not everyone may have.
- Reflecting on positive experiences can be helpful, but it might also lead to avoidance of addressing negative emotions or problems that require attention.
- Sharing delights with others can amplify positive effects, but it also depends on the receptiveness of the other person; not everyone may respond positively to shared experiences.
- The idea of identifying and applying personal strengths assumes that individuals have the freedom and flexibility to do so, which might not be the case in all work or life situations.
- The concept of "job crafting" to integrate personal strengths may not be feasible in all types of jobs, especially those with strict gui ...
Actionables
- You can create a "delight diary" by repurposing an old notebook to jot down daily joys, which encourages you to actively seek and record positive moments throughout your day. For example, if you notice the warmth of the sun on your skin or a kind gesture from a stranger, write it down and reflect on these moments at the end of the day to reinforce positive thinking.
- Start a "compliment chain" by sending a genuine compliment to a different person each day via text or social media, and encourage them to pass on a compliment to someone else. This not only spreads positivity but also strengthens your social network and can lead to a ripple effect of kindness.
- Initiate a "strengths swap" with a friend or colleague where you each identify a strength in the other pers ...
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