In this episode of Hidden Brain, Anna Lembke explains how the brain maintains a balance between pleasure and pain, and how this balance can become disrupted through excessive pleasure-seeking behaviors. She describes how the brain's dopamine system works like a seesaw, and how activities ranging from substance use to digital media consumption can create addictive patterns that affect mental health.
The discussion covers practical approaches to managing compulsive behaviors, including "self-binding" techniques and the strategic use of mild discomfort to reset the brain's reward system. Lembke examines how modern society's easy access to pleasurable activities contributes to addiction, using examples from smartphone use in schools to her own experience with romance novels to illustrate the sometimes blurry line between healthy enjoyment and problematic behavior.

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According to Anna Lembke, the brain maintains a delicate balance between pleasure and pain, functioning like a seesaw. When we engage in pleasure-seeking activities, our brains release [restricted term], creating feelings of pleasure. However, the brain counterbalances this by reducing [restricted term] availability, which can lead to anxiety and depression.
Lembke explains that excessive pleasure-seeking can disrupt this balance, pushing the brain to overcompensate toward "pain." This creates a [restricted term] deficit that drives addiction to substances, gambling, and internet use. For example, she notes that cannabis use intended to treat anxiety may actually be relieving withdrawal symptoms rather than addressing the underlying condition.
Lembke recommends "self-binding" techniques to manage compulsive behaviors, such as creating physical barriers between oneself and addictive substances or activities. She also introduces the concept of hormesis - engaging in mild discomfort through activities like exercise or cold water exposure - to reset the brain's reward system without incurring a [restricted term] debt.
Modern society's abundant pleasures, particularly technology and substances, contribute significantly to addictive behaviors. Lembke and Shankar Vedantam discuss how activities once considered innocuous can become highly reinforcing due to easy access. They note a correlation between increased digital media consumption and rising mental health issues, particularly among teenagers.
Lembke advocates for practical solutions, such as school policies limiting smartphone access. She points to success stories like the Buxton School in Massachusetts, where phone restrictions led to increased social interaction and improved psychological well-being among students.
Drawing from her personal experience with romance novel addiction, Lembke illustrates the challenging distinction between healthy passion and problematic behavior. She emphasizes that about 10-15 percent of the population may have a high tendency toward compulsive overconsumption, and susceptibility to addiction can be influenced by various factors including biological predisposition, psychological influences, and environmental conditions.
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Anna Lembke discusses the delicate equilibrium of pleasure and pain in the brain, elucidating the neurological mechanisms that underlie addiction and how [restricted term] plays a central role in this balance.
The brain functions in a manner similar to a seesaw, striving to maintain a homeostatic balance between pleasure and pain. As people engage in pleasure-seeking activities, [restricted term] release induces pleasurable sensations. However, the repetition of these activities compels the brain to counterbalance this state, reducing [restricted term] levels and leading to negative emotional reactions such as anxiety and depression.
Partaking in various activities, such as eating desserts, shopping, gaming, and gambling, triggers the release of [restricted term]—a neurotransmitter responsible for feelings of pleasure. To restore balance and achieve homeostasis, the brain's internal mechanism counters this by diminishing [restricted term] availability. This response can plunge individuals into emotional states characterized by anxiety, sorrow, and discomfort.
The persistent quest for pleasure, with its accompanying [restricted term] surges, pushes the brain's compensatory processes to act more forcefully. With time, if these pleasure-seeking behaviors persist in excess, the brain’s adjustments can be so substantial that a person may incur a continuous [restricted term] shortage—a state associated with increased susceptibility to various addictions, including reliance on substances, compulsive gambling, and overuse of the internet.
An overemphasis on pleasure-seeking forces the brain to overcompensate, shifting toward the "pain" spectrum of the balance. This [restricted term] depletion drives the compulsion for repeated pleasure-inducing behaviors, which can lead to addiction. For instance, habitual cannabis usage—often to alleviate an ...
Neurological Mechanisms of Pleasure-Pain Balance and Addiction
In a challenging world filled with endless temptations, managing addictive behaviors is critical. Experts like Anna Lembke offer strategies to address such behaviors effectively.
Lembke emphasizes the role of "self-binding" strategies to manage compulsive behaviors. These include mindful eating, physical or spatial self-binding—such as not having the substance in the home and calling hotels to remove mini-bars and televisions—and temporal binding, like only playing video games on certain days. She recommends creating barriers between one's self and the substance or activity of choice to interrupt the cycle of immediate gratification, thus allowing a pause between desire and consumption. In her own life, Lembke decided to abstain from reading romance novels initially for four weeks, extending to a year, effectively practicing self-binding. Mitch, a patient, used self-banning, adding himself to banned lists at casinos to prevent sports gambling.
Lembke introduces hormesis, a technique involving mild to moderate doses of adaptive pain or discomfort to reset the brain's reward system. This approach includes engaging in challenging or uncomfortable activities such as exercise, cold water plunges, and other effortful practices. For instance, exercise triggers the release of protective hormones like endogenous serotonin, [restricted term], endogenous opioids, cannabinoids, and [restricted term], which lead to pleasure without accruing a [restricted term] debt. Lembke practices what she preaches by starting her day with exercise, despite feeling resistant initially, because she knows it improves her mood and mitigates anxiety. Her family engages in activities like "forced marches" and outdoor wilderness adventures, presenting a practical example of hormesis.
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Techniques and Strategies For Managing Addictive Behaviors
Anna Lembke and Shankar Vedantam voice concerns about how modern society's abundant pleasures, particularly technology and substances, contribute to an increase in addictive behaviors. Lembke describes a trance-like state that individuals reach when consumed by activities like sports betting, watching TikTok, or reading romance novels. This is partly attributed to a societal desire to escape oneself, exacerbated by the narcissistic qualities of the modern world where individuals are focused on their own problems and successes. She also cites drugs that help facilitate this escapism.
Lembke notes that activities considered innocuous can become highly reinforcing due to ease of access, thus posing a risk to individuals previously immune to addiction. She discusses how the excessive reinforcement offered by social media, devices, and certain substances, and how the "drugification" of our food supply, is contributing to unhealthy behaviors. Lembke highlights a correlational link between the overconsumption of digital media with symptoms of anxiety, depression, insomnia, and inattention, drawing a parallel to how patients with substance use disorders benefit from abstaining from their addictions.
Lembke's hypothesis, backed by happiness surveys over the past 50 years, suggests that increased abundance does not necessarily equate to happiness. She points out a trend starting about 20 years ago, where people in wealthier nations were increasingly unhappy, which correlates with a rise in mental health issues during the same period when internet and digital media consumption surged, especially among teenagers.
Lembke advocates for top-down policies in schools to restrict phone use during school hours to mitigate the addictive and distracting nature of these devices. She contends that such policies would not only ease the pressure for children who feel compelled to constantly check their devices but also enhance the learning environment. She discusses the difficulties faced by both students and teachers when contending with the distractions of online platforms such as YouTube during class time.
Societal and Environmental Factors Contributing To Addiction
Anna Lembke highlights how a seemingly harmless passion—such as her excessive reading of romance novels and erotica—can become addictive, indicating the thin line between healthy engagement and problematic behavior.
Despite the lack of a specific discussion on unhealthy passions, the topic is inferred through Lembke’s own experience with reading. Lembke explains that the modern world has intensified the potential addictiveness of certain behaviors, leading to issues even for those who had not previously struggled with addiction. Shankar Vedantam engages with Lembke about the challenge of recognizing when intense engagement in activities like exercise, work, or learning crosses the line into addiction, cautioning against trivializing addiction by misapplying the term to any intense engagement.
Lembke elaborates on the complexity in determining when a passion becomes an addiction, since harm may not be recognized by the individual but seen by others. There's further intricacy due to societal norms not seeing excessive work or the pursuit of fame as pathological.
Lembke acknowledges the role society plays in defining healthy or unhealthy behaviors, implying the need to understand biological, psychological, and environmental factors in addiction development and treatment. She notes diagnosing addiction is a careful process, involving thorough discussions with patients and family to determine harm.
A listener mentions working hard to get ahead in one's career but wonders if that work has become an obsession, highlighting the difficulty in differentiating passion from addiction. Additionally, Vedantam brings a listener’s question about the link between ADHD and the heightened compulsion for [restricted term] hits that could affect addiction propensities, suggesting the importance of considering neurodiversity in the development of addiction.
Lembke underscores that people have different susceptibilities to addiction, with about 10 to 15 percent of the population possibly having a high tendency to compulsively overconsume. She emphasizes that recognizing individual differences is critical, especially with increased addiction rates due to environmental changes.
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The Complexities Of Defining and Diagnosing Addiction
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