Marching To Your Own Drummer
In this Hidden Brain episode, Sunita Sah explores why individuals comply with unethical or unjust demands from authority figures. Sah highlights compliance's enabling role in abusive or even life-threatening behaviors across various settings. The discussion examines factors driving compliance, including upbringing, anxiety over insinuating distrust, and the desire for social conformity.
To counter blind obedience, Sah advocates taking "psychological pauses" to reflect on identity, responsibilities, and ethical standards before acting. Techniques like third-person self-talk help gain perspective and disrupt automatic compliance. The episode underscores the importance of aligning behavior with personal values and principled standards.
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Compliance Psychology and Obedience to Unjust Authority
Sunita Sah at Cornell University studies why individuals comply with unethical demands from authority figures, driven by upbringing, anxiety over insinuating distrust, and desire for social conformity.
Real-Life Examples Highlight Compliance Issues
From unnecessary medical tests to abusive massages, Sah's personal experiences exemplify compliance despite discomfort. In one experiment, Sah observed higher compliance when advisors disclosed conflicts of interest, due to participants' insinuation anxiety - not wanting to imply distrust.
Compliance Enables Abusive, Life-Threatening Behaviors
The McDonald's incident, where an employee was severely abused after a caller posed as authority, illustrates how compliance enables abuse. Healthcare and aviation also see workers failing to report colleagues' mistakes, sometimes with devastating consequences, due to insinuation anxiety.
Regaining Voice and Defying Unjust Demands
To resist blind compliance, Sah emphasizes taking "psychological pauses" to reflect. Creating this mental space allows articulating preferences without automatic conformity.
Psychological Distancing Disrupts Automatic Compliance
According to Sah, psychological distancing methods like third-person self-talk help gain perspective. Asking "What do I really want?" reframes decisions away from undue influences.
Aligning Behavior With Ethical Standards
Sah cites political scientist James March's key questions: "Who am I?", "What situation is this?", and "What would someone like me do?" Contemplating identity, context, and responsibilities guides principled actions aligned with values and aspirational ethical standards.
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- Insinuation anxiety is the discomfort or unease felt when someone is concerned about implying distrust or suspicion towards others, especially authority figures. It can lead individuals to comply with requests or demands they find unethical or uncomfortable to avoid appearing distrustful or confrontational. This anxiety can influence behavior in various situations where there is a power dynamic at play, such as in the workplace or in interactions with authority figures. It is a psychological phenomenon that affects decision-making and social interactions, often leading individuals to prioritize social harmony or avoid conflict over asserting their own preferences or values.
- Psychological distancing methods involve mentally stepping back from a situation to gain a more objective perspective. Techniques like third-person self-talk or asking reflective questions help individuals detach emotionally and think more rationally. By creating this mental space, people can make decisions based on their true desires and values rather than being solely influenced by external factors. These methods can aid in breaking automatic patterns of compliance and encourage more ethical decision-making.
- James March's key questions, "Who am I?", "What situation is this?", and "What would someone like me do?" are meant to guide individuals in making decisions aligned with their values and ethical standards. By contemplating one's identity, the context of the situation, and how a person with similar values would act, individuals can navigate complex ethical dilemmas more effectively. These questions encourage introspection and help individuals act in ways that are consistent with their personal principles and beliefs.
Counterarguments
- Compliance may not always be driven by anxiety over insinuation or desire for social conformity; in some cases, individuals may comply due to a genuine belief in the authority's expertise or the correctness of their directives.
- Disclosing conflicts of interest might not always lead to higher compliance; there could be situations where such disclosures lead to skepticism and reduced trust in the advisor's recommendations.
- While psychological pauses can be beneficial, they may not always be practical or sufficient in high-pressure situations where immediate decisions are required.
- Psychological distancing techniques like third-person self-talk might not be effective for everyone, as individuals have different coping mechanisms and ways of processing information.
- The concept of aligning behavior with ethical standards assumes a universal agreement on what those standards are, which may not always be the case in diverse cultural or organizational contexts.
- The idea that workers fail to report colleagues' mistakes solely due to insinuation anxiety may overlook other factors such as fear of retaliation, job security concerns, or a culture of silence within the organization.
- The questions proposed by James March to guide principled actions may not always lead to ethical behavior, as individuals' interpretations of their identity and the situation can vary widely, potentially leading to different, and not always ethical, actions.
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Compliance Psychology and Obedience to Unjust Authority
Experts like Sunita Sah study the mechanics behind individuals' compliance with authority, even when it leads to unethical actions.
Compliance With Unethical Demands Is Driven by Upbringing, Insinuation Anxiety, and Social Conformity
Sunita Sah at Cornell University examines why individuals often feel compelled to obey demands from those in authority. Her studies and personal experiences reveal a tendency to comply due to social pressures and the fear of signaling distrust.
Sunita Sah's Experiences Exemplify Compliance, From Unnecessary Medical Tests to an Abusive Massage
In one instance, despite knowing that a CT scan was unnecessary and wanting to avoid exposure to radiation, Sah followed the doctor's recommendation because she felt unable to decline the procedure. Similarly, Sah's friend Rick remained silent during a painful massage to avoid making the therapist feel incompetent. These examples illustrate compliance in situations where expressing discomfort is challenging.
Sunita Sah also met with a financial advisor at her hospital who recommended certain funds and disclosed his commission, causing her to feel less trust but also pressured to not signal distrust. This insinuation anxiety, or fear of implying that the advisor is untrustworthy, increases the pressure to comply.
In an experiment, even though participants trusted the advice less when the advisor disclosed a conflict of interest, their compliance increased because they did not want to signal distrust. This phenomenon of insinuation anxiety fostering compliance was particularly noted among women participants.
Compliance Brings Consequences: From Abuse to Life-Threatening Decisions
Instances of blind compliance to seemingly authoritative commands have led to scenarios ranging from abusive situations to life-threatening decisions.
Mcdonald's Incident Shows how Requests Become Abuse When People Blindly Follow Orders
In a disturbing incident at McDonald ...
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- Compliance is not solely driven by upbringing, insinuation anxiety, and social conformity; individual personality traits, past experiences, and situational factors also play significant roles.
- The fear of signaling distrust may not always lead to compliance; in some cases, individuals may choose to voice their concerns or decline requests despite potential social repercussions.
- Not all instances of compliance are unethical or lead to negative outcomes; sometimes compliance with authority is necessary and beneficial for maintaining order and efficiency.
- Insinuation anxiety might not be the primary factor in all cases of compliance; other motivations such as self-interest, fear of punishment, or genuine agreement with the authority's demands could also be influential.
- The McDonald's incident is an extreme example of blind compliance and may not accurately represent the typical behavior of individuals when faced with authoritative commands.
- The reluctance of hea ...
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- You can practice assertive communication by role-playing scenarios where you must decline unreasonable requests. Start with a friend or family member and simulate situations where you feel pressured to comply. For example, pretend your partner is asking you to invest in a dubious financial opportunity. Use this safe environment to practice saying "no" and providing clear reasons for your decision.
- Develop a personal "compliance checklist" to consult before making decisions that feel pressured. Include questions like "Is this action in line with my values?" and "What are the potential consequences of compliance?" Use this checklist when you're faced with a high-pressure situation, such as being advised to undergo an unnecessary medical procedure, to help you evaluate the necessity and consequences of the action.
- Create a support network with colleagues or peers where you can discuss and evaluate instances of insinuation ...
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Regaining Voice and Defying Unjust Demands
Individuals often suppress their authentic preferences to conform to societal currents or the demands of authority figures, a situation known as preference falsification. Experiencing cognitive dissonance and the inability to speak up when uncomfortable is a prime example of the difficulty of resisting automatic compliance. Recognizing and articulating discomfort can be the first step to resisting these forces.
Psychological Pauses Create Space to Reflect and Resist
Sunita Sah’s commentary highlights the importance of taking a psychological pause when faced with demanding situations. Thomas Sims felt an immediate alarm regarding a situation involving monitoring Louise, which allowed him to defy the order to keep her apron wrapped around her. His actions led Donna Summers to question the demands and ultimately realize the call was a hoax.
Sah emphasizes the "power of the pause" and how taking time to think critically can empower individuals to act more thoughtfully and resist snapping to unjust demands. She points out that while surprise often prevents defiance, anticipation can empower it. Although the transcript doesn't include Sah evading signing dubious financial documents by citing a "medical emergency," she reflects on the power of stepping away from a pressured situation, which she personally experienced.
Patient Compliance Drops With Conflicted Advice When Deliberating Privately
The provided information does not explicitly include discussions on patient compliance dropping when individuals deliberate privately on conflicted advice.
Psychological Distancing Disrupts Automatic Compliance
Methods Create Space to Clarify Values and Preferences
Sah suggests creating psychological distance when physical distance is impossible. She refers to research by Ethan Cross, which indicates that talking about oneself in the third person can help one gain perspective on a situation. Sah challenges individuals to ask themselves, “What is it you really want to do here?” This reframing can lead to more objective decision-making without undue influences.
Clarifying Identity, Situation, and Actions Guides Principled Decision-Making
Aligning Behavior With Aspirational Ethical Standards
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- Preference falsification is when individuals express preferences that differ from their true beliefs due to social pressure or fear of consequences. This phenomenon often occurs when people conform to societal norms or authority figures, leading to a discrepancy between public and private opinions. Preference falsification can have significant social and political implications, influencing collective beliefs and behaviors. It was first coined by Timur Kuran in 1987 and further explored in his book "Private Truths, Public Lies."
- Cognitive dissonance is the mental discomfort experienced when holding conflicting beliefs or attitudes. People are motivated to reduce this discomfort by changing their beliefs or behaviors to restore consistency. This theory helps explain why individuals may rationalize or justify their actions when they are in conflict with their beliefs or values. Cognitive dissonance can lead to internal tension, prompting individuals to seek resolution through various psychological mechanisms.
- A psychological pause is a moment taken to reflect and think critically before reacting to a situation. It allows individuals to consider their actions and resist automatic compliance with unjust demands. By creating this mental space, people can align their behavior with their values and make more thoughtful ...
Actionables
- You can create a "Preference Journal" to track moments when you feel pressured to conform. Each day, jot down instances where you felt the urge to go along with something that didn't align with your true preferences. Reflect on these moments at the end of the week to identify patterns and consider ways to assert your authentic choices in the future.
- Develop a "Discomfort Dialogue" with a trusted friend or family member. Whenever you're facing a situation that demands conformity, discuss it with them using the third-person perspective. For example, "Chris feels uneasy about agreeing to this because it doesn't fit with his values." This can help you gain clarity and reinforce your ability to make decisions based on your true self.
- Initiate a "Values Visualization" exercise where you i ...
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