In this episode of the Fly on the Wall podcast with Dana Carvey and David Spade, comedian Nikki Glaser shares her journey to comedy success. She opens up about overcoming personal challenges like eating disorders and rejection to pursue stand-up, fueled by an unwavering competitive drive and belief in her destined success.
Glaser reflects on her experience at the high-profile Tom Brady roast, detailing the behind-the-scenes process and the pressure of performing her carefully crafted jokes. She also examines the evolving nature of comedy roasts alongside Carvey and Spade, touching on the importance of collaboration, persistence, and precision in the industry.
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Nikki Glaser overcame challenges like an eating disorder and social ostracization to pursue comedy. After facing rejection in acting and singing, she discovered stand-up, sparking her ambition in the field, as she says.
Glaser held an unwavering belief in her destined success, never entertaining doubts. Her competitive spirit drove her to relentlessly pursue stand-up, excelling at comedy roasts.
Nikki's journey culminated with the premiere of her HBO special, showcasing her transition to a successful headliner. Her meticulous preparation for roasts informed her overall stand-up approach.
According to Glaser, comedians had to carefully balance harsh jokes without crossing offensive lines. She coordinated with others to avoid duplicating material.
Last-minute, Glaser discovered a joke overlap with Kevin Hart and made split-second adjustments. She felt immense pressure and adrenaline performing at such a major event.
The roast significantly boosted Nikki's profile, with Kevin Hart praising her performance and her old roast clips being widely shared. However, Nikki also felt discomfort with some harsh personal jokes.
David Spade notes roasts shifted from light-hearted banter to potentially harmful personal attacks amplified by social media, as Dana Carvey says about Tom Brady's roast.
Nikki values collaboration with other comedians despite competitiveness. Spade emphasizes persistence and precision in developing successful comedy acts.
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Nikki Glaser's path to becoming a prominent comedian in the industry is a tale of overcoming personal and professional challenges with unwavering conviction in her talent.
Nikki Glaser faced an array of challenges in her early life, from battling an eating disorder that led to hospitalization, to being ostracized by fellow comedians in her hometown due to false rumors. Initially interested in acting and singing, Nikki faced rejection in this sphere, but these early setbacks steered her toward a career in stand-up comedy. Her loud personality and humor helped her make friends, and following suggestions that she should try comedy, she eventually turned to Google to learn about stand-up, sparking her ambition in the field.
Nikki’s aspirations once lay in acting and singing, but after not getting booked for a high school play and receiving comments that she didn't have the right qualities, she stumbled upon stand-up comedy as her true calling.
Despite the hurdles she encountered along the way, Nikki Glaser held an unfaltering belief in her destined success in comedy. She never entertained a "Plan B," reflecting an attitude of unequivocal self-belief and manifesting her goals through a stout refusal to acknowledge doubt. A defining factor in her persistence was her competitive spirit, which not only kept her striving in the face of adversity but also propelled her to thrive in stand-up and particularly in comedy roasts where her competitive edge shone brightly.
Nikki's confidence in her comedic path was so pronounced that she viewed her future success as inevitable. Even when falsely accused of exchanging favors for stage time, Nikki persevered, determined to not let such allegations derail her journey.
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Nikki Glaser's comedic journey and path to success
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Nikki Glaser shares an inside look at the rigors of preparing and performing at the Tom Brady roast, from crafting the right degree of harshness in jokes to the adrenaline of delivering them to a live audience.
Writing jokes for a roast like Tom Brady's comes with challenges that comedians must carefully navigate, balancing humor with taste and making sure not to cross lines that shouldn't be crossed.
Nikki Glaser talks about the difficulties of deciding whether her jokes were too harsh. She brings up her concern with going too far, especially since viral clips of the roast persist online. Glaser felt worse about saying jokes at this roast compared to her past experiences, indicating the delicate nature of roasting someone she hadn't met personally.
An implicit rule among comics is to avoid watching each other's practice sets to keep their content fresh and prevent overlaps. However, problems can arise, as Glaser found out when she encountered joke overlap with Kevin Hart, which required last-minute adjustments to her set.
Nikki's account of the Tom Brady roast reveals the intense, often stressful, experience of preparing and performing at a high-profile comedy event.
Amidst the live environment of the roast, Nikki discovered her material overlapped with Kevin Hart's, posing a dilemma: to either address the repeat directly or continue as planned. She made a split-second decision to drop the joke out of respect.
Glaser describes her shift in expectation about joke extremity after hearing others' sets, and acknowledges the extreme pressure and adrenaline she felt leading up to and during the performa ...
The process of preparing for and performing at the Tom Brady roast
Nikki's roast performance received widespread praise and significantly boosted her profile in comedy, while also leading her to navigate the emotional impact of the jokes and the aftermath.
Dana Carvey recounted how Kevin Hart acknowledged Nikki Glaser's performance at the roast. Hart, known for being a good reactor, endorsed Nikki by saying, "That's how it's done. It doesn’t get any better." This praise was part of the fervor around her roast performance that Nikki had never experienced before in her career, which, along with her standing ovation, suggests that her performance was indeed well-received.
The roast led to a significant increase in Nikki Glaser's visibility, with her old roast clips reposted and shared around cultural circles, amplifying her public recognition. The boost to her profile, partly attributed to Kevin Hart’s endorsement, illustrates the longstanding impact of a successful roast performance.
Nikki Glaser acknowledged her discomfort with certain "savage jokes" at the roast, especially those involving Tom Brady's family that might have caused him discomfort. Nikki herself felt the sting of personal jokes directed at her, which led her to question whether they had a grain of truth or were purely for comedic effect. This experience left Nikki Glaser processing the critical or unflattering feedback, causing her to reflect on how others perceive her.
The emotional aftermath of the roast involved Nikki Glaser grappling with both the savage jokes she made and the ones she was the subject of. She expressed feeling significantly worse than she had in the past when engaging in this brutal comedic tradition.
Reflections on Nikki's Roast Performance and its Aftermath
David Spade, Dana Carvey, and Nikki Glaser share their views on the progression of comedic roasts in the industry, including the evolution from light-hearted banter to potentially more harmful jests, and also discuss their individual journeys and the comedy industry today.
David Spade and Dana Carvey reflect on the changing nature of roasts, noting that they have evolved from friendly teasing to potentially severe and personal attacks.
Spade contrasts the fun, friendly roasts of the past with the raw, often stranger-led roasts of today. He refers to Chevy Chase's roast as an event where the honoree wasn't prepared for the brutal nature of modern roasting. Dana Carvey suggests that Tom Brady's roast might be indicative of the shift from good-natured fun to something more vicious and intense.
Spade underscores the influential role platforms like TikTok and Instagram play in spreading roast content. Unlike in the past when roast jokes might be re-aired, the reach is now instant and global.
Nikki Glaser discusses her current lifestyle and career decisions, while David Spage offers insights into persistence and preparation for success in comedy.
Glaser's intensive preparation for roasts, Spade's encouragement to start work a month in advance, and Carvey's recollection of the intense competition but not in a nasty way reflect the values of persistence, hard work, and precision in comedy.
Nikki Glaser talks about promoting young comedians on her Instagram while admitting feelings of jealousy, indicat ...
The speakers' personal experiences with roasts and the comedy industry
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