Dive into the insightful and humor-laced world of "Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend," where host Conan O'Brien is joined by the sharp-witted Chelsea Peretti for an engaging exploration of the anxieties and complexities of creativity. In one candid segment, Conan shares his trepidation about directing a feature-length film, while Peretti opens up about her experience with beta blockers to manage performance anxiety. Their open dialogue about mental health stresses the significance of seeking help and proper preparation, touching on a matter that resonates widely with performers and professionals alike.
From the comedic endeavors to life's unpredictabilities, Conan and Chelsea whimsically tackle even the most unexpected topics such as bear attack survival, infusing humor into their educational revision of past advice. They invite listeners into their comedic influences and experiences discussing childhood inspirations and the philosophical depths of stand-up. The chemistry between these two comedians shines through as they commiserate over the personal impacts of online criticism and share their strategies for navigating the turbulent waters of public opinion—all woven with their signature banter that is sure to entertain any listener.
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Conan O'Brien describes his apprehension about directing a feature film, despite enjoying smaller directing projects. The prospect of overseeing a full-length movie triggers a significant amount of anxiety for him. Chelsea Peretti relates to this pressure, introducing the concept of using beta blockers to manage anxiety. They clarify that beta blockers, normally used to control blood pressure, can also reduce anxiety symptoms by slowing down the heart rate. Peretti shares how her father suggested she use them before performing stand-up to lessen nervousness, a notion Conan supports, having used medication himself for anxiety and mild depression. They emphasize the importance of seeking help for anxiety, with Conan advocating thorough preparation as an effective way to reduce nervousness before facing an audience.
Chelsea Peretti and Conan O'Brien comically revisit their past bear attack survival advice, acknowledging their lack of expertise on the matter. They recount humorous stories about bear encounters, including over-the-top personal precautions and playing with misconceptions, such as the absurd notion of using gravy as a bear deterrent. Despite their jesting, they seriously discuss the differences in advice when facing various bear species and the ineffectiveness of outrunning bears. Amid their funny tales, they seek genuine advice from producer Jennifer Samples and Eduardo, who both reaffirm National Park Service guidelines: fight back in a black bear attack, play dead for a grizzly, and concede your fate with polar bears. Ultimately, Conan and Peretti correct previous misstatements, ensuring their audience receives accurate information.
Chelsea Peretti and Conan O'Brien share the influences that shaped their comedic styles, citing school experiences and performances they watched as children. Peretti felt inspired by comics like Eddie Murphy and Gilda Radner, while O'Brien was drawn more to sketch comedy. Peretti speaks about her journey from being seen as odd in school to embracing humor as her strength. However, she now rarely performs stand-up, having focused on the negative aspects of the experience. Conan similarly connects with not always engaging with the audience, even finding solace in silence during performances. They each share memorable comedy festival moments, including misunderstood gestures and meeting their idols. The discussion turns philosophical as Peretti debates whether stand-up is an inherently flawed art form due to its one-sidedness, prompting reflection on the nature of stand-up comedy's appeal.
Chelsea Peretti is rebooting her call-in podcast and has humorously enlisted Conan O'Brien to guest as a bear expert. They also address the impact of online criticism, with Peretti recalling how negative comments have deeply affected her, to the point of crying for hours. Both comedians admit to avoiding the search for negative feedback, recognizing its harmful nature. Peretti explains her decision to keep her child's image off the internet and her struggle with negative commentary. Nevertheless, she admits to reading some comments in hopes of finding constructive criticism that can inform her work, even if it's painful.
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Conan O'Brien and Chelsea Peretti delve into the challenges of directing a movie, specifically addressing the anxiety that comes with such a responsibility.
Conan O'Brien shares his fear of directing, remarking that although he enjoys directing small projects, the thought of being at the helm of a full-length movie is daunting to him. The idea of taking on the role of a formal director evokes a significant amount of anxiety for him.
Chelsea Peretti, understanding the pressure associated with directing, reveals that she too considers herself to be an anxious person. She introduces the idea of using beta blockers to manage anxiety, a suggestion spurred by her own anxious disposition.
Conan and Peretti then unpack the subject of beta blockers, initially confusing the drug's primary purpose—controlling blood pressure—with its off-label use for easing anxiety symptoms. Peretti recounts that her father once recommended beta blockers to her as a way to mitigate nervousness during her stand-up acts.
A contributor to the conversation, Eduardo, intervenes to clarify that beta blockers function by slowing down the heart rate. This can be useful when confronting anxiety-ind ...
Directing a Movie
Conan O'Brien and Chelsea Peretti acknowledge recent discussions on their show about bear attacks, admitting that their previous bear attack advice may have been irresponsible and recognising that neither of them is an expert on surviving bear encounters.
Through comedic anecdotes and playful conversation, they continue to address the topic of bear attacks.
Conan recounted a story about bringing a suit and a casket while camping as a mock precaution against a bear attack, during which he joked about hiring people to attend his "funeral." Chelsea Peretti, expressing her fascination with bear attack stories, seeks to find a comedic angle when discussing survivors’ experiences, even when deliberating on the severity of attacks to keep them light-hearted.
Peretti and O'Brien delved into bear behavior during encounters, jokingly confusing the advice for dealing with different bear species with other humorous phrases. Conan, in jest, commented that grizzly bears hate the sound of cowbell, and suggested facetiously that they spread misinformation online advising people to lie down to prevent an attack. The ludicrous idea of lathering oneself in gravy as a bear deterrent was offered sarcastically, continuing the comedic tone.
Peretti noted a statistical observation that groups of three are less likely to be attacked by a bear and pointed out the futility of trying to outrun a bear, considering their speed. Despite joking that he’s read books about bear attacks, Conan did engage in an earnest discussion with Peretti about the contrasting advice given when encountering black or brown bears, whether to play dead or make oneself larger and noisier. Still, they expressed confusion over the correct response, referencing mnemonics and rhymes for remembering the advice.
Amid the lighthearted banter, confusion arose about the appropriate actions to take during a bear encounter, prompting a call with Team Coco producer, Jennifer Samples. She provided the mnemonic "black attack," which means make yourse ...
Bear Attack Survival Advice
In a candid discussion about the world of humor, Chelsea Peretti and Conan O'Brien share their comedic influences and experiences with stand-up comedy, while also touching on its nature as an art form.
Comedy is of paramount importance to Chelsea Peretti, akin to a religion. From her early days of feeling somewhat odd in elementary school, she was influenced by icons like Gilda Radner, Eddie Murphy, and Steve Martin, rather than by stand-ups. Notably, she recalls watching Eddie Murphy's SNL performances on VHS and Adele Givens on Def Comedy Jam. Watching "Eddie Murphy Raw" with her grandmother was particularly memorable and influential for her.
Like Peretti, Conan O'Brien was more inspired by sketch players and comedic actors than stand-up comedians. Both acknowledge the impact of different forms of humor on their careers, with O'Brien sharing recollections of being fascinated with the unpredictability in comedy. He fondly remembers unconventional scenarios such as a man in a beekeeper's outfit appearing from the audience. Peretti concurs, highlighting the joy found in these playful, interruptive moments in comedy.
Peretti goes on to discuss her transformation from being perceived as weird in elementary school to discovering humor as her forte in junior high. However, she shares that she doesn't do stand-up as much anymore, revealing that she would ruminate on the negative aspects of her performances rather than basking in the post-show glow common among her peers.
O'Brien, finding common ground, speaks to the experience of not connecting with the audience. In an unusual twist, he confesses to sometimes almost enjoying the silence during a show, which can feel like a sanctuary for his ...
Comedy Influences and Experiences
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Chelsea Peretti discusses the intricacies of her podcast and approach to comedy, including an upcoming guest appearance and handling criticism.
The conversation did not provide an explicit explanation for why Chelsea Peretti is rebooting her call-in podcast.
Conan O'Brien humorously agrees to appear on Chelsea Peretti's podcast, jesting that he will come on as a bear expert, adding a light-hearted twist to his anticipated guest spot.
Chelsea Peretti opens up about the emotional toll that negative comments can take, recalling an instance where she cried for two hours after reading unflattering comments on a YouTube clip from the beginning of her stand-up career. Peretti, along with Conan O'Brien, admits to avoiding the search for negative comments or feedback online due to its often destructive nature. They discuss how such criticism is less about constructive feedback and more about harm.
Peretti also touches ...
Chelsea Peretti's Podcast and Comedy
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