45. Signs I Always Get Before Life Levels UP
In this episode of Aware & Aggravated, host Leo discusses his experiences with premonitions and intuition, sharing personal stories of how following his inner guidance helped him avoid accidents and make major life changes. He examines the relationship between intuitive messages and significant life transitions, including his decision to leave his job and pursue a spiritual path.
Leo also explores his current feelings of being stuck in an uncomfortable living situation, and how his instincts are pushing him toward change despite initial resistance. Through examples from his own life, he explains his approach to trusting intuition over fear-based decisions and describes how he's learned to step back from immediate reactions to stressful situations, instead waiting for natural opportunities to emerge.
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Intuition, Premonition, and Spiritual Guidance
Leo shares his transformative experiences with premonitions and how they've guided his spiritual journey. His first significant premonition involved contemplating a potential leg injury, which helped him realize that seemingly negative events could lead to positive outcomes. This insight gave him the courage to quit his job and begin his spiritual path. Another notable premonition helped him avoid a skateboarding accident, further validating his decision to trust these intuitive messages.
Dissatisfaction With Living Situation and Desire For Change
Despite his efforts to create a welcoming environment, Leo reveals that his current house feels more like a prison than a home. He describes feeling trapped and unsettled, particularly due to intrusive neighbors and security concerns. As someone who typically moves frequently, never staying in one place for more than a year, Leo recognizes that he has outgrown his current living situation and feels ready to embrace change.
Resistance to Change and Life/Soul Pushing For It
Leo reflects on how significant life events, such as a car accident in Los Angeles, have often served as catalysts for change in his life. While packing for a trip, he noticed himself instinctively selecting items as if he were moving out permanently, suggesting his soul's readiness for change. He describes experiencing various premonitions and synchronicities that further reinforce his need to move forward, despite initial feelings of fear and doubt.
Letting Go, Trusting Intuition, Being "Unavailable" to Stress
Leo explains his journey of learning to trust his intuition over fear-based decisions, calling it his "trust fall chapter." He shares examples of following his intuition, such as avoiding a potential skateboarding accident by heeding an inner urge to slow down. Rather than immediately reacting to discomfort or obligation, Leo now chooses to wait for the right moment to respond, letting go of guilt and allowing opportunities to present themselves naturally.
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- Premonitions and intuition are subjective experiences and can be prone to confirmation bias; not all intuitive feelings may lead to accurate predictions or positive outcomes.
- The belief in premonitions and spiritual guidance is not universally accepted and lacks empirical evidence; skeptics would argue that such experiences can often be explained by coincidence or subconscious observations.
- Quitting a job based on a premonition may not be advisable for everyone; it's important to consider practical implications and have a plan for financial stability.
- The feeling of a house being like a prison could be influenced by Leo's mindset and emotional state; changing one's perspective or addressing the underlying issues could also be a solution rather than moving.
- The desire for change could be a manifestation of restlessness or avoidance of deeper issues that won't necessarily be resolved by changing locations.
- Significant life events can indeed be catalysts for change, but attributing these solely to premonitions or spiritual guidance may overlook other factors such as personal agency and decision-making processes.
- Instinctively selecting items as if moving out could be a subconscious desire for change rather than a premonition or a sign from the soul.
- While trusting intuition can be beneficial, it's also important to balance it with rational decision-making and consider potential risks and consequences.
- Being "unavailable" to stress and waiting for the right moment can be positive, but it's also important to actively engage with challenges and responsibilities rather than solely relying on opportunities to present themselves.
Actionables
- You can start a premonition journal to track intuitive insights and their outcomes, which may help you recognize patterns in your life that guide decision-making. Begin by writing down any strong gut feelings or premonitions you experience, along with the date and time. Later, reflect on what happened and note any correlations between your intuition and real-life events. This practice can enhance your trust in your intuition over time.
- Create a "change readiness" checklist to assess your preparedness for life transitions, similar to how one might instinctively select items for a move. Include categories such as emotional readiness, financial stability, and support systems. Regularly review and update this checklist to gauge your readiness for change and to identify areas that may need attention before taking a leap into something new.
- Develop a "slow response" habit by setting aside designated times to reflect before making decisions, which can help you avoid impulsive actions based on fear or guilt. For example, when faced with a significant choice, give yourself a 24-hour period to consider all aspects of the decision. Use this time to weigh the pros and cons, consult with trusted friends or mentors, and listen to your inner voice for guidance. This approach can lead to more thoughtful and intuitive decision-making.
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Intuition, Premonition, and Spiritual Guidance
Leo's profound experiences with premonitions have significantly altered his life, guiding him on an unusual spiritual path.
Leo's Premonitions' Impact on His Spiritual Journey
Leo's transformative journey into the spiritual realm was sparked by an unconventional source: a premonition.
Premonition of Injury Leads Leo to Quit Job and Pursue Spiritual Path
Leo had a stark premonition regarding an injury, contemplating the benefits of breaking his leg. This deep reflection revealed to him the possible advantage of being freed from a job he desperately wanted to quit. The potential injury shifted his life perspective; instead of seeing negative events as a punishment, he began to understand how they could be beneficial. This epiphany, seeded by his premonition, propelled him to leave his employment, marking the start of a newfound spiritual endeavor.
Leo also recalls a vivid message he received that prevented a likely skateboarding disaster, which corroborated his decision to resign. This visual premonition was a decisive moment that redirected his life's journey.
Leo's Premonition of House Being Burglarized
Another premonition came to Leo in the form of a visual experience.
Premonition Echoes Past Experience For Leo
Leo's premonition of his house getting broken into echoed a previous premonition which occurred right before he began his spiritual journey. When he contemplated a burglary of his house through security cameras while partying in a nightclub in Vegas, the vision was disturbingly familiar. It resembled a past premonition about a skateboarding accident which happened before the incident actually took place, signifying a pattern of foresight leading to life-alterin ...
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- Premonitions are subjective experiences and can be influenced by one's own biases and desires; Leo's interpretation of these events may be more reflective of his own subconscious wishes than of any supernatural guidance.
- Correlation does not imply causation; just because events followed Leo's premonitions does not necessarily mean the premonitions predicted or caused those events.
- The human brain is pattern-seeking, and it's possible that Leo is attributing significance to coincidences, a phenomenon known as confirmation bias.
- Leo's decisions based on premonitions could be seen as risky or irresponsible if not grounded in rational decision-making, especially when it comes to significant life changes like quitting a job or reacting to a potential burglary.
- The narrative may unintentionally promote the idea that intuition or premonitions are a reliable guide for making life decisions, which could be misleading for some individuals.
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- Start a reflection journal to track your intuition and its outcomes. Write down any strong gut feelings or premonitions you experience, and later, note any related events that occur. This practice can help you become more attuned to your intuition and its potential impact on your life decisions.
- Create a decision-making flowchart that includes a step for considering intuitive insights. When faced with a significant choice, use the flowchart to weigh your rational analysis alongside any intuitive feelings, allowing for a more holistic approach to decision-making.
- Engage ...
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Dissatisfaction With Living Situation and Desire For Change
At a point in his life where comfort and growth are paramount, Leo finds himself constrained by his current house, prompting a deep dive into his emotions and the practicalities of his surroundings.
Leo Feels His House Is Holding Him Back
Leo voices his uneasiness with his living environment, feeling trapped rather than nurtured in what should be his personal space. Efforts to make the house feel more like a home have been unfulfilling for Leo. Despite attempts to infuse his style into the space, it remains out of sync with his essence.
He Tried to Make the House a Home, but It Still Feels Off
Leo's attempts to cultivate warmth and personality within his house have failed to make it feel more welcoming. The dissonance between the house and his desired sanctuary is palpable. Leo Skepi experiences guilt for not achieving the homely aura he envisioned, viewing the result as a personal letdown.
House Feels Like a "Prison" Rather Than a Place For Growth
The house has become a sort of "prison" to Leo, a place that provides basic shelter but hinders his personal development. The lack of safety he feels, exacerbated by intrusive neighbors' surveillance, weighs heavily on him. Fears of burglary have only intensified his urgency to seek a new abode that offers solace and security.
Leo's Awareness Of Outgrowing His Living Situation
As someone accustomed to relocating frequently, never putting down roots for more than a year, Leo acknowledges the pattern of short-lived stays. This transient nature has led him to a moment of reckoning about his latest residence.
Frequently Moving, Never Staying Put For a Year
Leo's history of constant movement has provided him with ...
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Dissatisfaction With Living Situation and Desire For Change
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- Leo's feeling of being trapped might be more psychological than physical, and addressing underlying issues could change his perception of the space.
- Personal dissatisfaction can sometimes be projected onto one's environment; perhaps Leo's discontent is not solely due to the house itself.
- The failure to make the house feel like a home could be due to unrealistic expectations or a lack of clarity about what truly makes a space feel personal.
- Feeling like the house is a "prison" might be an emotional response that could be mitigated by community engagement or security improvements.
- Leo's history of frequent moves might indicate a pattern of avoiding issues rather than the house being the problem.
- The need to move on cou ...
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- You can create a vision board to visualize your ideal living space, which can help clarify what you're looking for in a new home. Start by collecting images and words from magazines or printing them from online sources that represent the feelings, aesthetics, and features you want in your next house. Place your vision board somewhere you'll see it daily to keep your goals and desires at the forefront of your mind.
- Try a "mock move" exercise to emotionally and practically prepare for a change in residence. Pack up your belongings as if you were moving out in the next week. This process can help you identify what's truly important to you and what you can let go of, making the eventual move smoother and more intentional.
- Engage in a "home au ...
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Resistance to Change and Life/Soul Pushing For It
Leo explores his personal encounters with change and how various events prompt a deeper understanding of his life path, despite initial resistance, leading to decisive actions.
Leo's Need For Hardship to Inspire Change
Leo recalls a significant car accident, which was the catalyst for his realization that he needed to leave Los Angeles. Reflecting on this experience, he acknowledges that he does not want negative circumstances to be the primary motivator for change in his life. His car accident, although unsettling, served as a wake-up call, showing him how potentially negative experiences could lead to positive changes.
Leo Realizes Change Is Unavoidable
Through introspection, Leo recognizes the inevitable nature of change and follows the guidance of his intuition to prepare for a new chapter.
His Soul Guides Him to Let Go Of Unneeded Things In His House
While packing for a trip, he finds himself selecting essential items, as if he was moving out permanently. This subconscious action is a clear indication of his internal push towards change. He expresses a desire to act in accordance with what his soul desires, acknowledging his current unhappiness. Despite feelings of fear, worry, and doubt, Leo assertively decides to go ahead with changes, no longer making himself available to these negative emotions.
Premonitions and Synchronicities Drive Leo to Act and Change
Leo notes that his intuition has been a steady guide, pointing him toward the truth he's facing, which includes recognizing it's time to let go of his current house. He goes through his belongings and focuses on what he'd truly miss, interpretin ...
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Resistance to Change and Life/Soul Pushing For It
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- Leo's interpretation of negative events as catalysts for change could be seen as a form of confirmation bias, where he is attributing meaning to events that may not inherently possess it.
- The idea that hardship is necessary for inspiration or change can be challenged by the notion that people can also be inspired by positive experiences and proactive desires for self-improvement.
- While Leo acknowledges the inevitability of change, it's worth considering that some individuals may successfully resist change for extended periods, suggesting that change is not always as inevitable as it may seem.
- The reliance on intuition as a guide for major life decisions could be questioned for its lack of empirical evidence and the potential for misinterpretation.
- The act of decluttering and interpreting it as readiness for change could be seen as a normal process of reevaluation rather than a sign of deeper transformation.
- Premonitions and synchronicities, while meaningful to Leo, could be critiqued as subjective experiences that may not have a causal relationship with the need for change.
- The belief in a soul guiding one's actions could be challenged from a secular or scientific perspective, which might attribute such feelings ...
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- You can create a "Change Readiness Kit" by selecting items that symbolize new beginnings for you and keeping them in a dedicated space. For instance, if you're contemplating a career shift, include a book related to the new field you're interested in, a journal for planning, and perhaps a course enrollment confirmation. This tangible collection serves as a daily reminder and motivator for the change you're seeking.
- Start a "Premonition Journal" to document any intuitive feelings or synchronicities you experience. Write down even the smallest hunches or coincidences, like thinking of an old friend before they suddenly call. Over time, you may start to see patterns that could guide your decisions, similar to how Leo's premonitions signaled a need for change.
- Engage in a monthly "Essentials Exercise" w ...
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Letting Go, Trusting Intuition, Being "Unavailable" to Stress
Leo delves into his evolving approach to life where he is learning to let go of conventional responses to fear and stress, and instead is trusting his intuition.
Leo's Effort to Observe and Follow Intuition
He Wants to Follow His Soul, Not Act From Fear
Leo is embracing a journey he calls his "trust fall chapter," aiming to be open to the unfolding events and to witness what happens. This includes his packing process for a trip which he handles by listening to his soul, focusing on what truly matters, and letting go of anxiety. Furthermore, Leo had a premonition about a burglary at his house but chose not to let fear dictate his actions. Instead, he sat with his emotions and visual for a few hours and approached the situation based on his soul's messaging.
Leo recounts an episode while skateboarding where he narrowly avoided an accident at a railroad track by heeding to an inner urge to slow down, a moment he attributes to following his intuition. This incident solidifies his resolve to act based on soulful guidance rather than fear. Leo mentions his desire to be attentive to his premonitions and inner feelings, ensuing actions that align with what his soul tells him.
Leo's Examples Of Letting Go and Trusting Intuition
He Awaits the Right Opportunity
Claiming to be adept at listening to his soul and making decisions based on its guidance, Leo speaks of waiting for the appropriate moment in various situations. He refers to several incidents where things lined up synchronistically, like when a new friend unexpectedly offered him the use of an air compressor to fill his tires, or when a tailor approached him with his services. These events demonstrate his belief in not forcing things but instead allowing the right opportunities to present themselves. Leo's trust in intuition is reflected in his preparation for change and an openness to what life brings, despite feeling scared and confused at times.
Leo's Choice to Delay Response, Releasing Guilt and Need to Please
Old Pattern Recog ...
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- Trusting intuition does not always guarantee safety or the best outcome; rational decision-making based on evidence and analysis is also important.
- Letting go of anxiety and stress is beneficial, but some level of stress can be a motivating and focusing force that drives productivity and preparedness.
- While waiting for the right opportunities can lead to synchronistic events, it may also result in missed opportunities due to passivity or lack of proactive action.
- Relying solely on intuition in the face of premonitions like a burglary could potentially lead to negligence; it's important to balance intuition with practical safety measures.
- Delaying responses to avoid immediate reactions can be healthy, but it might also lead to misunderstandings or strain in relationships if others perceive it as disinterest or neglect.
- Embracing change and uncertainty is a positive approach, but having a plan and some level of control is also nec ...
Actionables
- You can start a "gut check" journal to become more attuned to your intuition. Each day, jot down moments when you have a strong gut feeling about something, regardless of how trivial it seems. Later, reflect on these instances and note any outcomes that followed your intuitive sense. This practice can help you recognize patterns in your intuitive thinking and build trust in your inner guidance system.
- Develop a personal ritual to center yourself before making decisions. This could be as simple as taking three deep breaths, stepping outside for fresh air, or even having a designated 'thinking spot' where you go to clear your mind. The key is to create a consistent action that signals to your brain it's time to tap into your intuition rather than react out of fear or stress.
- Experiment with "opportunity patience" by settin ...
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