In this episode of the Aware & Aggravated podcast, Leo opens up about his intense struggle with cocaine addiction and how it served as a coping mechanism for depression and compromised emotional regulation. He shares his spiritual awakening that allowed him to reconnect with his inner voice and intuition, previously suppressed by drug use.
Leo also discusses learning to release self-created stress from unreasonable obligations, prioritizing his body's needs over pushing limits. Additionally, he expresses an unwavering belief in finding his destined partner, describing it as a "remembering" rather than a fantasy, with a profound connection that brings him peace and purpose.
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Leo shares his intense struggle with cocaine addiction, which he relied on to cope with depression and compromised emotional regulation. As Sanger-Katz explains, cocaine became a constant "best friend" that provided relief from anxiety and hopelessness, despite its self-destructive nature. Leo admits his usage escalated to life-threatening levels before he realized the need to regain self-trust.
After a trip to Miami, Leo describes a spiritual awakening that allowed him to reconnect with his inner voice and intuition, previously suppressed by drug use. According to Leo, this experience separated his physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects, enabling him to perceive their interactions. He shed limiting beliefs and developed trust in following his soul's guidance.
Leo discusses learning to release self-created stress from unreasonable obligations. He prioritizes honoring his body's needs over pushing limits, aligning actions with intuition for a more fulfilling life. Leo shares how this shift involved refusing to overexert himself to meet others' expectations.
Leo expresses an unwavering belief that he's found his destined partner, describing it as a "remembering" rather than a fantasy. He sensed this person's presence and glimpsed their perspective, awaiting reunion. This connection brings Leo peace and purpose on his journey to find true love.
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Leo shares an intensely personal narrative of his year-long struggle with cocaine addiction and its dire consequences on his life.
Leo candidly discusses his daily battles with mental health struggles, which led to a heavy reliance on cocaine to simply function in everyday life. Cocaine became a makeshift solution to his inability to self-regulate due to deep depression. He describes using cocaine immediately upon waking up as a necessity to get out of bed, highlighting the depth of his dependency on the drug to perform basic tasks.
Leo mentions his "totally off the walls" nervous system and compromised emotional regulation. His natural coping mechanisms were described as "shot," with cocaine becoming a required crutch for any semblance of daily normalcy. He reveals that despite knowing the risks and the legal ramifications, cocaine became a constant in his life, stored in any frequently visited place for easy access.
Despite its destructive effects, Leo characterizes cocaine as his "best friend," a comforting presence that provided relief from overwhelming anxiety and hopelessness. He relied on it for a sense of control in his life. But with the drug, he found himself muting his inner voice and authentic desires, opting to follow the false sense of security that cocaine falsely promised. Even as he continued to use cocaine, he recognized its self-abusive nature and the reality that it brought no genuine relief.
Acknowledging the self-destructive behavior, Leo reflects on the unsustainable nature of his former "best friend." His use intensified, from an eight ball lasting a month to one to two grams a day. The addiction even pushed him to a state where he feared for his lif ...
Leo's Struggles With Drug Addiction and Its Impact
Following a trip to Miami, Leo encountered a life-altering spiritual awakening that drastically altered his self-perspective and his relationship with himself.
Leo shared that after returning from Miami, he felt jolted awake spiritually. This experience enabled him to reconnect with his internal voice—a voice he felt he'd lost to cocaine use. Having navigated through a period of success followed by a relapse, Leo felt delusional and unhappy, resulting in an emotional and mental breakdown. Through intense emotional release, he achieved peace, indicating that surrendering and trusting himself might have been the purpose of his trip.
After the breakdown, Leo experienced an awakening where he perceived a separation of elements within himself. He saw his nervous system, emotions, and physical body as distinct from his spiritual essence. His awakening led to a realization that he could trust his soul's guidance without relying on cocaine.
Leo's experience also seemed to provide him with a deeper connection to his physical state and spiritual essence as he could perceive and process his emotions and physiological responses synchronously. He felt an attentiveness to his body and nervous system, allowing them to process emotions. This connectedness offered him a profound understanding of how different systems work both as a human and a spirit.
As a result of his awakening, Leo felt cleansed of old emotions, thoughts, and fears. He underwent a "full shedding" ...
Leo's Spiritual Awakening and Intuition
Leo explains how he used to make himself stressed unnecessarily, a habit he observed in his father as well. He learned to overcome this self-created stress by questioning its roots and realizing that many of the reasons he felt stressed didn’t make sense. He recounts how he previously thought that being himself was hurting people and disrupting his life. But Leo has now decided to no longer live his life out of obligation, swearing off such commitments.
Reflecting, Leo realizes that his stress was often self-imposed, stemming from irrational worries. He emphasizes how his decision to put his well-being first marked a significant change, such as leaving a club early when he felt exhausted, even if it went against the social expectations of others.
Leo has made a radical shift to listen to his body and soul when deciding where to invest his energy. This change has led to less forced exertion and better health outcomes. For example, he stopped stressing when sick and instead let things unfold naturally, often finding the outcomes were better than expected when he allowed himself not to rush the healing process.
He shares an anecdote about his father stressing over work in the car industry, despite being fully competent. This situation helped Leo realize how his similar stresses—over podcasting, making TikToks, or fashion ventures—were equally irrational, considering he possessed the skills and knowledge to accomplish these tasks.
He has learned to focus on not compromising the quality of his work rather than stressing about timelines, indicating a newfound respect for his needs and limitations. Leo emphasizes the importance of not abusing his body to fulfill "fake" responsibilities and instead resting and listening to one's body.
Leo discusses his emotional responses to authoritative systems, ...
Leo's Perspective on Stress, Obligation, and Desires
Leo Skepi shares a deeply personal and profound belief that he's found his destined partner, a conviction that goes beyond mere fantasy.
Leo describes his discovery of his destined partner not as a fantasy, but as a "remembering," feeling a strong sense of familiarity and connection.
Leo Skepi explains his experience that leads him to believe in his destined partner as a vivid awakening, where he felt an overwhelming sense of a presence aligned with his own. He recalls walking down the street, enveloped in a sense of safety and companionship, despite being physically alone.
With confidence, Leo details a mystical moment, one in which he views through the eyes of his partner, sensing their shared yearning for the day they find one another. This belief is not simply a wish for Leo; it's an incontrovertible pull towards someone he's never met but knows is out there searching for him.
Leo's discovery brings him a newfound peace and purpose, transforming the loneliness of searching for a partner into a magn ...
Leo's Belief He Found His Destined Partner
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