Join hosts Dax Shepard and Monica Padman, along with guest Liz Plank, on "Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard" as they navigate through a variety of topics that blend humor, personal anecdotes, and serious discussions on contemporary issues concerning women. Episode "Synced: Manscraping" opens with a comical yet distressing tale of lost-and-found as Plank recounts her airport misadventure involving her misplaced phone, a frantic response, and the eventual realization of the unnecessary uproar it caused.
The conversation then delves into more significant cultural discussions, exploring the gender disparities in workplace temperature settings, the revelation of women's unique sleep requirements, and forthright sex advice aimed at empowering female sexual satisfaction. As Plank shares her views and interacts with the hosts, listeners are invited to reflect on the everyday experiences that highlight the subtle yet impactful ways in which gender norms affect women's lives, from staying warm at the office to the pursuit of pleasure and understanding in intimate relationships.
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Liz Plank mistakenly places her phone in her checked baggage and, upon noticing it missing, believes it has been stolen. She tracks her phone's airport movements, panics, and cancels her credit cards to prevent fraud. After alerting authorities and involving her bank and assistant, she later discovers the phone was in her luggage all along, rendering the chaos unnecessary.
Liz Plank discusses the challenges women face in traditionally cold office environments. Since offices are generally set to men's body temperature preferences, women like Plank often resort to using personal heaters and additional clothing, like a Snuggie, to stay warm at work.
New research suggests that women may require more sleep than men, typically around nine hours nightly, and up to ten hours during their menstrual cycles. Liz Plank and Monica Padman consider these findings alongside personal experiences, indicating a need to tailor sleep recommendations to women's physiological differences.
Monica Padman and Liz Plank counsel a 25-year-old woman who has never orgasmed with a partner. They recommend using a vibrator for clitoral stimulation during sex and stress the importance of female pleasure. They advocate partners' understanding of a woman's needs, suggesting the "golden trio," and encourage men to read "She Comes First" to better fulfill women's sexual needs. The hosts also discuss gender norms and the positive aspect of men wearing "belt bags" (fanny packs) in relationships.
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During an unexpected turn of events, Liz Plank experiences a wave of panic over a lost phone that ends up being a simple misunderstanding.
While taking medication out of her luggage, Liz Plank inadvertently places her phone inside her checked bag. As she tracks the phone's movement through the airport terminals via the Find My Phone app, Liz becomes convinced her phone has been stolen. Driven by panic, she reaches out for help at the Delta lounge and subsequently races to the police station at the airport.
Convinced that her phone has fallen into the wrong hands, Liz Plank cancels her credit cards connected to her phone to prevent any fraudulent activity, taking additional precautions by involving her bank and her assistant in the matter.
After a period of distress, Liz disco ...
Confusion Over Losing Phone During Travel
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Liz Plank highlights the often overlooked issue of office temperatures being set based on men's body temperatures, which can lead to discomfort for women in the workplace.
Liz Plank brings attention to an everyday challenge that many women face in office settings: the cold temperatures. Plank shares her personal experiences with being cold at work, discussing how she resorted to using a Snuggie and a personal heater to stay warm, even when such measures were technically not allowed. She also mentions her need for extra warmth in other settings like her home, indicating that she sometimes uses a fi ...
Women's Sensitivity to Temperature
Recent findings highlight that the sleep requirements for women might be different than those suggested for men, prompting discussions about how these needs can change during various phases of a woman's life.
The new research indicates that while it's commonly advised that adults need about eight hours of sleep, women actually may need as much as nine hours to function optimally. This research is considered within the personal experiences of individuals like Liz Plank and Monica Padman.
The research further elaborates that the sleep need for women increases ...
Women Needing More Sleep
The hosts Monica Padman and Liz Plank offer guidance on enhancing sexual pleasure and equalizing gender dynamics in relationships.
A 25-year-old female listener, sexually active since 15, has never experienced an orgasm with a partner. She often finds herself overthinking during sex and not prioritizing her pleasure in heterosexual relationships.
The hosts recommend following Vanessa Marin, a therapist who provides advice in this area, and suggest the woman should not rely solely on sex with her fiancé for pleasure. Citing that most women do not achieve orgasm from intercourse alone, they stress the importance of clitoral stimulation for an orgasm. Monica Padman urges her to use a vibrator with her fiancé to assist with clitoral stimulation during intercourse, emphasizing that paying attention to clitoral stimulation is critical.
The conversation concludes that a partner understanding a woman's needs is critical for her pleasure and orgasm. They discuss the "golden trio" for women's orgasms: vaginal penetration, clitoral stimulation, and deep kissing. Liz Plank asserts it should be mandatory for straight men to perform oral sex because it's how most women achieve orgasm and that men need to understand and focus on what their female partners enjoy to be good sexual companions.
Sex Advice
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