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First Ladies | Martha Washington | 1

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This episode of American History Tellers explores the life and influence of Martha Washington, the nation's first First Lady. It delves into her personal journey, from her upbringing on a Virginia plantation to her marriage to George Washington and their shared sacrifices during the Revolutionary War.

The blurb examines Martha's role in shaping the First Lady's position, establishing traditions like formal receptions and sparking criticism for emulating royal courts. It also sheds light on the controversies the Washingtons faced, such as accusations of elitism and anti-Republican sentiments, as well as their complex stance on slavery, exemplified by Martha's entanglement with the injustices of the institution.

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Martha Washington's Personal Life

Martha Dandridge was born in 1731 on a Virginia plantation, raised to become a dutiful wife and hostess. At 17, she married Daniel Parke Custis, one of Virginia's wealthiest men. After his death, Martha, only 26, became a skilled manager of the Custis estate and its enslaved laborers.

Martha met George Washington in 1759. Initially a pragmatic match, their marriage grew into genuine affection. For 14 years, the couple enjoyed domestic tranquility at Mount Vernon before the Revolutionary War forced sacrifices to support the cause.

First Lady Role

As the nation's first First Lady in 1789, Martha had to navigate an undefined role without precedent. She established traditions like formal receptions and drawing rooms, sparking accusations of recreating a royal court. Yet Martha's patriotic efforts during the war boosted George's popularity.

Privately, Martha longed for Mount Vernon's tranquility, feeling confined by social obligations. This internal struggle highlighted the sacrifices involved in being First Lady.

Political Controversies

The Washingtons faced criticism from Jeffersonian Republicans who saw Martha's formal receptions and George's levees as elitist and anti-Republican. They were accused of imitating European monarchies, countering democratic principles.

Martha avoided the partisan fray, focusing on hosting rather than debates. Her neutral stance and desire for private life were clear.

Stance on Slavery

While George Washington grew conflicted about slavery, Martha showed no such misgivings. She spent years trying to recapture an escaped enslaved maid. After George's death, Martha feared freeing her first husband's "dower slaves" due to uprising concerns.

In 1801, Martha freed Washington's slaves per his will but not the Custis dower slaves, painfully separating enslaved families. This underscored the founding generation's complex moral entanglement with slavery's injustices.

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Martha Washington's personal life and marriage

Martha Washington's early life on a tobacco plantation and her subsequent marriages to Daniel Parke Custis and then George Washington shaped both her personal narrative and her role in American history. From a dutiful wife to the original First Lady, Martha Washington's life was one of both personal resolve and public sacrifice.

Martha Dandridge was born into a relatively well-off Virginia family and was trained from a young age to be a dutiful wife and hostess.

Martha Dandridge, born in June 1731, was raised on a small tobacco plantation east of Richmond, Virginia, into a family with deep Virginia roots—her father was an immigrant from England who became a successful planter. As the eldest of eight children, Martha received a solid education that prepared her for domestic life, including homemaking skills such as cooking and sewing, as well as reading, writing, and math. Strong-willed by nature, she was nonetheless raised to manage her own household and make a good marriage, which she did at the tender age of 17 when she married Daniel Parke Custis.

She became a skilled manager of the Custis estate after his death.

Martha's first husband, Custis, was twenty years her senior and one of the wealthiest men in Virginia. When he unexpectedly passed away due to a throat infection, Martha, only 26, became one of the wealthiest widows in the colony. She found herself in charge of 17,000 acres and nearly 300 enslaved laborers across five plantations. Demonstrating proficiency in business, Martha effectively maintained the vast properties and oversaw the well-being of hundreds of people. She could not, however, free the 153 dower slaves from the Custis estate due to legal constraints.

Martha's second marriage to George Washington in 1759 was initially a pragmatic match, but it eventually blossomed into a deep and lasting love.

Martha met George Washington a year after becoming a widow. At the time, George was a young colonel renowned for his service in the French and Indian War. Even though he came from a more modest background than Martha, she regarded him as kind and honorable. Their marriage in January 1759, which first appeared to be a strategic union, developed into genuine affection and mutual respect. Martha and her children moved to Mount Vernon, George's plantation, signaling the start of nearly 14 years of marital harmony.

The Washingtons enjoyed a peaceful domestic life at Mount Vernon for nearly 14 years before the Revolutionary War pulled George away, forcing Martha to make sacrifices ...

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  • Explore your family history to connect with your past and understand the influences that shaped you, much like Martha Dandridge's upbringing influenced her role in history. Start by creating a simple family tree using online resources or apps, and reach out to relatives for stories, documents, or photographs that can provide insight into your ancestors' lives and the skills or roles they were trained for.
  • Develop your estate management skills by starting a small-scale project that requires similar diligence and oversight, akin to Martha's management of the Custis estate. This could be as simple as creating a budget for your household, starting a garden to understand land management, or volunteering for a local community organization to gain experience in managing resources and people.
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Martha's role as First Lady and the establishment of that position

As the nation's first First Lady, Martha Washington carved out the role of the presidential spouse, setting traditions that incorporated both the need for accessibility and the prestige of the new nation.

As the nation's first First Lady, Martha Washington had to navigate an entirely new and undefined role without precedent.

She established social traditions like formal receptions and drawing rooms to project dignity and stability for the new presidency, though these were controversial and accused of being monarchical.

When George Washington assumed the presidency in 1789, Martha became the first to serve as First Lady of the United States. She was celebrated as "Lady Washington" as she traveled to New York to join George after his inauguration, with supporters cheering her arrival. In an effort to uphold democratic principles while asserting the new nation's status, George and Martha Washington strove to adhere to European precedents to some degree. Martha hosted Friday evening drawing rooms for both men and women, during which, she would sit on a raised sofa and greet guests with curtsies or bows. These events offered a contrast to the aloof monarchs of Europe, and opened the doors of the executive mansion to the American people.

Additionally, during Congressional sessions, Martha invited cabinet members and other officials to dinner parties, reinforcing the social framework of the presidency. However, the grandeur and formality of these occasions sparked controversy, with accusations of recreating a royal court in the democratic republic. Despite this criticism, the Washingtons were determined to remain accessible, with George hosting formal weekly Tuesday afternoon receptions, or "levies."

The limitations of Martha’s public role, however, made her feel more confined as she referred to herself as "more like a state prisoner than anything else" due to the extensive formalities.

Martha's tireless efforts to support her husband and the troops during the war, as well as her gracious hosting, earned her a reputation for patriotism that boosted George's popularity.

However, the restrictions on Martha's freedom and privacy as First Lady weighed heavily on her, and she longed to return to the tranquility of Mount Vernon.

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  • Drawing rooms were formal spaces in the homes of the wealthy where guests were received and entertained. In the context of Martha Washington's time, drawing rooms were social gatherings hosted by the First Lady to welcome guests and project dignity. These events allowed Martha to interact with visitors in a structured setting, showcasing the accessibility of the presidency while maintaining a sense of formality. The drawing rooms served as a platform for Martha to engage with a wide range of individuals, contributing to the establishment of social traditions within the new presidential role.
  • Levies were formal gatherings hosted by the President where guests could meet him in a less formal setting. They were a way for the President to interact with a wider range of people and maintain accessibility. These events were part of Martha Washington's efforts to balance formality with approachability in the new presidential role. Levies were held weekly and provided a platform for social interaction and communication between the President and the public.
  • Martha Washington faced limitations in her public role as First Lady due to societal expectations and the lack of a defined framework for her position. These constraints made her feel confined and restricted in her actions and expressions, leading her to describe herself as feeling like a "state prisoner." Despite her desire for more freedom and privacy, Martha had to navigate the demands of her role with grace and diplomacy, balancing the expectations of the public with her personal desires for a more tranquil life.
  • Martha Washington faced limitations and pressures as First Lady, feeling confined by the formalities and expectations of her role. Despite her efforts to support her husband and the nation, she longed for the peace and privacy of her home at Mount Vernon. These conflicting emotions ...

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The political and social controversies surrounding the Washingtons

George and Martha Washington's approach to social gatherings and their domestic traditions raised eyebrows and controversies, fueled by Jeffersonian Republican criticisms of elitism and anti-republican sentiments.

George and Martha's social gatherings and domestic traditions were criticized by Jeffersonian Republicans as being elitist and anti-Republican.

Critics were questioning the state drawing room event, pointing to the formality and structural resemblance to monarchical functions as unfit for a democracy. Republican press and some attendees of George and Martha Washington's social events openly attacked these for their aristocratic demeanor. The President's levees were symbols of inequality, creating a parallel between Washington's practices and those of a monarchy.

The Washingtons were accused of trying to recreate a monarchical court, which threatened the democratic principles of the new nation.

Dialogues from the time reveal a deep concern for the presidential gatherings' resemblance to monarchical practices. Comparisons were drawn between Martha Washington's receptions and the grandeur one would expect in the palace of Versailles, pointing to perceived imitations of European royal customs. The Washingtons' critics saw their receptions as symbolic of elitism, frivolity, and in direct contrast to Republican principles. They were likened to British royal court practices, creating a stark contrast with the egalitarian values birthed from the Revolution. Access restrictions to the Executive Mansion only amplified these perceptions, with a Pennsylvania senator decrying the Washingtons' social traditions as regressive and anti-Republican.

Martha faced intense personal scrutiny and was attacked for her queenly behavior and influence as the president's wife.

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  • Jeffersonian Republicans criticized George and Martha Washington for their elitist social gatherings and domestic traditions, viewing them as contrary to the principles of a republic. They believed that the Washingtons' practices resembled those of a monarchy, which went against the democratic values of the new nation. The criticisms stemmed from a fear that the Washingtons were attempting to establish a monarchical court in the United States, threatening the egalitarian ideals of the Revolution.
  • The state drawing room event referred to a formal gathering or reception held by the President and First Lady at the Executive Mansion (now known as the White House). These events were characterized by their ceremonial and structured nature, often involving etiquette and customs reminiscent of European royal courts. The term "drawing room" historically denotes a formal room in a residence where guests are received and entertained, typically in a refined and elegant setting. In the context of the Washingtons, these state drawing room events were criticized for their perceived aristocratic overtones and their resemblance to monarchical practices, which clashed with the ideals of a young democratic nation.
  • President's levees were formal social gatherings hosted by the President of the United States at the Executive Mansion (now known as the White House). These events were seen as symbols of status and power, often criticized for their resemblance to monarchical customs and exclusivity. The levees were part of the Washingtons' social traditions that drew criticism for being elitist and contrary to republican principles during the early years of the United States. The term "levee" in this context referred to a formal reception or assembly where guests would pay their respects to the President.
  • Martha Washington's receptions being likened to the grandeur of the palace of Versailles suggests that her social events were perceived as extravagant and opulent, akin to the lavish gatherings held in the French royal palace. This comparison highlights the perceived similarity in scale, formality, and aristocratic nature between Martha Washington's receptions and the elaborate ceremonies associated with European monarchies. Critics saw parallels in the style and ambiance of Martha's gatherings to the grandeur and sophistication commonly associated with Versailles, emphasizing the opulence and ceremonial aspects of her events.
  • Access restrictions to the Executive Mansion referred to limitations or controls placed on who could attend social events or gatherings hosted by the President and First Lady at the White House. These restrictions could involve criteria such as social status, political affiliation, or personal connections, determining who was allowed entry to these official functions. The exclusivity of these events and the perceived selectivity in guest lists contributed to criticisms of elitism and aristocratic behavior leveled against the Washingtons. Such restrictions added to the perception that the social gatherings at the Executive Mansion mirrored practices associated with European monarchies, which clashed with the ideals of equality and democracy espoused by the young American nation.
  • Martha Washington's gatherings were likened to European salons and royal courts due to their formalities and etiquette, whi ...

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  • The Washingtons' social gatherings could be seen as efforts to establish a sense of order and decorum in a new nation, providing a model for how official functions might be conducted with dignity and respect.
  • The formality of the Washingtons' events might have been intended to earn international respect and legitimacy for the fledgling republic, which was still establishing its identity on the world stage.
  • The criticisms of elitism may overlook the context of the era, where certain protocols and social structures were the norm, even in democratic societies.
  • The accusations of trying to recreate a monarchical court could be countered by the argument that the Washingtons were navigating uncharted territory in defining the role of a non-royal head of state and may have drawn upon familiar European models out of necessity rather than preference.
  • Martha Washington's behavior ...

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Martha's stance on slavery and its impact on enslaved families

The historical record provides a complex picture of Martha Washington’s relationship with the institution of slavery and how it resulted in lasting trauma for the families involved.

Despite George Washington's personal misgivings about slavery, Martha remained steadfast in her support of the institution.

While George Washington showed a gradual shift in his stance against slavery, Martha Washington appeared to have no such internal conflict. She never publicly questioned whether slavery was wrong and, in contrast, spent years attempting to recapture an enslaved maid who escaped. After George's passing, out of fear of slave uprisings, Martha remained reluctant to free the enslaved people from her first husband's estate tied to her through dower rights.

Martha's decision to free George's slaves in 1801, but not the Custis dower slaves, resulted in the painful separation of enslaved families.

On January 1st, 1801, Martha Washington did free the 123 slaves her husband owned outright, pursuant to his will. This act, however, underscored a painful reality: the emancipation did not extend to the 'Custis dower slaves' who came from her first husband's estate. As these enslaved people had intermarried and had children with George Washington's slaves for decades, the emancipation resulted in wrenching divisions amongst family units. For instance, the head carpenter at Mount Vernon, Isaac, was freed, but his wife Kitty remained enslaved as a dower slave.

Martha Washington's position was legally complex; while she could not free the Custis dower slaves, she did own individuals such as a man named Eilish outright. Yet, she chose to bequeath him to her grandson rather than grant his freedom.

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  • Enhance your critical thinking skills by writing reflective essays or journal entries that explore the moral decisions you would have made if you were in Martha Washington's position. Consider the legal, social, and personal factors that might influence your choices. This exercise can help you explore the impact of context on decision-making and develop empathy for individuals in com ...

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