In this episode of 2 Bears, 1 Cave, comedian Kyle Dunnigan provides an entertaining glimpse into his quest for romantic connection and his adventures in the dating world. He shares his approach to meeting potential partners through unexpected activities like pickleball and jiu-jitsu, and recounts amusing experiences with memorable dates and peculiar gifts.
Dunnigan and co-host Tom Segura also delve into the challenges of comedy performances, reflecting on occasions when they struggled to connect with unengaged or disinterested audiences. The two discuss Dunnigan's notable celebrity impressions, including his intricate portrayal of Elon Musk for his Netflix special and the varied reactions he has received from his subjects. Throughout the episode, both comedians showcase their dedication to their craft while maintaining a humorous perspective on the inevitable failures and hurdles that come with their profession.
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Kyle Dunnigan discusses his frustrations with dating, such as awkwardness, high standards, and connection issues. He describes his challenges, including gender role confusion, trivial arguments, and his own perceived shortcomings.
To improve his dating prospects, Dunnigan avoids apps and instead joins activities like pickleball and jiu-jitsu to meet women in person. While unconventional, activities provide additional benefits like improved sleep and self-esteem.
Dunnigan also recounts unique dating experiences, like a woman who would verbally narrate intimacy, giving odd gifts, and an eccentric writer he prefers not to identify.
Dunnigan and Tom Segura share stories of bombing at private events with unengaged audiences. Dunnigan describes an awkward performance as Joe Biden at Tony Robbins' birthday party, while Segura recalls an ignored set at a jewelry convention.
They discuss the challenge of capturing audience attention when crowds are disinterested or hostile. Though uncomfortable, Segura and Dunnigan see these failures as opportunities to sharpen their skills for future performances.
For his Netflix special "Kill or Be Killed," Dunnigan created an intricate Elon Musk impersonation using prosthetics and mannerisms, which Segura found hilarious.
While most celebrities appreciate impersonations, Dunnigan notes rare negative reactions like Bill Maher's displeasure. He finds impersonating live more demanding than pre-recorded, once unable to stop talking like a character until bed.
Dunnigan and Segura discuss their comedy projects, including Dunnigan's role as Biden in "Kill or Be Killed," which Segura praises as "absolutely hilarious."
Both convey their passion for comedy work despite challenges like busy schedules. Even facing criticism, they remain dedicated, finding the prospect of retiring from comedy unlikely given their attachment to the craft.
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Kyle Dunnigan shares his personal experiences and challenges in the realm of dating, shedding light on both the struggles faced and the tactics adopted in navigating this complex aspect of life.
Kyle discusses the awkwardness and disconnectedness of movie dates, like the time he saw an Amy Winehouse film and felt depressed afterwards. He recounts another date at an expensive restaurant where the woman talked only about herself, demonstrating a lack of reciprocal interest.
He also describes instances of gender role confusion during a date with a woman who didn't shave her armpits, and situations where he was expected to plan everything, which he finds stressful. When reflecting on connection issues, Kyle mentions a relationship where he and his partner would argue over trivial matters, and addresses his own perceived shortcomings, such as his difficulties with reading.
Dunnigan's comments suggest high standards might be a barrier, as seen when he went bowling with a highly competitive date, leaving him feeling judged. Despite these difficulties, he acknowledges the occasional success, such as making out with someone even though it felt unnatural. Dating brings pressure and uncertainty, and Kyle admits the possibility that he might be the common denominator in his less-than-ideal dating experiences.
Seeking a change from the disheartening world of dating apps, Kyle ventures into face-to-face social scenes by signing up for activities like pickleball, jiu-jitsu, and softball. He shares his apprehension about approaching women he doesn't know but holds firm to the belief that in-person meetings are preferable. His participation in classes and leagues, notably jiu-jitsu, is not solely aimed at meeting women—Kyle cites additional reasons such as better sleep and enhanced self-esteem, which ultimately contribute indirectly to dating confidence.
Dating and Relationships
Kyle Dunnigan and Tom Segura share their personal experiences with the unique challenges of performing stand-up comedy at private events, highlighting the potential pitfalls as well as the growth opportunities these gigs provide.
Kyle Dunnigan recounts performing as Joe Biden on a big screen at Tony Robbins' birthday party, for which he was paid $25,000. Despite preparations with Robbins' handlers, the performance felt awkward as the audience, exhausted from a day of activities including shark hunting, seemed too tired to engage, leading to a sense that he bombed. Robbins' mixed greeting of encouragement and insult added to the discomfort. Dunnigan also shares an experience of embarrassment trying to get food at the buffet after his disastrous set.
Tom Segura recalls a jewelry convention gig in a ballroom where an inefficient PA system and a disinterested crowd who ignored him during his set insinuated humiliation. Unlike a band, comics need active listening, and Segura's attempts to engage the audience, including taunting them, varied in response, with some members becoming upset.
Kyle describes a scenario hosted by motivational speaker Tony Robbins, where a joke he told resulted in complete silence and walkouts. Robbins even expressed a desire to forget the night. Segura faced a similar challenge when performing at an event by Carson Palmer, where he was ignored by the mingling attendees.
Both comics reveal the struggle of trying to capture an audience's attention when no one is inclined to listen or engage, whether due to the wrong environment for their humor or simply disinterest from the crowd. They also discuss the contrasting attention a well-known figure like Carson can command compared to their own unnoticed efforts on stage.
Comedy Performance Experiences
Kyle Dunnigan and Tom Segura discuss the nuances and challenges of performing celebrity impersonations, including live improv and the varied reactions they elicit from the celebrities themselves.
Kyle Dunnigan performs an impression of Elon Musk in a series of comedic skits for the Netflix special "Kill or Be Killed." Dunnigan, who looks nothing like Musk, used prosthetics to more closely match Musk’s appearance, even joking that the prosthetics made him look like "a fat bastard from Austin Powers." The impersonation captures Musk's quirks, including his mannerisms, stammering, and distinctive laugh.
In the skits, Dunnigan's Musk is depicted humorously as couch-surfing at friends' homes, beginning with Robert Kennedy Jr. Dunnigan’s version of Musk offers Kennedy $100 million for a place to stay and comments on random objects, which helps create a humorous and eccentric character. Dunnigan wore an outfit that added to the authenticity of his Elon Musk impersonation during the special.
Tom Segura found Dunnigan's Elon Musk impression hilarious, noting that Kyle was "nailing it," with many people intrigued by what an Elon Musk impression entails.
Dunnigan shares that celebrity impressions can evoke a range of responses. For example, Bill Maher did not appreciate Dunnigan’s impersonation of him and voiced his displeasure during his appearance on Joe Rogan’s show. Dunnigan recounted an anecdote about Maher’s negative reaction to a stewardess inquiring if he had seen Dunnigan’s impression, which led to Maher turning away and not tipping her. Despite some negative reactions, Dunnigan and Tom Segura observed that most celebrities generally find impressions flattering, with Maher’s reaction being an exception. Dunnigan suggested that celebrities should pretend to like impressions even if they do not, to avoid seeming bothered.
In his act, Dunnigan also hints at incorporating an impersonation of Caitlyn Jenner, suggesting that celebrity reactions are an in ...
Impressions and Celebrity Impersonations
Tom and Kyle from the comedy industry discuss their experiences and commitment to the craft, including their involvement in Netflix specials and balancing their busy schedules.
In a recent conversation, Tom and Kyle touch upon their involvement in a Netflix special that brings live improv and celebrity impersonations to the fore. Kyle describes how in the Netflix special, his impersonation of Joe Biden is featured, with clever staging that projects him onto a screen as though he were zooming in from the White House. This segment is part of "Kill or Be Killed," a show described by Tom as a live Kill Tony experience. Tom shares that he finds Kyle "absolutely hilarious" on it, highlighting their multifaceted comedy talents.
Tom conveys his passion for the work he does beyond the financial rewards, enjoying the process of stand-up comedy and creating shows. Reflecting on the demands of maintaining various comedy projects, including TV appearances and touring schedules, Kyle resonates with Tom’s sentiment, admittedly feeling discomfort at not working. They explore the challenges inherent in their busy lives but demonstrate a clear preference for being engaged in their work over prolonged inactivity.
Attachment to their comedy work is apparent as both Tom and Kyle candidly discuss the ...
Comedy Industry Work and Projects
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