How to Get Along With Other People: 2 Strategies for Harmony

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Do people enjoy being around you? Is there more tension between you and others than you would like to have? Getting along with others is a crucial skill that can enhance your personal and professional life. Marc Reklau, in his book How to Become a People Magnet, says you can build stronger connections and create a more harmonious environment around you by showing appreciation and avoiding conflict. Keep reading for Reklau’s advice on how to get along with other people.

What Causes the Fear of Public Speaking? Past Trauma

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What causes the fear of public speaking? If you could pinpoint the reason for your own fear, how could that help you overcome your anxiety? In Speak With No Fear, Mike Acker suggests that the root of the fear of public speaking often lies in past traumatic experiences. He offers strategies to identify and work through these memories, helping you move past your anxiety and become a more confident speaker. Keep reading to understand Acker’s insights on uncovering—and healing from—the experiences that hold you back.

Gemeinschaftsgefühl: Adler Believed It Was Critical for Happiness

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Do you enjoy happiness and fulfillment in your relationships? Would you like to cultivate a stronger sense of community in your life? In The Courage to Be Happy, counselor Ichiro Kishimi and author Fumitake Koga explore the work of early 20th-century psychotherapist Alfred Adler and discuss why his ideas are still relevant. They explain Gemeinschaftsgefühl, Adler’s concept that translates to “community feeling,” or sense of community. Continue reading to discover how Adler’s teachings can transform your approach to relationships and community.

How to Read People’s Body Language for Signs of Stress

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How can you tell when someone’s stressed? What does a person’s body language say about them? You can observe someone’s behavior and mannerisms to develop a profile of their behavior. Additionally, you can read someone’s behavior and speech to detect stress—and potentially, signs of deception.  Keep reading to learn how to read people’s body language and detect went they’re stressed.

How to Deactivate Fight-or-Flight: Take Small Actions

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Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed by change? Do you want to know how to deactivate fight-or-flight responses that hold you back? Change doesn’t have to be scary. Clinical psychologist Robert Maurer writes that, by taking small, incremental steps, you can bypass your brain’s alarm system and embrace new possibilities with ease. This approach not only reduces fear but also helps build momentum and establish new behaviors. Keep reading to discover how tiny actions can lead to big transformations in your life.

3 Methods of Persuasion: Getting People to Want What You Want

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Do you know how to influence others effectively? How effective are you at drawing them in and winning them over to your ways of thinking? Mastering the art of persuasion is a valuable skill in all facets of life. In How to Become a People Magnet, Marc Reklau explores three methods of persuasion: leading people to your ideas, appealing to authority, and focusing on positive responses. Keep reading to discover how you can apply these methods in your daily life and increase your ability to influence others.

The Innate Desire for Independence (Adlerian Psychology)

A man walking away from chains on the ground symbolizes the innate desire for independence described in Adlerian psychology

How free do you feel? Is your past holding you back from becoming the person you want to be? Adlerian psychology offers insights into our innate desire for independence and freedom. It provides strategies to focus on what we can control and reframe our past experiences. These ideas can help us overcome obstacles and achieve personal growth. Keep reading to discover how you can take charge of your life and cultivate true independence.

What Are the Physical Signs of Stress? The 3 to Look Out For

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What are the physical signs of stress? What does it mean when someone’s blinking a lot? Chase Hughes explains that people tend to feel very stressed when they’re lying. So, monitoring someone’s behavior for signs of stress can help you determine whether they may be lying. Continue reading for the physical signs of stress so you can tell when someone is stressed or lying.

Kicking Confidence Gremlins to the Curb (The Squiggly Career)

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Are you struggling with self-doubt in your career? Do you want to boost your confidence and achieve your goals? In The Squiggly Career, Helen Tupper and Sarah Ellis share advice on overcoming “confidence gremlins” in the context of nonlinear careers. They offer practical methods to overcome limiting beliefs, acknowledge your successes, and build a strong support system. Read on to learn three ways to build self-confidence as you chase your career dreams.

One Small Step Can Change Your Life: Book Overview (Maurer)

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Are you eager to make a change in your life but can’t seem to make progress due to fear? Does uncertainty hold you back from your goals? According to clinical psychologist Robert Maurer, one small, achievable action is all it takes to overcome these obstacles and make change happen. In his book One Small Step Can Change Your Life, he unravels why it’s often hard to make changes: Change triggers your fight-or-flight response. Continue reading for our overview of One Small Step Can Change Your Life by Robert Maurer.