A happy woman giving a sad man a balloon as a way to boost someone's mood

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Do you have someone in your life you want to make happy? Can you transfer your own energy to someone else?

Energy doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Just as you’re energized by the people in your life, so too is the world affected by the energy you have to offer.

Take a look at how to boost someone’s mood, just as others do to you.

Energize Those Around You

Simon Alexander Ong says you should deeply consider how to boost someone’s mood and in what way the energy you bring to the world will linger into posterity. Even the small things we do can be significant to those we interact with. For this reason, Ong argues that everyone has the ability to help others, regardless of what’s going on in your life.

In the end, your energy is your most valuable possession, and what better use for it could there be than to elevate the world and lives around you? How to do this runs the gamut from being an energizing leader in your workplace or community to simply showing kindness to a person in need. Ong insists that by giving energy to others, you gift yourself with a sense of joy and fulfillment that keeps your positive energy flowing.

(Shortform note: Schwarzenegger makes a similar point in Be Useful, which he frames in the context of the modern-day myth that anyone can “pull themselves up by their bootstraps.” Some people believe that one person’s success means someone else’s loss, but Schwarzenegger insists that the opposite is true—that every step you take forward is made possible by someone else’s assistance, so achieving your dreams is a collective effort that you’re morally obliged to repay in kind. When you help others—whether in your career, as part of a hobby, or working with those in need—it creates a positive feedback cycle that benefits everyone involved.)

How to Boost Someone’s Mood With Your Own Energy

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Katie Doll

Somehow, Katie was able to pull off her childhood dream of creating a career around books after graduating with a degree in English and a concentration in Creative Writing. Her preferred genre of books has changed drastically over the years, from fantasy/dystopian young-adult to moving novels and non-fiction books on the human experience. Katie especially enjoys reading and writing about all things television, good and bad.

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