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Is it really true that anything that doesn’t kill you will make you stronger? Why will running from pain prevent you from growing?
Studies show that war and cancer survivors are more grounded and able to cope with struggle after overcoming pain and adversity. While these examples are extreme, it’s also true that experiencing some sort of pain, whether physical or emotional, strengthens you as a person.
Keep reading to learn how pain makes you stronger.
Pain Spurs Positive Change
We need pain and suffering, including the pain of struggle and failure, in our lives in order to grow.
Pain makes you stronger and shows you where you need to make changes. Pain also makes us more compassionate, less entitled, and more appreciative of the positives in life.
For instance, a group of Polish WW II survivors, who had traumatic experiences including surviving bombings and the Holocaust, ended up believing their experiences had made them better people. Their wartime experiences made them look at life differently. They weren’t bothered by daily frustrations and inconveniences. They were more confident and comfortable about their role in life. Although they still suffered from the effects, they also used their traumatic experiences to improve themselves and their lives.
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- How to clarify what's important to you (and not just what you think should be important)
- Why it's okay for things to not always go well in life
- Why you need to care about fewer things
