The Gentle “Cry-It-Out” Method: Let Your Baby Self-Soothe

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Is there a gentle “cry-it-out” method? What are the benefits of letting your child cry it out? The Self-Soothe Method, also known as the “cry-it-out” method, centers on putting your child in a safe sleep environment and allowing them to learn to self-soothe. This method may be stressful for your baby as they adjust, but Alexis Dubief asserts that healthy sleep is worth a brief period of distress. Discover why letting your baby cry during the night isn’t all bad.

Toxic Shame and Childhood Trauma: 3 Experiences That Harm

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What causes toxic shame to develop in childhood? How do early experiences shape our emotional responses and relationships later in life? The connection between toxic shame and childhood trauma runs deep, affecting how we view ourselves and interact with others. Three specific childhood experiences contribute to toxic shame development, and understanding these patterns can help break the cycle of emotional distress. Keep reading to discover the crucial experiences that shape our emotional health.

Dr. Shefali: Motherhood Myths Based on Tradition Harm Women

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What myths about motherhood might be shaping your perspective as a woman? How can these societal expectations affect your relationship with yourself and others? According to Dr. Shefali, motherhood myths that arise from traditional beliefs are only hurting women. Her insights reveal how patriarchal expectations can impact women’s identities, relationships, and overall well-being—whether they have children or not. Read more to explore Dr. Shefali’s ideas that could transform your understanding of motherhood and womanhood.

How Tarana Burke Prevented Child Abuse From Repeating

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How did Tarana Burke prevent child abuse after giving birth to her child, Kaia? How did Burke end the abusive relationship with Kaia’s father? Although Burke was an activist before giving birth to Kaia, it was ultimately motherhood that prompted her to step up and form her own movement. Burke explains how her own abusive relationship and an interaction with Reverend James Luther Bevel compelled her to protect her child. Continue reading to learn how Burke protected Kaia from abuse.

How Tarana Burke Helped People Talk About Sexual Assault

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How did Tarana Burke’s workshops help people talk about sexual assault? How did the “me too” movement help Burke in her personal life? The betrayals and dead ends Burke met in Selma irreparably fractured her ties to that community, so she decided to relocate to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. There, she got a job as a youth advocate and turned “me too” into a full-fledged program. Here’s how Burke transformed “me too” into an open space for victims of childhood sexual abuse.

The Courage to Be Happy: Book Overview (Kishimi & Koga)

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What can the earliest days of psychology teach us about being happy? Does happiness require courage? The Courage to Be Happy, a book by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga, explores happiness through the lens of Adlerian psychology. A sequel to The Courage to Be Disliked, the book is a dialogue between a young teacher and an elderly philosopher about finding happiness and raising well-adjusted children. Keep reading for an overview of this book that might challenge your beliefs about happiness, independence, and relationships.

Alfred Adler: Parenting Is Guiding Kids Toward Innate Goals

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Are you raising independent, unselfish children? Do you support your kids without stifling their growth? In the psychology teachings of Alfred Adler, parenting gets significant attention. He offered a unique approach to child-rearing and education, emphasizing respect, guidance, and natural consequences over traditional rewards and punishments. Read on to discover how Adler’s principles can transform your parenting or teaching style and help children thrive.

Raising Good Humans: Book Overview (Hunter Clarke-Fields)

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What’s Raising Good Humans by Hunter Clarke-Fields about? Are you tired of feeling like parenting is a power struggle? Raising Good Humans encourages parents to incorporate mindfulness into their daily routines. Clarke-Fields’s structured approach to navigating modern parenting involves being patient, parenting intentionally, and fostering relationships built on mutual respect and understanding. Read below for a brief Raising Good Humans book overview.

How to Raise Good Kids: The Mindful Parenting Approach

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Do you want your kids to grow up as mature, kind adults? How can you raise kids with compassion? According to Hunter Clarke-Fields, building a strong relationship with your kids is the key to raising good humans. If you have a strong relationship, your children will want to work with you to resolve conflict (at least most of the time).  Keep reading to learn how to raise good kids with a healthy relationship and mindful parenting.

What Is Mindful Parenting and How Can You Practice It?

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What is mindful parenting? How can you stay calm when your kids are pushing your buttons? According to Hunter Clarke-Fields, mindful parenting starts with you. You need to pay better attention to what’s going on internally before you can focus on your relationship with your kids. Find out how to take better care of yourself so you can form a healthy relationship with your children.