The Importance of Seeing People as Individuals vs. People

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Why do people deserve to be seen as individuals? How can you stop relying on stereotypes to judge someone? David Brooks claims that to really know another person, you first have to see them as an individual. Unlike a collective group of people, individuals have a unique set of life experiences, characteristics, motivations, and goals. Here’s why you should start looking at people as individuals vs. people you can’t tell apart.

Gabor Maté’s The Myth of Normal: Book Overview

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What does it mean to be “normal”? What role does trauma play in your health? What is the biopsychosocial model of health? In The Myth of Normal, physician and trauma expert Gabor Maté writes that much of what society labels as abnormal behavior, mental illness, or dysfunction actually represents normal responses to adverse life experiences. He advocates a trauma-informed perspective that addresses the root psychological and social causes of what we label as illness. Continue reading for an overview of Gabor Maté’s The Myth of Normal.

Everyone Has Value: Here’s How to Remind Them

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Does everyone have value? How can you recognize someone’s worth to make them feel loved? To get to know someone deeply, you must recognize each person’s great worth as a human being. David Brooks emphasizes that this is crucial even when you’ve just met a person or expect to never see them again. Take a look at how you should remind someone that they’re worthy.

Why There Is No Such Thing as Normal or Abnormal (Maté)

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How do societal norms perpetuate unhealthy standards? Where do “abnormal” behaviors stem from? Are the mind and body one? In The Myth of Normal, physician and trauma expert Gabor Maté says that there is no such thing as normal when it comes to health and behaviors. Maté argues that the biomedical model fails to understand health holistically. Here’s why “abnormal” behaviors are actually normal responses to one’s environment.

Why We Should All Try to Understand Different Perspectives

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Why do politics divide people? How much of an effort should you make to understand someone’s life story? If you truly want to get to know someone, you have to stop assuming they come from a similar background as you. David Brooks considers it vital to learn to look at others and appreciate the depth and merit of their perspective. Keep reading to learn more about why understanding different perspectives is important.

How Social Conditions Hardwire Us for Disease and Trauma

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What role does society play in trauma? What social conditions can harm your physical and mental health? In his book The Myth of Normal, Gabor Maté describes how certain deeply ingrained structures in Western society like racism, misogyny, and capitalism instill and reinforce trauma. These factors don’t just shape our societies—they have tangible, harmful effects on our physical and mental health.  Here’s a look at the role that society can play in trauma.

Billy Walters in Prison: Why He Went & What He Learned

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What’s it like to go from being a successful businessman to serving time in federal prison? How can someone turn a devastating setback into an opportunity for growth and positive change? Billy Walters’s prison experience transformed his perspective on life and sparked a passion for helping others. His journey from convicted insider trader to prison reform advocate reveals powerful insights about redemption, family bonds, and second chances. Keep reading to discover how Walters’s time behind bars opened up his life to good things.

The Biopsychosocial Model of Health (Explanation & Benefits)

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How is the biopsychosocial model of health different from the biomedical model? What holistic healing practices can you try? Physician and trauma expert Gabor Maté says that the biopsychosocial model is much more effective than the traditional biomedical model when it comes to healthcare. The biopsychosocial model takes thoughts, feelings, social interactions, and environment into account when it comes to health. Here’s Maté’s argument for the biopsychosocial model for health and healing.

Awe-Inspiring Art: Why Creative Expressions Move Us

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What makes music touch our souls across cultural boundaries? How do visual arts connect us to something larger than ourselves? From cave paintings to K-pop performances, art has a remarkable ability to move us emotionally and unite us across cultures. Dacher Keltner explores how awe-inspiring art creates deep connections, transcends language barriers, and reveals universal patterns in human emotion. Keep reading to understand why art can leave us breathless with wonder.

How to Respect the Impact of Culture on Someone’s Life

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How impactful is culture on people’s lives? How can you address someone’s cultural history in an engaging conversation? One way to engage more deeply with people’s stories is to look for the influence of their culture on the events they’re telling you about. Oftentimes, the way someone was raised determines the choices they make and how they perceive the world. Here’s why you should keep the impact of culture in the back of your head when listening to someone’s story.