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What is it like inside the mind of an abuser? Why do abusers behave the way they do? In Why Does He Do That?, Lundy Bancroft examines the logic behind abusive thinking. He claims abusers feel comfortable engaging in hurtful and immoral behavior for their own benefit. Below we’ll look at three characteristics of abusers in detail.
Do Harry and William get along? Why is there tension between them? In his autobiography Spare, Prince Harry portrays his older brother Prince William in a negative light. Harry owes this to the sibling rivalry that William takes part in. Keep reading to learn why the brothers aren’t on good terms.
Who is a part of Prince Harry’s family tree? What family members does he have the most tension with? In Spare, Prince Harry details why he and his wife, Meghan Markle, decided to leave the Royal Family and move to America. This, in part, is because of his often difficult relationships with his closest family members. Below we’ll look at the relationships that caused Harry and Meghan to leave.
What is abusive behavior? How do abusers subtly manipulate and intimidate their victims? Abuse isn’t just physical—it can also be emotional and verbal abuse that many victims might not recognize at first. But Lundy Bancroft’s book Why Does He Do That? will teach you how to spot abusive behavior from a mile away. Bancroft breaks up abusive behavior into two categories, which we’ll look at below.
What makes a good role model? What should a role model be able to accomplish? What characteristics should they have? Author and educator Luke Burgis wrote his first book, Wanting, to explain why we imitate others and pursue false desires in society. In the book, he explains what makes a good role model, how to identify and choose role models in your life, and how to avoid bad role models. Read on to find out what makes a good role model, according to Burgis’s advice.
What are Robert Greene’s nine types of seducers in The Art of Seduction? Which types are more common among men, and which ones among women? In his book The Art of Seduction, Robert Greene describes nine types of seducers, each with a distinct seduction style. Greene says Types 1 and 2 are specifically female and male types, respectively. The other types can all apply to any gender. Below, we’ll define Greene’s nine seducer types, using his labels for them, and we’ll describe each one’s seductive quality.
Why do people abuse other people? Is there logic behind abuse? While abuse is a terrible thing, many abusers actually don’t believe it is. In fact, Lundy Bancroft’s book Why Does He Do That? explains that abusers feel justified in the way they act and do so intentionally. Keep reading to learn why people abuse others.
Are abusers narcissists? Why are all abusers so selfish? In Why Does He Do That?, Lundy Bancroft argues that all abusers are deeply selfish and lack empathy. This explains why they don’t care about their victims’ happiness or care about them in any way. Let’s look deeper at how abusers demonstrate narcissism.
How effectively do you keep track of all the people in your life? Do you ever lose phone numbers or forget important birthdays? In his book The Organized Mind, neuroscientist Daniel J. Levitin discusses how to externalize and sort information and objects. He explains how can you use the power of externalization and organization to improve your relationships. Keep reading to learn why modern relationships can overwhelm us and how to organize contacts in a way that takes that pressure off.
Are you a victim of abuse? How do you stop abuse? In Why Does He Do That?, Bancroft’s explanations for abusive thinking help account for why abuse is hard to prevent: Most abusers don’t want to stop being abusive. Stopping means losing all the benefits that he gains from being abusive, but there is a way for you to get out of an abusive relationship. Continue reading to find out how to stop abuse.